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Ex update

Lestat

Lestat

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I know its been about a month since you guys got the last update.

I know many of you wont approve of this either, but it looks like we are getting back together.

This didn't come about easily by any means and involved professional help for both of us.

Hey, if I get heartbroken again out of this... this time around I can only blame myself. Its a risk I'm willing to take though. Heartbreak is a bitch, regret is worse.
 
Best of Luck to you Sweetie :rose:

Sometimes risks are worth taking... I wish both of you happiness ;)
 
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Wow, that's great news!

I can only imagine how happy you are. Good luck.

and that means there is still hope for us SWV's.
 
string_bean00 said:
Dude...
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Let him... Or our membership dues will go up.. the SWV's are dropping like flys, hes a very respected member and this will just reinforce the renewal of his contract. ;)



Yours in Sport,

Treasurer Frisky :rose:
 
alien amp pharm said:
Maybe I'll contact my ex here in a few minutes....
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LMFAO!!!

and Lestat, Good luck to you guys. That`s great news, I hope everything works out for you two.

Damn, talk about second chances. lol
 
Lestat said:
but it looks like we are getting back together.
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No offense........but:


we are generally intelligent enough to know what we want, but we are also generally stupid enough to get it....

No rant....I do wish you luck
 
at least this wasnt a 5 page essay

that proffesional help is helping
 
Good for you. The fact that you guys are going to counseling is key.

Even if it doesn't work out in the long run you can BOTH only reap benefit from the situation.

There will never be any regrets. :)
 
So any details? How'd this come about? Do tell.

Are you sure there isn't any resentment?

Man I ask a lot of questions?

?
 
Im back with my ex to bro,weird shit isnt it?

it will be tough working through things believe me,apparently I have changed and my attitude is hard to deal with now,and she was gonna leave me,guess not anymore,but its a long road ahead,be ready
 
glad for u....haveher worries resolved?
 
I'll get into more detail later.

Here is the gist of it.

She got counseling, couldn't come up with one reason why she broke up with me. She was unsure about herself, her place in life, what life was even all about.

Seeing me and talking to me started driving her nuts. She wanted to badly to see me, but guilt and second guessing was eating away at her.

We continued to talk, I basically said hey.. whatever happens happens, Im not getting my hopes up and I'm not going to put my life on hold... I continued dating, but I still let her know I was available to talk if she needed it.

I'm nervous about it. Its not going to be comfortable for some time now.. going to take some adjusting, but we'll take it day by day and see where it goes.

Who knows, maybe tomorrow I'll be posting saying that it all fell apart.. who knows.

The way I look at it.. I'll take heartbreak over regret any day.
 
Lestat said:
The way I look at it.. I'll take heartbreak over regret any day.
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Right on, bruh....kinda going thru that same thing myself. I hope it works out.
 
How many guys if any you think she got with while you were gone? Going back to an ex after you know she had some other guy's schlong in her cunt was for me a difficult thing to get over, actually I don't think you ever get over it...
 
Never the same the 2nd time around.......

BTW how old is she again? Those type of feelings of uncertainty usually happen to 18 year olds.
 
I am happy for you bor. Out of respect I will speak my mind to you.

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She got counseling, couldn't come up with one reason why she broke up with me. She was unsure about herself, her place in life, what life was even all about.
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Interesting. Seems that she has decided against answering the questions, preferring to regress instead to where she was before the questions arose in her mind. Troublesome?

Counseling helped her put words to the issues, but the words lack the specificity to describe the issues. Thus the vague references to things like "place in life". It sounds good, it shuts a counselor up, and so on. it answer little. It resolves nothing.

Fearing the daunting process of issues resolution, she returned to her pre-issues answer: you.

Seeing me and talking to me started driving her nuts. She wanted to badly to see me, but guilt and second guessing was eating away at her.
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I believe that you believe this.

We continued to talk, I basically said hey.. whatever happens happens, Im not getting my hopes up and I'm not going to put my life on hold... I continued dating, but I still let her know I was available to talk if she needed it.
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Yes, you did. Conveniently you skipped the parts about 17 EF threads pouring your heart out, but I'll forgive you....because you obviously care for her, which is never a bad thing. :)

I'm nervous about it. Its not going to be comfortable for some time now.. going to take some adjusting, but we'll take it day by day and see where it goes.

Who knows, maybe tomorrow I'll be posting saying that it all fell apart.. who knows.

The way I look at it.. I'll take heartbreak over regret any day.
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heartbreak over regret you're damn right.

