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tryionlannister

tryionlannister

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My story starts two years ago. My wife told me that she didn't love me anymore shortly after we found out she was pregnant with our second child. My wife literally flipped out when she found out she was pregnant
However We decided to work on the marriage. After my daughter was born in July my wife told me she needed me to move out so that she could learn to love me again. I moved out in October and in December I hacked into my wives email and fb to discover that she was cheating on me for quite a long while.
The guy she was cheating on me with I considered a friend. Sh actually sent him a picture of our daughter and out son and her in the hospital. I'm assuming to show him that it wasn't his baby

You all may not like this part but its important to my story. The guy she cheated on me with is African American. I have never had an issue with interracial relationships b4 but now I do especially since my wife only wants to black men now.
I wanted my wife back for a very long time but after being told that she could
Never love me again and hearing stories of All the men she had in our home, I gave up
in April I started dating a girl. I know it was too soon but I
Needed something to fill a void.

This new girl is incredible. I have grown to love her. She treats me like a king. And she's gorgeous. However last week she tells me that right after our first date she called all of her guy friends and told them that she couldn't be friends with them anymore because she was dating someone she liked and he (me) had issues with guys and girls being friends. She then told me that one of her friends refused to give her stuff back.

So I ask why? She tells me that they had dated and and realized they were not compatible but had a friends with benefits relationship. So I ask so what does that mean that you got together once a week? Probably was her response. Did you have sex once a week? Well maybe I can't remember she says . I ask her why it didn't work out and she tells me it's because he was black and her family would disapprove.

I know that I have no right to be mad at
Her but I am and I don't want to touch her now. She was having sex with this guy the week b4 we started dating. And I hate the fact that this guy was black.

I don't see
Myself as racist but my god I'm having issues with this. I broke up with her today. I just can't be with her

I know many of you on here will give me some bullshit funny guy responses and some will think I'm a flaming racist and cuss me out but I'm struggling right now
 
Holy fuck dude youve got bigger problems than what color skin your wife is cheating on you with lololol
 
You do know they say when ya go black you never go back. Held true to your ex-wife, but this poor new girl.....she must of Really saw some shit in you...cuz she went back. WTF bro, in all seriousness I wouldn't be out posting a story like this. But each to there own.
 
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Who the fuck do you think you are?
 
I don't see why you should get banned for this. It's racist sure, but all my black friends would love it!......wait am I allowed to have black friends since I post on the same forum as you?!?!?!
 
Mas0040 said:
I don't see why you should get banned for this. It's racist sure, but all my black friends would love it!......wait am I allowed to have black friends since I post on the same forum as you?!?!?!
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Shut up you slimy cocksucker
 
This sounds cliché but most of my close friends are black. I've never had issues with interracial dating b4. One of closest friends is married to a white women.

I know that I shouldn't feel this way. I'm struggling with why I feel this way.
 
Ummmm.... Yea... That about sums it up bud... You said it all...

First, about 80% of my friends are black. The other 20% Italian... Needless to say my friends don't sit together at the dinner table here in ny... Racism and segregation is VERY alive here in the five Burroughs. That being said....

When I grew up my dad always taught us, it's ok to mess around with a black girl but that's where it ends. You meet in the street and leave it in the street.
There are apples and oranges. Apples stick with apples, oranges stick with oranges, if an apple is in a bowl of oranges or and orange is in a bowl of apples, they look out of place don't they?... You my friend are an apple... They are oranges... It's that simple...

Being brought up like that, the commercials on tv these days confuse the hell out of me because its all black men with white women... Or vice versa. It puzzles me because a lot of my black friends say they just wanna fuck a white girl but will only marry black women and my Italian friends... Pshhhh forget about it... They'll hit every black pussy they can but will only marry a white woman. It's taboo and curiosity. But socially accepted.... Idk about other parts in the world but here it's not ok and "frowned upon". Personally I don't give a shit but if I was in your shoes, I have to be honest... I'd have a problem with it... I think my apples and oranges speech said that alone...



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I totally agree with ur decision , that would be it for me,call it what you want but i say that's a fucked up deal, good luck bro.
 
TryionLannister said:
This sounds cliché but most of my close friends are black. I've never had issues with interracial dating b4. One of closest friends is married to a white women.

I know that I shouldn't feel this way. I'm struggling with why I feel this way.
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I'm white but have been called black many times....just wanted to throw that out there....
 
