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DISHES.... problem

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here's how it goes down. i live with two people in an apartment.
one of them does their dishes like once every few days, and i don't have a problem with that. The other one hasn't washed a dish ALL YEAR, since we moved in late august. YES iam serious. I cook salmon, eggs, red meat, chicken, needtos bars, veggies, the works, but i always wash my dishes right afterwards. C doesnt even rinse his out, he just throws them in there dirty. Once he opened up a can of tuna, didnt feel like eating it and threw it in the bottom of the sink. which created the nastiest smell ever and he left it there for 3 weeks until B cleaned it.

My roommate mainly washed all the other ones dishes but i did a few times. yelled at him a few times and he said those dishes weren't his, but when i was sick at home last week i guess had a bunch left over. i came back and the fucking sink is up to the top with them, both sides. hes a bengals fan and one side has 7 bengals cups in it.

i came back and saw my other roommate doing his dishes (2) then he left the sink. i told him, "those C's dishes? i ain't fucking spending 25 minutes washing all those. i just spent 15 doing my dads back at home." he said he wasn't going to do them either.

so we decided to leave them for C to do since he just waits a couple of weeks until me or my other roommate crack and do them because they smell too bad.

Roommate B is a good friend and cool dude. Roommate C is alright, not bad, but smells bad and doesn't clean anything or take care of his hygiene.

i'm just asking, if you were in my position. what would you do to C? Should i confront him again? i did before and he tried to tell me all of those weren't his dishes and lied to me, like the time i bought a specialty pizza from vitos, went to bed on the couch, and woke up to a high roommate C opening the box in the fridge and taking the last 5 slices in his room.

Then the next day i called him out and told him he did it because i saw him and he had the nerve of lying to me and telling me he was only getting water. I told him water doesn't come from inside the fucking fridge in a pizza box., it comes from a sink. lol. He even had the nerve to say to me as soon as he woke up and opened the fridge. Why would you leave an empty pizza box in the fridge?

Should i leave his dishes in there while washing my own? (no forks left, they are all in the dish washer with me and B's dishes)

Im having a few friends from osu up this weekend and im not trying to have it looking like a fucking mess.

input appreciated.
 
lmfao.

confront him. it ain't worth you getting anxiety and shit. trust me, I'm the same way, even worse. if he doesn't comply, smash a fucking plate over his head. then pick up the jagged piece, cut your own inner forearm with it, squeeze out the blood into a cup and drink it.

that'll teach him.
 
i mean i don't care bro, i used to think its funny. Bear and all the regulars over my apartment just think he's the laziest S.O.B. ever.

Bear did do a few bad things to him, because he talked shit behind bears back and dropped the n bomb in front of him a few times. and my buddy bear is 300+ and a state champ wrestler. Bear has ate all of his food numerous times, made fun of him on a daily basis, and roomate B got wasted and pissed on C's bed and leg when C was hammered off of 6 shots (C's the biggest lightweight ever, but says he eats strawberries with everclear soaked in them, and drinks cases up home.) C cried after B pissed on him. it was kind of fucked up but kind of funny. (yeah a lot of fucked up shit happens in my apartment. most of the stuff is funny though.) Then bear put him in wrestling moves and locks and shit (i wasnt a part of it, just hammered and laughing).
 
Looks like his Mommy did the dishes for him when he was at home.

Some guys are just sloppy pigs. Disgusting. Buy some paper plates/cups for him.
 
lol cindy. i will take a pic of his mess in the kitchen and post it here.
heck ill just take a few of my whole apartment.
and show you guys what bear looks like. ive been trying to get him on EF as he is a powerlifter. lol.

well i'm off to do chest.
 