Good luck sir.
 
bran987 said:
are you happy now?
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As one who has been in the same exact place as Lestat, i will say he is not as happy as he thought he would be. At least that's how I felt...
 
Gambino said:
As one who has been in the same exact place as Lestat, i will say he is not as happy as he thought he would be. At least that's how I felt...
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you are right there, but I am not unhappy. True happiness will come in time, and its not guarenteed. I'm not blinding heading into this, I know there is risk and nothing is certain.
 
MattTheSkywalker said:
I am happy for you bor. Out of respect I will speak my mind to you.



Interesting. Seems that she has decided against answering the questions, preferring to regress instead to where she was before the questions arose in her mind. Troublesome?

Counseling helped her put words to the issues, but the words lack the specificity to describe the issues. Thus the vague references to things like "place in life". It sounds good, it shuts a counselor up, and so on. it answer little. It resolves nothing.

Fearing the daunting process of issues resolution, she returned to her pre-issues answer: you.



I believe that you believe this.



Yes, you did. Conveniently you skipped the parts about 17 EF threads pouring your heart out, but I'll forgive you....because you obviously care for her, which is never a bad thing. :)



heartbreak over regret you're damn right.

Good luck sir.
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I appreciate your comments.

I'm doing the best I can here. If shit doesn't work out this time, you wont see me doing this again. You can mark my words, save the thread.
 
Lestat said:
I'm doing the best I can here. If shit doesn't work out this time, you wont see me doing this again. You can mark my words, save the thread.
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:lmao:

Oak's term as SWV president will be up about that time. We will save you the spot.
 
Get her to fall back in love with you, dump her ass on your terms, and mend your wounded ego....
 
Lestat said:
I appreciate your comments.

I'm doing the best I can here. If shit doesn't work out this time, you wont see me doing this again. You can mark my words, save the thread.
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No need to save threads.....you don't owe this community anything.

Good luck bor. I would love to see a happy ending here, whatever that is.
 
I also wish you a happy ending.

I wish you a happy ending because I (and I'm sure all of us) have been there. I know what its like for wanting to believe in a relationship so badly that I'd do almost anything for it and could not think rationally about it.

I just don't think that its over yet.
 
Lestat said:
Here is the gist of it.

She got counseling, couldn't come up with one reason why she broke up with me. She was unsure about herself, her place in life, what life was even all about.
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In others words, she couldn't find a better guy to be with and realized she was out of her mind to break up with you in the first place..
Lestat said:
Seeing me and talking to me started driving her nuts. She wanted to badly to see me, but guilt and second guessing was eating away at her.
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In others words, she couldn't find a better guy to be with, you still gave her that special "warm and fuzzy" feeling while you kept giving her that "I've moved on and I'm dating other women vibe" so she realized she was out of her mind to break up with you in the first place and how that bugged the shit out of her..
Lestat said:
We continued to talk, I basically said hey.. whatever happens happens, Im not getting my hopes up and I'm not going to put my life on hold... I continued dating, but I still let her know I was available to talk if she needed it.
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You left the door open long enough for her to come back willingly Lestat - best of luck in this new adventure.
 
EnderJE said:
I also wish you a happy ending.

I wish you a happy ending because I (and I'm sure all of us) have been there. I know what its like for wanting to believe in a relationship so badly that I'd do almost anything for it and could not think rationally about it.

I just don't think that its over yet.
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Well said.
And I totally agree from a similiar point of view.
 
velvett said:
In others words, she couldn't find a better guy to be with and realized she was out of her mind to break up with you in the first place..

In others words, she couldn't find a better guy to be with, you still gave her that special "warm and fuzzy" feeling while you kept giving her that "I've moved on and I'm dating other women vibe" so she realized she was out of her mind to break up with you in the first place and how that bugged the shit out of her..


You left the door open long enough for her to come back willingly Lestat - best of luck in this new adventure.
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We should pay Velvett for the advice she gives to the guys on relationships. She gives the honest perspective from the female perspective. (And, she is pretty good at recognizing the real reasons "us guys" do the stupid things we do.)

Lestat, I wish you the best of luck. Hopefully, this break let her know that you are "the man". But, she is young and hasn't been single much of her life. So, hopefully she got out of her system what she needed and verified that you are a great guy. But, I have had gf get back w/me only to later realize they were still testing the waters to find a better guy and using me as a saftey net. (I didnt realize until they dumped my ass again lol)

Good luck and take it slow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Its just like an older bodybuilder used to tell me about my form.. "Take it SLOW to GROW!!!!!!!!!!!"



