Hey, kinda new here and i dont post much but the reason women are intimidated is b/c 9 out of 10 times they'll probably think you're cocky and that u get approached all the time, so they dont want to risk getting rejected. I think an ugly chick would be more likely to approach u b/c like u said, they figure they have nothing to lose...thats how it is...ugly guys approach me all the time and hot guys will just stare but never say a word, it sucks!