it is not cool to threaten people here or on Facebook, in the real world, anywhere, no matter what they say to you. You think you can maneuver and navigate yourself in this world to get what you want by manipulating. That's what you're doing or trying to do to zwhit and it's what your'e doing to Annie. It's WRONG to treat another person that way. Even if they say mean things to you. This is what I teach my 5 year old.
There are lines you don't cross to still maintain human decency, it shouldn't even cross your mind.
Everything you say she is, that is who YOU are being right now. You can't see it.