Every damn friend that I have IRL is betraying me.

[heatherrae]

it sounds like this guy isnt being very nice to you, but then again you heatherrae arent very nice to me.

LOL...I have never been mean to you. I may have teased you, but I never meant it maliciously.

 

[heatherrae]

what did he say when you called him on it?

He now told me that the guy is his best friend and that he was just telling his friend yesterday how he loved me and was worried about me and so he just forwarded it on as an update to his friend.

See, now, as forgiving as I am I almost apologized to HIM. WTF is wrong with me, seriously?

 

[heatherrae]

This does not just "happen" to people. My thought would be that you made a poor choice in a friend.

Oh I know, this comes as a complete surprise to you and you could have never seen this coming....maybe that's cause you didn't have your eyes open.

That's not a knock, just a suggestion to help you in life. Responsibility that involves foresight is not something most people even choose to recognize as a possibility, but life is much better once you achieve that mind state.

Live and learn.

Kb,

You may or may not be correct. However, have you ever noticed that you always drag that out when women say someone crossed them, but you never say that to men?

 

[chewyxrage]

He now told me that the guy is his best friend and that he was just telling his friend yesterday how he loved me and was worried about me and so he just forwarded it on as an update to his friend.

See, now, as forgiving as I am I almost apologized to HIM. WTF is wrong with me, seriously?

Wow. I hope you ended up saying similiar to how you responded to my first post. I can see forgiving him but let him know that that kinda of sneaky stuff in unneccessary. Kinda convenient too - oh he loves you so much and is worried...

 

[heatherrae]

Wow. I hope you ended up saying similiar to how you responded to my first post. I can see forgiving him but let him know that that kinda of sneaky stuff in unneccessary. Kinda convenient too - oh he loves you so much and is worried...

Yep. I already forgave him for saying some negative stuff when I was 5 months prego but kept my distance since then. Then he pulls this little nonsense and knows just the right thing to say to me, because I'm a PUSHOVER.

I just cut off the conversation now and haven't said anything else to him.

Last thing I need is any drama...lol.

 

[Smurfy]

I had a friend ask me all sorts of questions about the pregnancy, the baby's dad, etc.

So, I answered him and he wrote back with follow up questions.

However the dumb ass did not remove the tag that showed that he forwarded our emails to someone I've never heard of with a note that said "FYI -- this was her response."

The shit was some really personal stuff that I would not have shared with everyone. I can't imagine who he was even forwarding it to, but it PISSES me OFF!

i didnt read the whole thread (sorry Im late to the party) - but did you call him out on it? thats bullshit behavior in my book. he should feel bad.

 

[heatherrae]

i didnt read the whole thread (sorry Im late to the party) - but did you call him out on it? thats bullshit behavior in my book. he should feel bad.

Yeah, I called him out on it, and he said he did it out of love and concern.

 

[Smurfy]

Yeah, I called him out on it, and he said he did it out of love and concern.

oh. well that's clearly a stupid excuse. you know that

 

[heatherrae]

oh. well that's clearly a stupid excuse. you know that

Yep, he's a dumb ass. I can't believe the genius forgot to delete the tag showing that he forwarded it. So, I wrote to his friend and copied him on it and asked if he had any more questions about my personal life...hehehehe.

 

[Dial_tone]

ya gotta bust him.