Every damn friend that I have IRL is betraying me.

[Lestat]

what did he say when you called him on it?

 

[calveless wonder]

And if anyone does find out about something you didn't want them to know about, how you handle it instantly becomes more important than the issue itself ever was. Tact and discipline command respect even in dire situations.

i think that works both ways.
whether you're the person committing the betrayal or the one being betrayed.

in cases where people have betrayed me, they've had some lame excuses or lies or just callous and super cold responses(the worst). In the few cases when revenge was involved, alot of the times that was the final push over the edge.

 

[pdaddyII]

I haven't seen any evidence of his presence lately. I suppose he has found his next victim...lol.

You need to replace all of his pictures on your myspace page, you're scaring off all potential courters. They're going to think you were sleeping with your dad.

 

[KillahBee]

This does not just "happen" to people. My thought would be that you made a poor choice in a friend.

Oh I know, this comes as a complete surprise to you and you could have never seen this coming....maybe that's cause you didn't have your eyes open.

That's not a knock, just a suggestion to help you in life. Responsibility that involves foresight is not something most people even choose to recognize as a possibility, but life is much better once you achieve that mind state.

Live and learn.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

i think that works both ways.
whether you're the person committing the betrayal or the one being betrayed.

in cases where people have betrayed me, they've had some lame excuses or lies or just callous and super cold responses(the worst). In the few cases when revenge was involved, alot of the times that was the final push over the edge.

It's tougher being on one end vs. the other, as damages have already been done to each party in some way, but how they handle it is key. In your case, those people all seemed to have failed; some badly.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

sounds like you didnt really have friends in the first place (no offense)

 

[healother]

I had a friend ask me all sorts of questions about the pregnancy, the baby's dad, etc.

So, I answered him and he wrote back with follow up questions.

However the dumb ass did not remove the tag that showed that he forwarded our emails to someone I've never heard of with a note that said "FYI -- this was her response."

The shit was some really personal stuff that I would not have shared with everyone. I can't imagine who he was even forwarding it to, but it PISSES me OFF!

it sounds like this guy isnt being very nice to you, but then again you heatherrae arent very nice to me.

 

[bigmann245]

i have a bad problem with friends taking advantage of me. i get screwed over all the time and its hard to trust people when that happens all the time. im way to giving and forgiving that it bites me in the as all the time. no offense to the south but it only happens down here. i have friends from back home that i can still to this day call a friend. down here it seems they have a complete different outlook on friends. they like to use people IMOP.

 

[calveless wonder]

i have a bad problem with friends taking advantage of me. i get screwed over all the time and its hard to trust people when that happens all the time. im way to giving and forgiving that it bites me in the as all the time. no offense to the south but it only happens down here. i have friends from back home that i can still to this day call a friend. down here it seems they have a complete different outlook on friends. they like to use people IMOP.

most people in the south are two face, fake chickenshits (at least in fl).

in NY if a person robs you, fucks you up or kills you.. at least you'll know their intention the whole time

 

[bigmann245]

most people in the south are two face, fake chickenshits (at least in fl).

in NY if a person robs you, fucks you up or kills you.. at least you'll know their intention the whole time

bro that is so true.... at leased you see it coming and you know why, down here you never see it coming until it hits you in the face and you end up in jail like i did for a "friend". thank god the courts saw what actually happened but things like that make you never trust another friend again.