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so 2 days, yes TWO, after signing divorce papers, my (ex)wife goes to her "friends" house at 11 pm and says she's spending the night and is just going straight to work from there at 8 a.m. really ****ing nice. i wonder what she was doing... teh whole time in the conversation she kept trying not to say "him" and replacing it with "them" . like i'm so ****ing stupid i don't know what that means.

oh, and the night before that, she had this same "friend" over to her house for dinner which was exactly 1 day after signing the papers.
the worst part is she told me about it acting like i wouldn't care at all.
holy ****, did she really think i was going to say "cool, have fun on your date, hope you have a great time finding a newer better me."?
seriously, ****!
at least i know she will never find a new better me! like she could ever find anyone smarter, stronger or better looking than me anyway.... it's really just about the complete disregard for my feelings that pisses me off.

yes i know she can do whatever she wants, that's not my problem. my problem is her lack of compassion and empathy.
/rant


actually this was last thursday, i posted on a couple other forums i'm on, and today i finally find out that she's actually been fucking this other guy for hte past 6 weeks, or basically when she starting talking all the crazy shit about divorce.
 
Seven Stages of Grief.

It is widely accepted that there are seven distinct stages in the grieving process.

The seven stages of grief for a scale that one who has suffers a loss will ascend over time.

The seven stages of grief are:


Shock or Disbelief


Denial


Bargaining


Guilt


Anger


Depression


Acceptance and Hope


Most people will see some if not all of the seven stages of grief in themselves as they grieve.

The first stage is obvious and I think we all see this in the first breaking of the news of a death or loss. We quite naturally are shocked and find the gravity of the situation difficult to take in.

Denial is the next stage of the grieving process and sometimes this stage will last only a moment and with others it may last for quite some time.

Each of the seven stages of grief will take different lengths of time to work through form person to person. Sometimes the first three stages may only last a moment and with others they could last for some considerable time.

Bargaining, although it may seem like a strange stage, is something that a lot of us do and has its roots in “what could I do to reverse the loss”, “take me instead”, this is quite natural and is an observed stage of grieving.

Guilt comes in and is very close to bargaining. One tends to blame themselves in an effort to reconcile the loss.

When anger occurs in the grieving process we know that the person is starting to come out of it. All of the stages up to this one have been very inward responses whereas anger is more of an outreach.

Depression is not so much a stage, it can come and go throughout the whole grieving process but when the anger stage is passed depression will also become less and less.

Finally acceptance and hope will retune and marks the seventh stage of grief. At this point we understand that life will never be the same but we see hope and meaning in the future.

The seven stages of grief as outlined above should not be taken as a hard and fast rule but more as an index of the stages of the grieving process.

The main point is that we can see our grief as a very natural process that we will work through from the initial shock to the eventual hope.
 
Bro the divorce is done ans why else did you think she wanted one? Cause she was whoring around. It's just time to move on and be glad that you don't have any kids with her!!!
 
you aren't married anymore, she can do whatever she wants. didn't you realize that when you got the divorce?
 
Beachboy6294 said:
Bro the divorce is done ans why else did you think she wanted one? Cause she was whoring around. It's just time to move on and be glad that you don't have any kids with her!!!
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yeh u rite!! :artist:
 
You are looking at it the wrong way.

Instead of focusing on her (which is sorta silly since you are divorced regardless of who she was fucking or for how long) FOCUS ON YOU!!

You get to reinvent YOU and move onward and upward.

I know how much it hurts having gone through a very nasty divorce myself. But now I am very happily remarried to a wonderful man.

I've said it before and I will say it again:

"My first husband was a lesson. My last husband is a GIFT."
 
19psi said:
so 2 days, yes TWO, after signing divorce papers, my (ex)wife goes to her "friends" house at 11 pm and says she's spending the night and is just going straight to work from there at 8 a.m. really ****ing nice. i wonder what she was doing... teh whole time in the conversation she kept trying not to say "him" and replacing it with "them" . like i'm so ****ing stupid i don't know what that means.

oh, and the night before that, she had this same "friend" over to her house for dinner which was exactly 1 day after signing the papers.
the worst part is she told me about it acting like i wouldn't care at all.
holy ****, did she really think i was going to say "cool, have fun on your date, hope you have a great time finding a newer better me."?
seriously, ****!
at least i know she will never find a new better me! like she could ever find anyone smarter, stronger or better looking than me anyway.... it's really just about the complete disregard for my feelings that pisses me off.

