I was the one to bring it up. Then regretted it and she wouldn't change her mind. I'm sure it was for the best as we fought like cats and dogs (I still have scars, but never hit her). It was almost 5 years ago now and it haunts me still like a good dream that you were forced to wake up from. But now I have a 9 month old mini me with someone else that I could never give up.