I think it helps to just get the shit out. It is a touchy subject but u had the balls to say fuck it. I wouldn't say ur a racist but maybe jealous of this other guy and the reason this girl gave was race related which made an impression. I mean u even said u were friends with this guy that ur wife got with. Although would u have had an issue with this new girl if the situation didn't go down with ur wife?

There are tons of cute women out there man. Just get back out there, youll find another one pretty quick.
 
I obviously have some unresolved issues. :(. I can't help how I'm feeling right now. I keep trying to tell myself in being foolish but it is what it is
 
Fucking women are cruel...been there bro...I would have a problem with the whole situation...tough when you have kids
 
Oxy I can't honestly answer your question... I'd like to say no but I don't know if I'm being honest as I can only see this side now
 
if the guy your last gf was fucking was white, asian, or another race besides black would you be fine with it?

if the answer is no then your post definately isn't racist. if i started dating a girl seriously who fucked a guy the week before we went out i would be put off too no matter the race. thats why you never talk about your past like that, you will hear stuff that you might not like. i would give this chick a break, seems like she really likes you.. you are letting your past bad experience ruin your future relationships

everyone has a past you are gonna have to learn to live with it as you get older, unless you find a Mormon chick from utah who has never touched a guy before.
 
TryionLannister said:
I did read your response bud. I was raised much the same way but once I went to college I told myself I was above this and that people are people.
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True. But obviously something inside of you feels different and THAT'S OK, god knows you have reason to... Time heals all bro. Live and learn.
It wasn't him.. It was her. If she shot him down he woulda been out of business. Don't be mad at him or the color, be mad at her. Direct that shit where it belongs and then tear her apart.
 
TryionLannister said:
I did read your response bud. I was raised much the same way but once I went to college I told myself I was above this and that people are people.
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Yep.....people are people. I'd take your ex wife and choke her ass. Then I'd take the new chic and throw her off a balcony. I got no issue with black dudes either but I wouldn't touch that bitch either.
 
Once you go black, you never go back - just look at the presidential election.

But on a serious note. Sometimes blacks and whites date and fool around but aren't very serious about each other, like Noodle mentioned, it's not the girl or guy they plan to marry.

I think some guys hate to think that girls may be as perverted and easy as we are. We like to think that they're in a relationship because they're serious about the guy and that they have high standards. So when we learn that they were fooling around with a black guy (doesn't have to be black but is in this situation) whom they were never serious about, we're let down. Our insecurity and fear were just validated like a parking ticket.

If that's not it, check out the next story.

An italian friend of mine wasn't racist at all, had plenty of black friends. His white girlfriend was pregnant and he was very excited. The baby was born and everything was great. He had never been happier, he was on cloud 9. The baby was a little tan which seemed normal. But each day the baby seemed to get a little darker. Wasn't long before he realized the baby was black and it wasn't his. Talk about messing with your mind. He hated black people with a passion for a few years. I think he just didn't know how to handle his pain.

You might relate to one of the two theories.
 
meh at least you are honest...as far as being racist? yeah maybe a bit, but some peeps have these opinions, both black and white...and as long as you don't act on them it's really your issue live your life how you want.
personally it wouldn't bother me, and btw the best sex i've had has been with a thick blak chic i dated a few years ago.
never a good idea to talk about past shit it can haunt you...i fucked up a great relationship in the doing the same thing, i found out too much...and unless the chic has an STD i don't see what the big deal is with her banging out some dude...if she is into you and you see something there let the past be the past
 
goin on 4T said:
You want to hug a dick sucker? Hmmm
From behind?


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Talk.......... I thought maybe he had a rough day and just decided fuck it.....he sucks dicks now....i dunno....could happen... wtf...yunusmile stopped getting bombed to hell .....Criminal is coming off teh roidz .....so anything is possible.
 
Burnthiscorpse said:
Talk.......... I thought maybe he had a rough day and just decided fuck it.....he sucks dicks now....i dunno....could happen... wtf...yunusmile stopped getting bombed to hell .....Criminal is coming off teh roidz .....so anything is possible.
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where is our boy gabagone or what the fuck his name was the irish jew from pakistan
 
alon gabbay
 
Noodles1010 said:
True. But obviously something inside of you feels different and THAT'S OK, god knows you have reason to... Time heals all bro. Live and learn.
It wasn't him.. It was her. If she shot him down he woulda been out of business. Don't be mad at him or the color, be mad at her. Direct that shit where it belongs and then tear her apart.
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:supercool
 
I got jumped by 10-15 black kids while I was in Fitchburg, MA about a year ago and I have zero hate towards black people just towards douch bag "hardcore" thugs I would have fucked everyone of them up had any balls i probably wouldnt have gotten up and walked away but on the other hand a ginger fucked my girl in high school even though he knew I was with her and to this day I hold a grudge against all gingers so I guess we are the same
 
Damn son. You kinda sound like a b*tch. I know what it is... You wont say it but you think your above blacks. Well apprently you aren't above the black sausage!
 