Get a box or a bus tub, put his dishes in it, and put it in his bedroom.
 
yeah I can get a bit lazy myself and let some shit pile up for a few days. But when I do clean I get it all. THis guy leaving it for you is simply unacceptable. And wtf with leaving a can of tuna in the sink.........I would have put that under his fucking pillow, what a fucking pikey. YOu guys should just have a schedule where every day or every other day, one of you does ALL the fucking dishes, no matter who's they are. And if one of you slacks off on his day, than there might have to be talk of getting them off the lease. Just that simple. I learned this myself with roommates, when guys don't have a "system".....shit falls apart. Without a system we just say, yeah I'll get to it. No, you have a schedule that say's "do it now bitch"........:whatever:
 
lol cindy. i will take a pic of his mess in the kitchen and post it here.
heck ill just take a few of my whole apartment.
and show you guys what bear looks like. ive been trying to get him on EF as he is a powerlifter. lol.

well i'm off to do chest.

Really to be honest, paper plates and cups are not that expensive. That way all anyone has to wash that belongs to him are the utensils if he even uses anything besides a spoon. lol. Let me take a guess...he never uses a fork.

lol :D
 
Get a box or a bus tub, put his dishes in it, and put it in his bedroom.

Great idea.
But then he will just use the other clean dishes, eventually they will run out of dishes?

I would do this method, confront him, then prevent him from being able to use any other dishes.
 
wow. thread closed. after leaving his dishes in the sink for a week and a half he actually did them. was away at my buddies 21st bday dinner after the gym and came back. still can't believe he did them.
 
forgot to mention, the dumbass put pots and pans in the dishwasher. hes going to fucking ruin them.
 
lol...I lived with five dudes back at OSU, we had a chronic non dish washer...I just ended up doing his dishes and bitching.
 
Why isit you decide to call yourself A?

Tell C which I am assumin stands for C*nt that if he is not gonna wash his dishes you are going to do one of two things:

A. Kick his ass to death unless he only ever orders out and eats it from the packing it comes in so it can just be thrown once he's through with it or

B. Leave his plates in his room or put them in the bath when he is in there until he starts pulling his weight.
 
i would tell him that if he doesn't start cleaning his own dishes, plus yours once in a while like you've done for him, that you're going to shit in his bed. then do it.


problem solved.



ps. get a lock for your door first.
 
Ask him to start doing his dishes! Dang! It sucks living with people you don't love.

That being said...my man really sucks at picking up his dishes and I very loudly (at times) make my kiddos do it when they clear their dishes. I'm the only one who does a dish around here. Different situation than yours though.
 
from what???

i had a habit of mixing my morning shake in the blender, and pouring it in one of those plastic gas station soft drink cups for the road. if i remember right i had forgotten a few in the cab of my truck and when i cleaned it out one day that's where i found some maggots
 
Ask him to start doing his dishes! Dang! It sucks living with people you don't love.

That being said...my man really sucks at picking up his dishes and I very loudly (at times) make my kiddos do it when they clear their dishes. I'm the only one who does a dish around here. Different situation than yours though.

well im also a mother of three, so i can relate.
those little buggers can be so damn unappreciative sometimes!
 
cant do that bro, im going to see if he does his own next week. im guessing he wont. i really hope he does.

in my apartment we all have seperate bathrooms and locks on all 3 doors. i never lock my door except when im on videobox, or when i go to sleep. only lock it when im sleeping is because fucking bear comes in my room at 6am (when he wakes up) and tips my bed over or pours water on me. i like to sleep in somedays.
 
here's how it goes down. i live with two people in an apartment.
one of them does their dishes like once every few days, and i don't have a problem with that. The other one hasn't washed a dish ALL YEAR, since we moved in late august. YES iam serious. I cook salmon, eggs, red meat, chicken, needtos bars, veggies, the works, but i always wash my dishes right afterwards. C doesnt even rinse his out, he just throws them in there dirty. Once he opened up a can of tuna, didnt feel like eating it and threw it in the bottom of the sink. which created the nastiest smell ever and he left it there for 3 weeks until B cleaned it.

My roommate mainly washed all the other ones dishes but i did a few times. yelled at him a few times and he said those dishes weren't his, but when i was sick at home last week i guess had a bunch left over. i came back and the fucking sink is up to the top with them, both sides. hes a bengals fan and one side has 7 bengals cups in it.

i came back and saw my other roommate doing his dishes (2) then he left the sink. i told him, "those C's dishes? i ain't fucking spending 25 minutes washing all those. i just spent 15 doing my dads back at home." he said he wasn't going to do them either.

so we decided to leave them for C to do since he just waits a couple of weeks until me or my other roommate crack and do them because they smell too bad.

