Do you have trouble making friends?

[Deus Ex Machina]

Do you have troubles making new friends? Like, say you've had the same group of friends for many many years, and then you move away from all of them, and adapt somewhere else on your own.

I made "friends" but a lot are co-workers, and I don't consider them to be true friends.


What about you all?

 

[alien amp pharm]

Usually people end up hating on be because I'm too beautiful.

Thus I consider you internet people my friends.

 

[alien amp pharm]

I was just kidding












































You all ain't my friends

 

[kho]

i have trouble making anything out of wood.

 

[theoak01]

im more shy than most so its kind of hard,unless im introduced through other friends its not to easy

 

[BonerBoy]

I made "friends" but a lot are co-workers, and I don't consider them to be true friends.


What about you all?

yeah most people hang with the guys from work so maybe you start considering them your friends

 

[Deus Ex Machina]

Re: Re: Do you have trouble making friends?

yeah most people hang with the guys from work so maybe you start considering them your friends

I hang out with them at work, that's it. nothing else, no leisure stuff, etc.

It's more mutual

 

[BonerBoy]

Re: Re: Re: Do you have trouble making friends?

I hang out with them at work, that's it. nothing else, no leisure stuff, etc.

It's more mutual

I worked at a place for six yrs that went tits up and even though I didnt hang with most of the guys after work its still a big deal when I run into someone from the old job with a handshake and hug and always take time to find out what they been up to and what the other guys are up to, I realy missed these guys company

my point is, like it or not the guys you work with every day are gonna grow on ya so consider them friends

 

[Deus Ex Machina]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Do you have trouble making friends?

I worked at a place for six yrs that went tits up and even though I didnt hang with most of the guys after work its still a big deal when I run into someone from the old job with a handshake and hug and always take time to find out what they been up to and what the other guys are up to, I realy missed these guys company

my point is, like it or not the guys you work with every day are gonna grow on ya so consider them friends

That's true, but do you know what I mean when I say mutual? All of them have their own seperate lives, with families to tend to, etc.

Maybe what i'm trying to say is 'friends outside of the workplace'

I just grew up with the same pack for many many years... I guess I should quit holding myself back, and start to be more inclusive about those matters...

 

[big_bad_buff]

i used to have like 4 or 5 people that were/are best friends, then i moved away and I realized everyone sucks, good friends are hard to come by, and i know this so i dont even try. i hate most people

 

[BonerBoy]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Do you have trouble making friends?

That's true, but do you know what I mean when I say mutual? All of them have their own seperate lives, with families to tend to, etc.

Maybe what i'm trying to say is 'friends outside of the workplace'

I just grew up with the same pack for many many years... I guess I should quit holding myself back, and start to be more inclusive about those matters...

yeah, now I know what you mean

I know exactly what you mean, I hate to tell ya but nobody will probaly ever replace the bros you grew up with

 

[Deus Ex Machina]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Do you have trouble making friends?

yeah, now I know what you mean

I know exactly what you mean, I hate to tell ya but nobody will probaly ever replace the bros you grew up with

You did not have to tell me, I pretty much knew

 

[BonerBoy]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Do you have trouble making friends?

You did not have to tell me, I pretty much knew

yeah it sucks, I been through it, they all got married tied down with kids or moved, I didnt even notice until I got divorced and looking for bros to chase women with

 

[Sub-Zero]

i used to have like 4 or 5 people that were/are best friends, then i moved away and I realized everyone sucks, good friends are hard to come by, and i know this so i dont even try. i hate most people

same experience

 

[hellorhih2o]

I'm definitely a shy guy (although you'd never know that at work) and I LIKE THAT.

I'm not good at making new friends but I'm DAMN good at keeping the ones I've got. I definiitely prefer that over the folks who call 200 people their "friends".

Easy come, easy go...

 

[big_bad_buff]

you're 14yo?

same experience

 

[sconoscuito]

i know hella people who I call up every weekend or they call but reall I only got about 4-6 true friends who are like my brothers

I guess the rest are just drunk buddies...

oh and making girls as my friends is getting harder and harder now that i'm in college...

 

[BO-DEN]

i never have that problem... but finding GOOD FRIENDS that i really respect and trust now thats tuff

 

[Bikini Mod]

I have a really hard time opening up to people because I was burned very badly in the past.

I dont need friends. I have my family. They have NEVER let me down.

Dont get me wrong. I have many acquaintances, but I don't have anyone that I would ask for help much because most of the time people offer until you REALLY need it. Then all of the sudden, they are busy, or broke, or whatever...

I talk to folks here and there, but quite honestly I don't even do THAT as much as I used to. Works for me.

 

[HumorMe]

I have 4 true hardcore "friends until the end" that I can count on if I need them and vice-versa.

The rest of my friends are more like aquaintances that I am friendly to in social gatherings.

True friends are hard to come by and should be cherished.

 

[randyjones]

try having a huge goiter on my neck from too much gh.I can't meet anybody with this thing on me.I can't get it removed either.people won't even look at me.

 

[TC2]

i never have that problem... but finding GOOD FRIENDS that i really respect and trust now thats tuff

word

 

[jerkbox]

i have no problems making friends.....although, right now I am not around people with similar interests very much....I work outside my city, with for the most part older, dorky programmers....