I didn't know you wanted to start cutting.....actually, instead of 'cutting' lets call it improving body composition, that way you don't start worrying about losing strength.
First of all, and don't take this the wrong way because I always liked you, you eat like a 12 year old girl.
Raisin Bran is crap, you might as well eat a Snickers bar with some Metamusel on the side. If you're not a breakfast person, you need to become one, anything and everything you do with respect to physical performance is all dependant on how you start the day.....You need to protein, not 3 egg whites either, that wouldn't satisfy my 115 lb sister, don't be afraid of whole eggs.....forget about cereal and eat oatmeal or whole wheat toast (real ww toast, not sugary crap with 0.1 g of Fiber that calls itself whole wheat).....
I think your main problem was lack of calories all day and then binging at night.....now it is going to be lack of overall calories.....if I ate like that all day, I'd sure as hell eat a bag of Dorritos at night, hell, I'd eat anything in the kitchen that would fit into my mouth I'd be so miserable and hungry.
To lose bodyfat, eat as much lean meat and green vegetables as you can stomach.....when looking at fish, chicken, lean beef, turkey, start thinking in terms of pounds eaten per day. Eat enough green veggies and salads for a small family....you can control your weight through carb intake.....
Alright, lol, bashing of your eating habbits is now over.....
What I would do for your goals is this.....eat a huge breakfast of eggs, some type of meat, oatmeal, and milk. Eat a lot of lean meats and fish, eat a lot of complex carbs like sweet potatoes, oats, brown rice, whole wheat pasta. Eat as many green veggies as you possibly can. Drink a gallon of water a day. Get a decent protein powder for a quick fix. Eliminate sugars from the diet (except for milk and fruit of course). Then systematically increase your training load, think about doing conditioning work or light olympic lifting complexes at the ass crack of dawn if it is possible......
Do you have access to a fridge at work?? Bring stuff.....bring protein shakes, tuna sandwhiches, chicken and rice, beef and whole wheat pasta, etc. If you go out, I recommend either tuna, or turkey, or roast beef club sandwhiches, lots of protein, plus the bacon, and get it on whole wheat or rye.
To kill cravings, try vanilla whey with milk, PB, and a banana, it is sweet, good for body comp. and kills the taste for something sweet.