Divorced peeps

[Fishak]

^^ That sucks bro, I couldnt even imagine that kind of shit.

 

[jnevin]

When I was married I looked forward to time alone to relax. Now I have tons of time alone and not enough shit to do to fill that time. One thing for sure starting to date again at age 36 sucks ass. The only regret I have about the divorce is that my five year old is constantly asking when his mom is coming home.

Yeah, Q is always asking where her mom is, and the whole "she's working sweetie" thing is losing credibility.

 

[wootoom]

My kids always ask if I'm gonna ask mom out when she comes over...haha..glad I'm at the stage where I can be civil with my ex..never thought it would happen..makes it so much easier on the kids

 

[WoodyO]

I'm pretty civil with the ex. Our problem is night she never takes our son because she has nowhere for him to stay. She only takes him during the day, so every night he asks when she's coming home and I have to try and explain to him that this isn't her home anymore.

 

[mrplunkey]

When I was married I looked forward to time alone to relax. Now I have tons of time alone and not enough shit to do to fill that time. One thing for sure starting to date again at age 36 sucks ass. The only regret I have about the divorce is that my five year old is constantly asking when his mom is coming home.

All you need is the right 21 year old with some dad issues.

1) Go to a bar or club with a fairly wide age range.

2) Strike up a conversation with a 20-something year old girl.

3) If the girl starts the conversation with: "My father has been fucking me over my entire life", your answer should be: "Really? Tell me more."

4) If the girl starts the conversation with: "My father is the greatest man I've ever known", your answer should be: "It's been really nice meeting you. I'll see you around."

 

[nangiggles]

He said dating plunk, daddy issue girls are great for one night standing, not so sure about dating...

 

[smurf2]

Nan, sorry you're having issues with the hubby. Its stressful when things at home aren't going well. I've been there. I dont have any advice, i just hope in the end you get the outcome thats best for you.

 

[cindylou]

Wtf does a 36 year old say/have in common with someone that is early 20s?

How would he strike up a conversation?

 

[cindylou]

Nan you have no kids, you're not religious, and have no reason to hold on to some of the idealistic ideas that others hold on to IMO.

I can't shake the way I was raised. I just can't get past it, but maybe you can. If you don't have kids maybe divorce is something you should explore without guilt.

I agree with smurf though. I'm sorry and hope you find whatever makes you happy.

 

[pdaddyII]

Nan you have no kids, you're not religious, and have no reason to hold on to some of the idealistic ideas that others hold on to IMO.

I can't shake the way I was raised. I just can't get past it, but maybe you can. If you don't have kids maybe divorce is something you should explore without guilt.

I agree with smurf though. I'm sorry and hope you find whatever makes you happy.

Holy shit, passive aggressive much?