Oh screw it. I hope she dumps you and you have more young chick's licking your ass to post about. ;)
 
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Heh, am I the only one left on EF who broke up with their significant other this summer and stayed true to the course?



Good luck B, I hope she has resolved her issues that led you to this in the first place. Best wishes for a bright future.
 
Forge said:
Heh, am I the only one left on EF who broke up with their significant other this summer and stayed true to the course?
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No, I'm still not back with my ex!





(although I did try. tee hee hee)
 
thanks everyone for the words of encouragement.

I spent some quality time with her last night, and things are pretty exciting right now.
 
Food chain bro, food chain. She couldn't find anyone higher up so she brought you back into the picture. It's only a matter of time.

Oh, but good luck and all the best. :)
 
wutangnomo said:
Food chain bro, food chain. She couldn't find anyone higher up so she brought you back into the picture. It's only a matter of time.

Oh, but good luck and all the best. :)
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I really don't think that is true.
 
alien amp pharm said:
No, I'm still not back with my ex!





(although I did try. tee hee hee)
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Nope.. sugar so did I... When I said it was over, I truly meant it was over. :)
 
DIVISION said:
It's true, nigga.......

Just wish you had the nutz to accept it.

R.I.P. Lestat. :(

I wish you would learn.




DIV

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That's fucked man.
 
bro I will tell you what Ive noticed since getting back with my ex, the first two weeks were great,then BAM she was back to doing all the bullshit that drove me nuts to begin with. Im having a real hard time wanting to work on shit with her or wanting to even see her.

hopefully things are different for you,but im just saying dont take the first few weeks as a indicator on how things really are because its a fucking show
 
Lestat said:
That's fucked man.
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Eh Nigga......


I've tried to help you in ever relationship thread you've ever made. You simply don't listen and you're determined to go down in flames. I don't know how much more simple I can break it down for ya'.

I'm not the only bro who advised you to move on. Do what you want, but don't be suprised when you get your nuts crushed in the vice grip that is "female volition". Waiting on a woman to determine the outcome is a self-defeating behaviour. It's something you DON'T DO!


DIV

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TheOak01 said:
bro I will tell you what Ive noticed since getting back with my ex, the first two weeks were great,then BAM she was back to doing all the bullshit that drove me nuts to begin with. Im having a real hard time wanting to work on shit with her or wanting to even see her.

hopefully things are different for you,but im just saying dont take the first few weeks as a indicator on how things really are because its a fucking show
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I think that the first few weeks will be a little tough, but it will only get better. There was no real "reason" for us to have ever broken up in the first place. Good luck with your situation though man, hopefully you can work through things.
 
MasterBates said:
lestat=fyxgel
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No, actually Lestat is a more astute, intelligent version of fxygel.......which makes it all the more disheartening that he lets his nuts get crushed like this.


:(











DIV

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TheOak01 said:
bro I will tell you what Ive noticed since getting back with my ex, the first two weeks were great,then BAM she was back to doing all the bullshit that drove me nuts to begin with. Im having a real hard time wanting to work on shit with her or wanting to even see her.

hopefully things are different for you,but im just saying dont take the first few weeks as a indicator on how things really are because its a fucking show
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Now, lets give Lestat the benefit of the doubt. She broke up with him because, well she doesn't know why, but she was unsure of herself and felt guilty about something. But now she's changed her mind, so maybe she will stay with him this time.

In any case, Lestat needs to do this. For better or for worse, he needs to give this a shot. I hope it all works out wonderfully. The question you have to ask yourself Lestat is: what will you do if she leaves you again?
 
Forge said:
The question you have to ask yourself Lestat is: what will you do if she leaves you again?
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Lestat will fall to pieces like a puzzle........ :(


Doesn't take a genius to see that he's teetering on the edge as is.



DIV

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Lestat said:
I think that the first few weeks will be a little tough, but it will only get better. There was no real "reason" for us to have ever broken up in the first place. Good luck with your situation though man, hopefully you can work through things.
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the reason she broke up with you is most likely cause she thought there is someone better out there waiting for her.
 
MasterBates said:
the reason she broke up with you is most likely cause she thought there is someone better out there waiting for her.
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Exactly.

That's why I told him to go shopping......but he doesn't take well to advice from DIVISION.