yes i know she can do whatever she wants, that's not my problem. my problem is her lack of compassion and empathy.
/rant


actually this was last thursday, i posted on a couple other forums i'm on, and today i finally find out that she's actually been fucking this other guy for hte past 6 weeks, or basically when she starting talking all the crazy shit about divorce.
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she is trying to make you jealous and it is working......cut off any comminication from her, unless you have children, and then keep it minimal and just about children. It will be much healthier for you not knowing what she is up to
 
19psi said:
so 2 days, yes TWO, after signing divorce papers, my (ex)wife goes to her "friends" house at 11 pm and says she's spending the night and is just going straight to work from there at 8 a.m. really ****ing nice. i wonder what she was doing... teh whole time in the conversation she kept trying not to say "him" and replacing it with "them" . like i'm so ****ing stupid i don't know what that means.

oh, and the night before that, she had this same "friend" over to her house for dinner which was exactly 1 day after signing the papers.
the worst part is she told me about it acting like i wouldn't care at all.
holy ****, did she really think i was going to say "cool, have fun on your date, hope you have a great time finding a newer better me."?
seriously, ****!
at least i know she will never find a new better me! like she could ever find anyone smarter, stronger or better looking than me anyway.... it's really just about the complete disregard for my feelings that pisses me off.

yes i know she can do whatever she wants, that's not my problem. my problem is her lack of compassion and empathy.
/rant


actually this was last thursday, i posted on a couple other forums i'm on, and today i finally find out that she's actually been fucking this other guy for hte past 6 weeks, or basically when she starting talking all the crazy shit about divorce.
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Sorry but the marriage was likely OVER long before she signed the papers.
 
19psi said:
yes i know she can do whatever she wants, that's not my problem. my problem is her lack of compassion and empathy.
/rant


actually this was last thursday, i posted on a couple other forums i'm on, and today i finally find out that she's actually been fucking this other guy for hte past 6 weeks, or basically when she starting talking all the crazy shit about divorce.
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it obviously wasn't crazy- she didn't want to be with you anymore. Your problem is not her lack of compassion and empathy- she didn't have to wait 2 minutes before fucking someone else all she wants.

Your problem is you. You're divorced. move on. find someone that makes you happy.
 
stilleto said:
it obviously wasn't crazy- she didn't want to be with you anymore. Your problem is not her lack of compassion and empathy- she didn't have to wait 2 minutes before fucking someone else all she wants.

Your problem is you. You're divorced. move on. find someone that makes you happy.
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Harsh... but true.
 
haha you guys are right, but it still sucks. it's easy to say "move on" but not quite to easy to do when it's you. it's easier when you didn't plan on spending hte rest of your life with someone too. that changes teh game.
nonethelss, i dont' want to know anything about what she does, she made it a point to make sure i knew during a discusssion we were having about other things. it's not like i'm following her around and shit, i live my own life now and i'm doing what i want but it's different when she made it a point to tell me. oh well....
 
Bro, Take your time and heal. You really don`t want her back do you? Look at the kindof person she is and realize that you are better off w/o her. You really have to focus on you...Don`t go looking for someone else cause you will screw yourself up even more. Take some time for you........
 
19psi said:
haha you guys are right, but it still sucks. it's easy to say "move on" but not quite to easy to do when it's you. it's easier when you didn't plan on spending hte rest of your life with someone too. that changes teh game.
nonethelss, i dont' want to know anything about what she does, she made it a point to make sure i knew during a discusssion we were having about other things. it's not like i'm following her around and shit, i live my own life now and i'm doing what i want but it's different when she made it a point to tell me. oh well....
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Did the thought ever occur to you that she did that because SHE WANTS YOU TO MOVE ON?

Maybe she feels badly to some extent that she checked out before you did?

We can all make assumptions forever. Bottom line, it's over and has been for some time. I know that hurts but when you realize what a blessing this is for you, you won't be hurt anymore. You will feel LIBERATED.
 
Sure is funny how the dudes here are generally sympathetic while the bishes here run to her defense! The man's down. Stop kicking him in the junk and toss him some sympathy - even if you can't totally rationalize it with your she-brains.
 