So you're holding a grudge against an entire race of people just because your wife didn't want to fuck your thumb duck any more? Why is it the black man's fault that you couldn't satisfy your wife? I hope you understand that you make so fucking sense
 
TryionLannister said:
This sounds cliché but most of my close friends are black. I've never had issues with interracial dating b4. One of closest friends is married to a white women.

I know that I shouldn't feel this way. I'm struggling with why I feel this way.
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everyone has racist tendencies...just like everyone finds other people attractive, besides the one they're with...whether you choose to treat someone different because of their race and whether you choose to pursue a person besides the one your with is what matters.

you're reacting to a very significant betrayal...give that situation a chance to age a bit before you put too much emphasis on your reaction to it.
 
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I haven't treated anyone differently. I still treat my friends with respect and all of my black colleagues and students. They have no idea I feel this way.

Regardless whether or u believe it, I never had an issue with it any of this in the past.

I'm struggling with why I feel this way now.
 
Srt8088 said:
I got jumped by 10-15 black kids while I was in Fitchburg, MA about a year ago and I have zero hate towards black people just towards douch bag "hardcore" thugs I would have fucked everyone of them up had any balls i probably wouldnt have gotten up and walked away but on the other hand a ginger fucked my girl in high school even though he knew I was with her and to this day I hold a grudge against all gingers so I guess we are the same
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iggy? Is that you bro?
 
TryionLannister said:
My story starts two years ago. My wife told me that she didn't love me anymore shortly after we found out she was pregnant with our second child. My wife literally flipped out when she found out she was pregnant
However We decided to work on the marriage. After my daughter was born in July my wife told me she needed me to move out so that she could learn to love me again. I moved out in October and in December I hacked into my wives email and fb to discover that she was cheating on me for quite a long while.
The guy she was cheating on me with I considered a friend. Sh actually sent him a picture of our daughter and out son and her in the hospital. I'm assuming to show him that it wasn't his baby

You all may not like this part but its important to my story. The guy she cheated on me with is African American. I have never had an issue with interracial relationships b4 but now I do especially since my wife only wants to black men now.
I wanted my wife back for a very long time but after being told that she could
Never love me again and hearing stories of All the men she had in our home, I gave up
in April I started dating a girl. I know it was too soon but I
Needed something to fill a void.

This new girl is incredible. I have grown to love her. She treats me like a king. And she's gorgeous. However last week she tells me that right after our first date she called all of her guy friends and told them that she couldn't be friends with them anymore because she was dating someone she liked and he (me) had issues with guys and girls being friends. She then told me that one of her friends refused to give her stuff back.

So I ask why? She tells me that they had dated and and realized they were not compatible but had a friends with benefits relationship. So I ask so what does that mean that you got together once a week? Probably was her response. Did you have sex once a week? Well maybe I can't remember she says . I ask her why it didn't work out and she tells me it's because he was black and her family would disapprove.

I know that I have no right to be mad at
Her but I am and I don't want to touch her now. She was having sex with this guy the week b4 we started dating. And I hate the fact that this guy was black.

I don't see
Myself as racist but my god I'm having issues with this. I broke up with her today. I just can't be with her

I know many of you on here will give me some bullshit funny guy responses and some will think I'm a flaming racist and cuss me out but I'm struggling right now
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Wow brotha sorry to hear. I understand your feelings man but f that beezy go fuc ah black chick!

Seriously bro pussy has no face so why wpuld you want this chick that is a total biznatch?

I kno its hard but you gotta get an I dont gv ah shit attitude and move on!

Go be a whore!
 
Matter of fact he told me stories about when he was a kid as they lived in a poverty area, how people would drive by and throw food that was eaten on out the window and they would fight each other for it. Some real fucked up stories.
 
To prove I'm not a racist I posted a new AVI.
 
That's a shitty situation, if she fucked a black man I'm afraid there is no hope to fill that gaping hole he left In her pussy move on and try again
 
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