I get the same damn thing man... at those clubs we get up on the boxes and dance, and girls will come up to the box and stare and smile and try to touch your ass, but when you get down they are all intimidated and start dancing with their girlfriends.
Then there is always one slut who just marches right up to you and starts feeling your chest and basically offers herself to you. 9 times out of 10 that is turn-off.
Its funny, I started this whole bodybuilding business to get more girls without the effort, and I have to work harder now than before to assure them that I like them and they aren't just a piece of ass for me. When you look good girls think you are a player for some reason, why? I don't know. I don't think I give off that vibe at all, I'm usually pretty quiet and restrained, and don't flirt that much.