Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below Boy am I fucked. I have been married for 11 years now with 2 children. I have done a few cycles in the past couple years and looking pretty good. I have this friend I have known for 4 years and she if hot. About 4 months ago we hooked up. We have been having the best sex I could ever imagine. During my 9th week of a Sust 500 mg week / Deca 400 mg week cycle I thought I was pretty much spitting blanks. I have always heard they are using test as a male birth control in other countries. Well my dumb ass thought I couldn't get her pregnant. We were doing it multiple times every day and you got it she is fucking pregnant. So don't think it can't happen guys because it can.
Don't do as I have done.
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It's mine. She went to the Dr. and they figured out the exact date. Just so happens that was one of the weekends we spent together. It's a terrible situation. I have told my wife everything and she wants to work everything out and move on. After she told me that I know just how much she loves me.
It's mine. She went to the Dr. and they figured out the exact date. Just so happens that was one of the weekends we spent together. It's a terrible situation. I have told my wife everything and she wants to work everything out and move on. After she told me that I know just how much she loves me.
Damn... that's a tough situation... Good luck, and thank God you have a wife that cares that much for you. Congrats on telling the truth, by the way. I had a fiance that cheated on me, and if she would have told me, I would have worked things out, but she constantly lied for 6 months, and now I have nothing but hatred for that bitch.
True Gary but...
there might be several reasons why the extra libido went somewhere else.
Like:
1) wife doesn't feel like doing it
2) wife isn't that hot (anymore)
3) Cladshirt wantes something new
4) he dated her once, but couldn't stop after that. You know passion can kill you mentally and physically.
5) he lives only once.
My late advice is get a vasectomie, so it will not happen again.
For those wanting to burn Cladshirt, don't judge something you know nothing about and don't ever say, this will not happen to me either.
GaryWary said:
there might be several reasons why the extra libido went somewhere else.
Like:
1) wife doesn't feel like doing it
2) wife isn't that hot (anymore)
3) Cladshirt wantes something new
4) he dated her once, but couldn't stop after that. You know passion can kill you mentally and physically.
5) he lives only once.
My late advice is get a vasectomie, so it will not happen again.
For those wanting to burn Cladshirt, don't judge something you know nothing about and don't ever say, this will not happen to me either.
Be certain
Man,
You are doing the right things soo far, owning up to it is more than some guys would do, and that's just bullshit ( not owning up to it) Although . . GET A DNA TEST. When I was 18 and in high-school there was a girl who I got together with at least once a week, I thought I was the only one. She got pregnant, and said because of when she did I was the only one. Well I almost went off my rocker man. I seriously thought I was going to be 18 and a father. And I made a big deal outta doin the right thing. Well when I told my dad, first thing he said was get a paternaty test. Dont trust that bitch as far as you can throw her. . Well I did and it wasn't mine. I WAS SURE I WAS THE ONLY ONE SHE WAS FUCKING, it ended up I just happened to be the brightest/bestlooking (sorry to sound conceided) and had the family that was best off so she picked me to be the father. So the whole point of this big mess of a post is. Before you start decorating the babies room, get a test done that is at least 99.9% certain.
oh and good luck
(if its your kid, ya better make sure you treat your wife like a damned queen for the rest of her life)
Man,
You are doing the right things soo far, owning up to it is more than some guys would do, and that's just bullshit ( not owning up to it) Although . . GET A DNA TEST. When I was 18 and in high-school there was a girl who I got together with at least once a week, I thought I was the only one. She got pregnant, and said because of when she did I was the only one. Well I almost went off my rocker man. I seriously thought I was going to be 18 and a father. And I made a big deal outta doin the right thing. Well when I told my dad, first thing he said was get a paternaty test. Dont trust that bitch as far as you can throw her. . Well I did and it wasn't mine. I WAS SURE I WAS THE ONLY ONE SHE WAS FUCKING, it ended up I just happened to be the brightest/bestlooking (sorry to sound conceided) and had the family that was best off so she picked me to be the father. So the whole point of this big mess of a post is. Before you start decorating the babies room, get a test done that is at least 99.9% certain.
oh and good luck
(if its your kid, ya better make sure you treat your wife like a damned queen for the rest of her life)
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You are lucky to have such an understanding wife. Not only did you cheat on her, just think how your children must feel? Your wife could have destroyed you financially because of your affair. I hope you realize what a good wife you have and treat her as such.
cladshirt said:
You are lucky to have such an understanding wife. Not only did you cheat on her, just think how your children must feel? Your wife could have destroyed you financially because of your affair. I hope you realize what a good wife you have and treat her as such.
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Amen to this. A good friend of mine paid child support for five years...asked for a paternity test and the mother/daughter mysteriously dissapeared and wouldn't answer subpoenas. I wouldn't trust anyone when it comes to that kind of money. I've heard estimates that one kid will set you back $50k-$100k before they are out on their own. Get the test and do the right thing if it is yours.
I respect other people's right to chose when it comes to external affairs so I won't comment on that. However, not using a condom is never smart. I've even heard stories about a vasectomy not being performed properly and resulting in a child.