DIV

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DIVISION said:
Lestat will fall to pieces like a puzzle........ :(


Doesn't take a genius to see that he's teetering on the edge as is.
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Probably, but he needs to learn this lesson the hard way. His obsession over her for all of these months was not getting any better, so maybe a second dose of her dissing him will snap him out of it. Like I said I hope it works out, really I do, but he needs to experience this for himself. For that reason alone I support his getting back with her and wish him good luck.
 
Thanks for the support guys.

If it falls apart again, I'm done. You can mark my words. I won't be yo-yo'ing back and forth. I just felt there was something still there.... I have to go with it.

And Div.. I DID go shopping... i've dated a lot since... maybe I wasn't ready to meet someone special, but the dating was disheartening more then anything...
 
Lestat said:
Thanks for the support guys.

If it falls apart again, I'm done. You can mark my words. I won't be yo-yo'ing back and forth. I just felt there was something still there.... I have to go with it.

And Div.. I DID go shopping... i've dated a lot since... maybe I wasn't ready to meet someone special, but the dating was disheartening more then anything...
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Never ask about how many guys she banged while you were broken up. i made this mistake :evil:
 
Gambino said:
Never ask about how many guys she banged while you were broken up. i made this mistake :evil:
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You either get pissed when they tell you

or

you don't believe them when they tell you

or

It continuously eats you up inside if you don't ask
 
we've already talked about it...

I've told her that I've had sex... not too many details, but she knows....

she's had sex with one person... less then 10 times.

We're both getting tested next week.
 
Gambino said:
Never ask about how many guys she banged while you were broken up. i made this mistake :evil:
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If you even have to ask, then she's not the girl for you, nigga.

That's just disgusting.



DIV

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DIVISION said:
If you even have to ask, then she's not the girl for you, nigga.

That's just disgusting.



DIV

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Whats so disgusting about it? From what I've read, it's entirely normal nowadays for these ho's.
 
Ulcasterdropout said:
Whats so disgusting about it? From what I've read, it's entirely normal nowadays for these ho's.
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You just break up with a girl after a LTR and she's automatically goes out and slips dicks in ever slit?

FUCK NAW!!!! Once she did that shit, I'd probably never talk to her again.

Man.........that's some scary shit. What kinda bitches you guys date? :worried:



DIV

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DIVISION said:
You just break up with a girl after a LTR and she's automatically goes out and slips dicks in ever slit?

FUCK NAW!!!! Once she did that shit, I'd probably never talk to her again.

Man.........that's some scary shit. What kinda bitches you guys date? :worried:



DIV

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why would i have a double standard? The first thing I did was call up some women I knew would fuck me.
 
Lestat said:
why would i have a double standard? The first thing I did was call up some women I knew would fuck me.
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Then you're just as bad as she is...........

Fuck..........you deserve what you get, Lestat.....

I hope the next barely legal eagle who rims your ass has a razor tongue piercing! :mad:




DIV

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DIVISION said:
You just break up with a girl after a LTR and she's automatically goes out and slips dicks in ever slit?

FUCK NAW!!!! Once she did that shit, I'd probably never talk to her again.

Man.........that's some scary shit. What kinda bitches you guys date? :worried:



DIV

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:lmao: How long you been outa of the US, Hoss? Shit has changed here.
I don't date anybody....I go by posts I've read...women fuck like men now.
 
Ulcasterdropout said:
:lmao: How long you been outa of the US, Hoss? Shit has changed here.
I don't date anybody....I go by posts I've read...women fuck like men now.
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That doesn't make it right, NIGGA!

Fuckkkkkkkkkkkk........

No wonder women are ho's..........with guys like Lestat runnin' round, it's a wonder why everyone doesn't have STD's.......:mad:



DIV

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DIVISION said:
That doesn't make it right, NIGGA!
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I agree...a whore by any other name
DIVISION said:
Fuckkkkkkkkkkkk........

No wonder women are ho's..........with guys like Lestat runnin' round, it's a wonder why everyone doesn't have STD's.......:mad:



DIV

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Well, it's the game now...Contemporary, young adult courtship in this hemisphere had gained a truck load of complications.
The gender lines and rolls get more vague every decade.

I dunno how you guys do it...
 
Ulcasterdropout said:
The gender lines and rolls get more vague every decade.

I dunno how you guys do it...
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Well.....it doesn't matter to me, nigga.

I have standards, and I don't change those, regardless of the female.

Either they fit them or they don't. I don't ask women to change their ways, I simply bypass them if they do shit I don't like. There are too many women out there to "settle", belieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeve me.


DIV

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DIVISION said:
Well.....it doesn't matter to me, nigga.