Crocodome said:
Sure is funny how the dudes here are generally sympathetic while the bishes here run to her defense! The man's down. Stop kicking him in the junk and toss him some sympathy - even if you can't totally rationalize it with your she-brains.
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i didn't see anyone running to her defense. she doesn't need one.

He's whining about what his ex does and they aren't married. you want to coddle him, or you want him to see things from a better perspective and get over it?
 
Perhaps one of the differences between women and men... I don't think I need to fix him. Per the subject title, it's a rant. I listened and therefor offer a "that sux, man." That is all.
 
Crocodome said:
Perhaps one of the differences between women and men... I don't think I need to fix him. Per the subject title, it's a rant. I listened and therefor offer a "that sux, man." That is all.
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well, i also didn't feel the need to lie to him either. it doesn't suck at all unless he's going to monitor what his ex wife does and take it personally.
 
19psi said:
so 2 days, yes TWO, after signing divorce papers, my (ex)wife goes to her "friends" house at 11 pm and says she's spending the night and is just going straight to work from there at 8 a.m. really ****ing nice. i wonder what she was doing... teh whole time in the conversation she kept trying not to say "him" and replacing it with "them" . like i'm so ****ing stupid i don't know what that means.

oh, and the night before that, she had this same "friend" over to her house for dinner which was exactly 1 day after signing the papers.
the worst part is she told me about it acting like i wouldn't care at all.
holy ****, did she really think i was going to say "cool, have fun on your date, hope you have a great time finding a newer better me."?
seriously, ****!
at least i know she will never find a new better me! like she could ever find anyone smarter, stronger or better looking than me anyway.... it's really just about the complete disregard for my feelings that pisses me off.

yes i know she can do whatever she wants, that's not my problem. my problem is her lack of compassion and empathy.
/rant


actually this was last thursday, i posted on a couple other forums i'm on, and today i finally find out that she's actually been fucking this other guy for hte past 6 weeks, or basically when she starting talking all the crazy shit about divorce.
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you need her to walk in on you doing another woman, so she can move on with her life..
 
Crocodome said:
Perhaps one of the differences between women and men... I don't think I need to fix him. Per the subject title, it's a rant. I listened and therefor offer a "that sux, man." That is all.
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You do have a good point!
 
um yeah, i'm moving on, have been since it all started. i don't need coddling, i was just pissed, hence the rant part.
the last thing i am going to do is follow her around and worry about her life! i have my own and it is way better now without her holdig me back.

i'm just pissed that she was cheating and building a relationship for amonth and a half before we got divorced, and lied about it the whole time until today. that's all. very simple. i'm a big boy, i know how to handle things.
no matter how you look at it, it was a serious bullshit bitch move on her part. that's all i'm pissed about, she could have 10 dudes run a train on her now and i don't care.
i'm way better off without her now that i know her true personality.
 
it sucks bro, but you should start worrying more about yourself now bro and less about her.
 
Crocodome said:
Sure is funny how the dudes here are generally sympathetic while the bishes here run to her defense! The man's down. Stop kicking him in the junk and toss him some sympathy - even if you can't totally rationalize it with your she-brains.
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Ummm where did I defend her? :whatever:
 
Lestat said:
it sucks bro, but you should start worrying more about yourself now bro and less about her.
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i'm not worried about her... just pissed that she was cheating on me and i needed to vent.
 
19psi said:
um yeah, i'm moving on, have been since it all started. i don't need coddling, i was just pissed, hence the rant part.
the last thing i am going to do is follow her around and worry about her life! i have my own and it is way better now without her holdig me back.

i'm just pissed that she was cheating and building a relationship for amonth and a half before we got divorced, and lied about it the whole time until today. that's all. very simple. i'm a big boy, i know how to handle things.
no matter how you look at it, it was a serious bullshit bitch move on her part. that's all i'm pissed about, she could have 10 dudes run a train on her now and i don't care.
i'm way better off without her now that i know her true personality.
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I can 99% guarantee she didn't make the decision to divorce you in 6 weeks. She's been cheating long before that. Sorry.
 
the thing about women is that theyre depreciating assets. every year, they get nastier and nastier.

men, on the other hand, often improve over time

quit bitching, and start upgrading
 
Just take solace in the fact that she will eventually cheat on this new guy too.
 
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