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nangiggles

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So, after having some really shitty issues at work and on a personal level for the last couple of weeks; I came to the realization that I dont have any real friends. There's people I can skype or text with but I have no one here to hug, to go out with, to crash at their place, etc.

The thought if it really disturbed me. Between a difficult job/hours and my social awkwardness I just haven't established any close friends during the last 4 years :worried:

How many close friends do you guys really have?
 
nangiggles said:
So, after having some really shitty issues at work and on a personal level for the last couple of weeks; I came to the realization that I dont have any real friends. There's people I can skype or text with but I have no one here to hug, to go out with, to crash at their place, etc.

The thought if it really disturbed me. Between a difficult job/hours and my social awkwardness I just haven't established any close friends during the last 4 years :worried:

How many close friends do you guys really have?
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Hugs? What do you need hugs for? That shit makes you soft. I've always got 2 or 3 places I can always count on crashing at after the bar, which is a necessity for me
 
3 I can really depend on

Mostly my own fault ... get invited to dew stuff with really decent people fairly often, butt usually decline

guess I'm just a loner
 
I try to mask my feeling of feeling pathetic with booze & hyrdos, butt reality keeps seeping in



please respond
 
Nan, you deserve better..you're a good bro
 
Nan, you are really busy don't feel pathetic or be too hard on yourself

As we get older friends get put on the backburner and it's easy to wind up like that. I am the same way, I let myself get like that all the time even my RL friends I text way too much...someone takes up all my time!

Anyway, don't feel bad it happens to a lot of us so if you want more friends then just make that a priority. In six months you'll have a ton of people that can hug/hold you xx
 
PICK3 said:
3 I can really depend on

Mostly my own fault ... get invited to dew stuff with really decent people fairly often, butt usually decline

guess I'm just a loner
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Relying on hydros isn't the key they make me anti-social after a while and maybe you should put more effort towards spending time with at least the people you feel are genuine and could impact your life one way or another, not everyone. I'm a loner too, but I'm starting to realize I've passed up lots of good things being that way, especially possible significant others that would have been good for me.
 
cindylou said:
Nan, you are really busy don't feel pathetic or be too hard on yourself

As we get older friends get put on the backburner and it's easy to wind up like that. I am the same way, I let myself get like that all the time even my RL friends I text way too much...someone takes up all my time!

Anyway, don't feel bad it happens to a lot of us so if you want more friends then just make that a priority. In six months you'll have a ton of people that can hug/hold you xx
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Well I had legit friends in CR including 2 close friends I've known for 17 and for 13 years, they are always there for me to chat/skype since I moved. But havent really made many here in the US, there are a couple but they are friends with both myself and my husband.
 
You'll be good. You'll learn to make friends.

Making new friends will be a lot more fun than staying in a relationship that makes you unhappy.
 
I can probably count my close friends on one hand and most of them don't live in the same city either. I'm kind of in a similar place, Nan. I was always so busy before and didn't put the time in to my social life. Try to keep yourself open to it. You never know where you'll meet someone and connect. I've forced myself to go out when I get invited. Some people, I was surprised that it was fun and there's a couple, I'll probably not go out with again.

For whatever it's worth, I'm always here if you need to chat. :)
 
nangiggles said:
Well I had legit friends in CR including 2 close friends I've known for 17 and for 13 years, they are always there for me to chat/skype since I moved. But havent really made many here in the US, there are a couple but they are friends with both myself and my husband.
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when you get older, you hang out with people you meet around your kids activities. Since you are without kids, most of your age group is occupied with those activities.

Have a kid. IMHO
 
nangiggles said:
I have for almost ten years. No need to fish for info digi, it's the same thing it's always been between us. I just have no more patience for it.
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i'd be totally bummed (and probably out the damn door) if i didn't really enjoy the hell out of hanging out with my wife.
 
nangiggles said:
So, after having some really shitty issues at work and on a personal level for the last couple of weeks; I came to the realization that I dont have any real friends. There's people I can skype or text with but I have no one here to hug, to go out with, to crash at their place, etc.

The thought if it really disturbed me. Between a difficult job/hours and my social awkwardness I just haven't established any close friends during the last 4 years :worried:

How many close friends do you guys really have?
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lolololoolllolololololollo

sounds like your depression is right around the iPhone 6 release - faggot
 
Do like what all the other lonely people do. Buy a pet and treat it like it's a human. You know, let it in the house, take it shopping, have conversations with it, etc...
 
Anabolic-B said:
Relying on hydros isn't the key they make me anti-social after a while and maybe you should put more effort towards spending time with at least the people you feel are genuine and could impact your life one way or another, not everyone. I'm a loner too, but I'm starting to realize I've passed up lots of good things being that way, especially possible significant others that would have been good for me.
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Is the irony of anabolic giving life coaching advice lost just on me :confused:
 
I believe you're going to experience a growth spurt. I've read a lot of spirituality books which helped me out.

Solitude creates growth. When you learn to be comfortable being in solitude, ANY company increases in worth. "You're not alone if you're happy with her person you are, you are your best company"

Anyway

Its a phase brother. you'll your independent nature will grow and people DO end up gravitating to it
 
saucefire said:
I believe you're going to experience a growth spurt. I've read a lot of spirituality books which helped me out.

Solitude creates growth. When you learn to be comfortable being in solitude, ANY company increases in worth. "You're not alone if you're happy with her person you are, you are your best company"

Anyway

Its a phase brother. you'll your independent nature will grow and people DO end up gravitating to it
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Fez got excited as fuck when he read that first sentence
 
saucefire said:
I believe you're going to experience a growth spurt. I've read a lot of spirituality books which helped me out.

Solitude creates growth. When you learn to be comfortable being in solitude, ANY company increases in worth. "You're not alone if you're happy with her person you are, you are your best company"

Anyway

Its a phase brother. you'll your independent nature will grow and people DO end up gravitating to it
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That's true I completely agree with that...sometimes.

however isolation is a sign of depression. I don't know if solitude always creates growth by default.

It can create growth. Not always. Solitude can also be a dark hole, and it get can get hard or sometimes impossible to find your way out it if you get too comfortable there
 
Faizakafez said:
and clearly your life is in shambles right now- not a real friend in the world ...hence why you are on EF spilling your emotional vomit all over this excellent forum.

loololololol at your life... great life beaner- just move back to Mexico and open up a tamale stand.
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We all have our ups and downs in different areas of life. I'm not happy with my partner right now or my social group. But my self esteem and self worth haven't been this well in ages, my work is gratifying and I get to help children, I travel across America reunifying families. I have my house, my bets, my mother and friends abroad. I'm not depressed I'm just concerned about things, nothing I can't fix by myself. You're the only one here with a sad pathetic life.
 
Life is pretty easy. If there is something in life that makes you unhappy get it out of your life. If you are sick of your husband, then leave him. If you need friends then go out and meet people. Join a dating site or something like meetup.com to find groups with similar interests.
 
Oh sure...I see where your priorities are ;)
 
nangiggles said:
We all have our ups and downs in different areas of life. I'm not happy with my partner right now or my social group. But my self esteem and self worth haven't been this well in ages, my work is gratifying and I get to help children, I travel across America reunifying families. I have my house, my bets, my mother and friends abroad. I'm not depressed I'm just concerned about things, nothing I can't fix by myself. You're the only one here with a sad pathetic life.
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TlDR
 
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