I have standards, and I don't change those, regardless of the female.

Either they fit them or they don't. I don't ask women to change their ways, I simply bypass them if they do shit I don't like. There are too many women out there to "settle", belieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeve me.


DIV

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but you only know what they tell you ;)
 
Ulcasterdropout said:
but you only know what they tell you ;)
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No.

I know people well, and if I'm in a relationship with a chick, I know her better than she knows herself. She doesn't keep things from me because I'd know that too.....maybe not what she did, but that she's keeping something from me. And she also knows if I find out later that it's over, right then and there on the spot. I'm real about shit, Cripsetter........and I tell them from the jump what my expectations are. That way there's no possible misunderstandings.

Feel me?





DIV

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DIVISION said:
No.

I know people well, and if I'm in a relationship with a chick, I know her better than she knows herself. She doesn't keep things from me because I'd know that too.....maybe not what she did, but that she's keeping something from me. And she also knows if I find out later that it's over, right then and there on the spot. I'm real about shit, Cripsetter........and I tell them from the jump what my expectations are. That way there's no possible misunderstandings.

Feel me?





DIV

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I feel ya, but with your degree, you have a unique adroitness to read a bitch....Most these SWV don't.
 
lol bro its not that us SWV cant read people,I have taken psych,not to the level div has,but the thing about us SWV is we keep going back and punishing ourselves
 
I have a fucking B.S. in Psych from a top 10 program bitches!
 
Lestat said:
I have a fucking B.S. in Psych from a top 10 program bitches!
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When your heart took over, that BS became fucking worthless...
 
alien amp pharm said:
I call B.S.!




(damn where'd all my funny pills go?)
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Ill post a pic of my degrees when I can.
 
Lestat said:
Ill post a pic of my degrees when I can.
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Nah, I was playing ..."B.S. on the B.S." Get it?;)




I told ya I lost my funny pills.
 
Lestat said:
I have a fucking B.S. in Psych from a top 10 program bitches!
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^^^YOU HAD BETTER BE FUCKING KIDDING ME, NIGGA!!!!! :mad:

If you've got a BS in Psych, why the fuck have you let yourself be torn in two, and mentally fistfucked by this bitch?

You really dissapoint me, bro........:(




DIV

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DIVISION said:
^^^YOU HAD BETTER BE FUCKING KIDDING ME, NIGGA!!!!! :mad:

If you've got a BS in Psych, why the fuck have you let yourself be torn in two, and mentally fistfucked by this bitch?

You really dissapoint me, bro........:(




DIV

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Dude seriously, shut the fuck up, I don't need to defend my emotions to you.

Believe me, I'm a pretty rational and sane guy, and there are even people on here who can attest to that. I've dated many, been in love a couple times, had my share of wild times and fun. This relationship and how it ended really knocked me for a loop, as evidenced through my many posts. I can't explain it. I know what the logical and rational thing to do at all times was, but my fucking heart was calling the shots ok?

Do I think my life is any worse off because of it? No. This is what living life is about. I've still got my job, still have great friends and family, still working out making progress. I definitely unloaded a lot of shit on here, but I just had a lot of emotion and used this as a release.

I've been 100% honest and open with this girl and she has been the same with me over recent months. I couldn't ask for anything more, no matter what the outcome is.

I appreciate your concern for me, your thoughts, but don't get condecending please.

Thanks,
Brian
 
Lestat said:
I appreciate your concern for me, your thoughts, but don't get condecending please.
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Seriously, brian, it's about fucking time you stood up for yourself and showed some balls......

I respect you more for it.

I hope everything works out for you regardless of what happens with this girl.



DIV

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DIVISION said:
Seriously, brian, it's about fucking time you stood up for yourself and showed some balls......

I respect you more for it.

I hope everything works out for you regardless of what happens with this girl.



DIV

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That's one thing I have confidence in. No matter what happens today, tomorow, or anytime with this girl, my life will work out. That's one of the fundamental things I know and what I can always fall back on. Sure, times get rough sometimes, but I embraces those as chances to grow, changes to experience the wide range of emotions that I am capable of.
 
Lestat said:
That's one thing I have confidence in. No matter what happens today, tomorow, or anytime with this girl, my life will work out. That's one of the fundamental things I know and what I can always fall back on. Sure, times get rough sometimes, but I embraces those as chances to grow, changes to experience the wide range of emotions that I am capable of.
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It appears you're well grounded, and that's always a good thang.

Props...



DIV

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Love is the strongest force in the universe, don`t ever forget that.
 
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