Divorced people:

[silverstar1025]

Should Need2 be concerned about your inquiry of divorce?

Man I was just thinking the same thing.

I hope everything works out if there is trouble in paradise, Angel.

 

[Cutiebaby]

Thanks to the bunches here with the concerns, but I dont need them like you think..I was just inquiring how people can just realize when enough is enough and when to hit the door..I mean is divorce really planned or is it a heat of the moment "screw this I am out of here" type move.

 

[silverstar1025]

Thanks to the bunches here with the concerns, but I dont need them like you think..I was just inquiring how people can just realize when enough is enough and when to hit the door..I mean is divorce really planned or is it a heat of the moment "screw this I am out of here" type move.

Gosh I would hope that is not the case. It does seem like people throw in the towel pretty easily though now days. I would have to put up with a lot of shit and go through counseling before I would ever just say "fuck it I'm out".

 

[Cutiebaby]

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Gosh I would hope that is not the case. It does seem like people throw in the towel pretty easily though now days. I would have to put up with a lot of shit and go through counseling before I would ever just say "fuck it I'm out".

I think most people sit back and wait for things to change, some of them try counciling while others just sit back and expect things to change

 

[Longhorn85]

..I mean is divorce really planned or is it a heat of the moment "screw this I am out of here" type move.

I know of a couple of situations where one partner thought everything was fine and then the other came home one day and said: "I want you out."

 

[GUARDIAN]

I was divorced once. I really didn't have a choice in the matter. At the time I didnt think it was the right thing and certainly not planned. I caught her cheating and was shitty and kicked her ass out. I tried to reconcile but after about 3 weeks she decided to file. All over a stupid key. I took her house key from her and I guess according to her mother if I had given it back sooner it might have worked out.

She is now the mother of two and now single. She got the boot by another guy. KARMA BIAAAAAAAAAAAAAATCCCCCCCCCHHHHHHHHH!

 

[silverstar1025]

I was divorced once. I really didn't have a choice in the matter. At the time I didnt think it was the right thing and certainly not planned. I caught her cheating and was shitty and kicked her ass out. I tried to reconcile but after about 3 weeks she decided to file. All over a stupid key. I took her house key from her and I guess according to her mother if I had given it back sooner it might have worked out.

She is now the mother of two and now single. She got the boot by another guy. KARMA BIAAAAAAAAAAAAAATCCCCCCCCCHHHHHHHHH!

hahahaha that is awesome! Karma baby.

 

[dps1822]

You just know inside its time to go. Its a bunch of things that can happen that you keep built up inside then they do one stupid thing and it sends you over the edge. You have to be ready to let go because going back and forth just makes things worse. Good Luck!!!

 

[manny78]

I mean is divorce really planned or is it a heat of the moment "screw this I am out of here" type move.

I've seen both. The only pattern I saw was a clear lack of communication...

 

[Turd Ferguson]

When you don't want to work for it anymore I guess. I didn't let go untill about 6-8 months after the divorce was final. But I didnt want to get divorced from the start.