Eh, maybe the reason he robbed the cradle was so he could have a second family, some men do that and generally speaking older fathers have way more fun than their younger counterparts. If he's leaning towards kids I'm just encouraging her to get started.a kid isn't a tool to gain security. that's asinine.
I agree she should be included in finances but having a kid for security purposes is terrible advice
Let's face it, if she isn't an alter we are talking about a chick that came here for marital advice The track record of this group in general (myself included) isn't exactly stellar in that regard.