SmasheUp said:
Amen to this. A good friend of mine paid child support for five years...asked for a paternity test and the mother/daughter mysteriously dissapeared and wouldn't answer subpoenas. I wouldn't trust anyone when it comes to that kind of money. I've heard estimates that one kid will set you back $50k-$100k before they are out on their own. Get the test and do the right thing if it is yours.
I respect other people's right to chose when it comes to external affairs so I won't comment on that. However, not using a condom is never smart. I've even heard stories about a vasectomy not being performed properly and resulting in a child.
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I'm not making excuses because it was wrong but we were builing a house and living with my in-laws while the house was being built. Anyone with in-laws can understand the stress. She was there when times were tough and I fell for her. I have always avoided any situation but I screwed up this time. No hard feeling for anyone who wants to flame me but thanks to those who have not. I guess I just need to tell someone and this place is my second home.
I'm not making excuses because it was wrong but we were builing a house and living with my in-laws while the house was being built. Anyone with in-laws can understand the stress. She was there when times were tough and I fell for her. I have always avoided any situation but I screwed up this time. No hard feeling for anyone who wants to flame me but thanks to those who have not. I guess I just need to tell someone and this place is my second home.
i respect you for the fact that you are handling this like a man. keep it that way, because trust me, you don't want your kids hating you. my dad left my mom the night i left for college for a younger woman and had been cheating on her for 10 years of and on (none of us had a clue), and he hasn't tried to contact me since that night, not one time. the bad thing is he was a crappy husband and dad anyway, and she was the best wife in the world, and if i ever see him i think i might kill him, because he is such a pussy and there is no way i am a part of him. so keep being a man about it.
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Fuck That
You stupid piece of shit. You had 2 kids. Think about them."My daddy cheated on my mom" That is fuckin sick and terrible. I hope the baby doesnt suffer from your mistakes. Im sorry bro, but that is fuckin wrong. I hope you took you wedding ring off while you were with other lady.
You stupid piece of shit. You had 2 kids. Think about them."My daddy cheated on my mom" That is fuckin sick and terrible. I hope the baby doesnt suffer from your mistakes. Im sorry bro, but that is fuckin wrong. I hope you took you wedding ring off while you were with other lady.
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Ok. Cool.. I think you are a good bloke for taking matters into your own hands. However, the following info may be of interest:
Dr. Richard Petty, head of a men’s clinic in London, reported on a study of 445 men who complained of impotence. Petty found that there was a "marked reduction" in testosterone levels when the vasectomy had been performed more than ten years ago. For some reason, testosterone levels tend to rise after a vasectomy, but drop later on.
Conflicting with the Gale Encyclopedia of Health:
There are very few risks associated with vasectomy other than infection, bruising, epididymitis (inflammation of the tube that carries the sperm from the testicle to the penis), and sperm granulomas (collection of fluid that leaks from a poorly sealed or tied vas deferens). These are easily treated if they do occur. Patients do not experience difficulty achieving an erection, maintaining an erection, or ejaculating. There is no decrease in the production of the male hormone (testosterone), and sex drive and ability are not altered. Vasectomy is safer and less expensive than tubal ligation (sterilization of a female by cutting the fallopian tube to prevent conception).
and even more conflicting:
(www.vasectomy-information.com) Yes. Your testes still produce testosterone so there is no reduction in your masculinity. Some major studies indicate that the level of testosterone in vasectomised men seems to decrease more slowly with age, so vasectomised men seem to have higher levels of testosterone longer into their lives than the non-vasectomised. This led to the fear some years ago that vasectomy may lead to increased incidence of prostate cancer. Later and more comprehensive studies have removed this fear.
Oh well... maybe I was wrong!?
Jeff_rys said:
Well Gary, never thought of it that way. You see my wife was not allowed to take the "pill" anymore for her health. It is an easier operation on a man then on a woman. That's why. So i guess i have to take more Test then others.
Ok. Cool.. I think you are a good bloke for taking matters into your own hands. However, the following info may be of interest:
Dr. Richard Petty, head of a men’s clinic in London, reported on a study of 445 men who complained of impotence. Petty found that there was a "marked reduction" in testosterone levels when the vasectomy had been performed more than ten years ago. For some reason, testosterone levels tend to rise after a vasectomy, but drop later on.
Conflicting with the Gale Encyclopedia of Health:
There are very few risks associated with vasectomy other than infection, bruising, epididymitis (inflammation of the tube that carries the sperm from the testicle to the penis), and sperm granulomas (collection of fluid that leaks from a poorly sealed or tied vas deferens). These are easily treated if they do occur. Patients do not experience difficulty achieving an erection, maintaining an erection, or ejaculating. There is no decrease in the production of the male hormone (testosterone), and sex drive and ability are not altered. Vasectomy is safer and less expensive than tubal ligation (sterilization of a female by cutting the fallopian tube to prevent conception).
and even more conflicting:
(www.vasectomy-information.com) Yes. Your testes still produce testosterone so there is no reduction in your masculinity. Some major studies indicate that the level of testosterone in vasectomised men seems to decrease more slowly with age, so vasectomised men seem to have higher levels of testosterone longer into their lives than the non-vasectomised. This led to the fear some years ago that vasectomy may lead to increased incidence of prostate cancer. Later and more comprehensive studies have removed this fear.
Oh well... maybe I was wrong!?
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