Distance in dating

[velvett]

No I wouldn't attempt it, it's too complicated and I like my life very simple.

 

[Robert Jan]

No I wouldn't attempt it, it's too complicated and I like my life very simple.

good attitude

 

[biteme]

No I wouldn't attempt it, it's too complicated and I like my life very simple.

smart girl.

 

[EnderJE]

First, yes I have kids, and so does she. I never said anything about leaving my kids, she is not in another country, she is right here in US.

Yes, she is worth it, I respect her wishes, she just needs some time to sort some things out so that she can be able to put herself into a relationship. So, She hasn't said no or never, just needs her time.

Whoa. Sounds dangerous now. Long distance with both people having kids.

 

[wutangnomo]

I've done long-distance relationships twice and I will tell you that I will NEVER EVER do it again! My last one was long-distance and it turned out this bitch lied about a ton of shit and cheated. I'm lucky I eventually found out and didn't waste anymore of my life on her pathetic ass. Greatest day of my life.

You just never know what the hell the other person is doing when you can't be around them on a daily basis. When you see someone everyday (or often) you can pick up on their attitude and mannerism changes; however, when you do not have the luxury of regularly seeing someone physically giving into temptations is easier. Both long-distance relationships ended up with her cheating. I know that I have the will power, but I have lost faith in women quite frankly. It's so very easy for someone to lie to you talking on the phone or chatting online.

My advice to you is try to bring the two of you together AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. There is no worse feeling then wasting a bunch of time on someone you barely see.

 

[EnderJE]

I've done long-distance relationships twice and I will tell you that I will NEVER EVER do it again! My last one was long-distance and it turned out this bitch lied about a ton of shit and cheated. I'm lucky I eventually found out and didn't waste anymore of my life on her pathetic ass. Greatest day of my life.

You just never know what the hell the other person is doing when you can't be around them on a daily basis. When you see someone everyday (or often) you can pick up on their attitude and mannerism changes; however, when you do not have the luxury of regularly seeing someone physically giving into temptations is easier. Both long-distance relationships ended up with her cheating. I know that I have the will power, but I have lost faith in women quite frankly. It's so very easy for someone to lie to you talking on the phone or chatting online.

My advice to you is try to bring the two of you together AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. There is no worse feeling then wasting a bunch of time on someone you barely see.

Or...maybe you should stop going for sluts? Just a thought.

 

[wutangnomo]

Or...maybe you should stop going for sluts? Just a thought.

Many hide it very well. Just take a look at this board.

 

[beefybull]

Many hide it very well. Just take a look at this board.

This cat knows whats up

 

[EnderJE]

Many hide it very well. Just take a look at this board.

rofl...no...they don't...but where would we be without the drama and the sluts?

 

[chesty]

You just never know what the hell the other person is doing when you can't be around them on a daily basis.

If you feel you need to be around them as often as possible to monitor their actions and such, then you shouldn't be dating.

One of them most famous Generals in the Marine Corps, Chesty Puller, very rarely saw his future wife. And during many campaigns including WWII, he courted her by mail. Eventually the two of them married and it lasted. There was no email, no cell phone, etc. Just plain old fashioned trust and loyalty. They chose to make it work and it did.

So, distance is not a factor in the respect of disloyalty, etc. if that is happening it would happen if they lived in the same house. And to be around someone to monitor their moods/actions etc, is in essence an attempt to control them, which is a no go.

I've done long-distance relationships twice and I will tell you that I will NEVER EVER do it again! My last one was long-distance and it turned out this bitch lied about a ton of shit and cheated. I'm lucky I eventually found out and didn't waste anymore of my life on her pathetic ass. Greatest day of my life.

You just never know what the hell the other person is doing when you can't be around them on a daily basis. When you see someone everyday (or often) you can pick up on their attitude and mannerism changes; however, when you do not have the luxury of regularly seeing someone physically giving into temptations is easier. Both long-distance relationships ended up with her cheating. I know that I have the will power, but I have lost faith in women quite frankly. It's so very easy for someone to lie to you talking on the phone or chatting online.

My advice to you is try to bring the two of you together AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. There is no worse feeling then wasting a bunch of time on someone you barely see.