Roommate B is a good friend and cool dude. Roommate C is alright, not bad, but smells bad and doesn't clean anything or take care of his hygiene.

i'm just asking, if you were in my position. what would you do to C? Should i confront him again? i did before and he tried to tell me all of those weren't his dishes and lied to me, like the time i bought a specialty pizza from vitos, went to bed on the couch, and woke up to a high roommate C opening the box in the fridge and taking the last 5 slices in his room.

Then the next day i called him out and told him he did it because i saw him and he had the nerve of lying to me and telling me he was only getting water. I told him water doesn't come from inside the fucking fridge in a pizza box., it comes from a sink. lol. He even had the nerve to say to me as soon as he woke up and opened the fridge. Why would you leave an empty pizza box in the fridge?

Should i leave his dishes in there while washing my own? (no forks left, they are all in the dish washer with me and B's dishes)

Im having a few friends from osu up this weekend and im not trying to have it looking like a fucking mess.

input appreciated.
iv tried confronting kids like this, and they are like "relax im going to do them" and act all assholeish about it.

so after a week of lies, i said fuck it and tossed the entire sink worth of dishes out the back yard because flies and stench started to accumulate.

then magically as soon as i did that, the kid responsible suddenly needed to use his dishes that he had no problems with leaving dirty and sick in the sink for the past week, and then bitched at me.

im going to punch him in the face this weekend, just u wait and see.

my point is, you cant be friends with someone with such different habbits than you while you are living with them. you either let it slide, and stay friends, or get in their face, get your muscular way, and have them hate you for it.

clean, or friend, you choose, but understand it will be a battle.
 
Then the next day i called him out and told him he did it because i saw him and he had the nerve of lying to me and telling me he was only getting water. I told him water doesn't come from inside the fucking fridge in a pizza box., it comes from a sink. lol. He even had the nerve to say to me as soon as he woke up and opened the fridge. Why would you leave an empty pizza box in the fridge?

oh wow, total scumbag, not your friend at all. im a bodybuilder. everyone knows. cause im so jacked. if you fuck with my food you get hit, simple as that. im not trying to win any popularity contests, just live my fuckin life. hit this faggot in his face.

i suggest taking a laundry basket type thing in front of th esink, emptying all his dishes into it, and placing it in his room.

say "i pay rent for this kitchen, and will stop paying a certain portion and spend that on a maid, or you will do your dishes. i refuse to pay rent for an unusubly disgusting kitchen".

then punch his face.

the other day i was sick and my roomate was being noisey. 3:30 in the morning. i kept hearing my other roomate. "get outtt im going to sleep". after i hear a thud and my wall splinter, i get out, grab drunken douche by legs, drag him to the living room. stand over him and look into his empty eyes

"i am sick! shut the fuck up tonight, or i WILL fucking killl you!".

then i threw a table and slammed my door.

turns out kid passed out right where i left him, doesnt remember a thing.

the moral of this story, is that when people inconvenience you, its because they are stupid, and no ammount of confrontation or reasoning will change this. you must use excessive force, and flex in their faces to establish dominance. nobody will fuck with you if they dont want their ass beat.

remember, hes not your friend, hes a lying sack of messy shit. dont be a people pleasure.

flex.in.his.face
 
oh wow, total scumbag, not your friend at all. im a bodybuilder. everyone knows. cause im so jacked. if you fuck with my food you get hit, simple as that. im not trying to win any popularity contests, just live my fuckin life. hit this faggot in his face.

i suggest taking a laundry basket type thing in front of th esink, emptying all his dishes into it, and placing it in his room.

say "i pay rent for this kitchen, and will stop paying a certain portion and spend that on a maid, or you will do your dishes. i refuse to pay rent for an unusubly disgusting kitchen".

then punch his face.

the other day i was sick and my roomate was being noisey. 3:30 in the morning. i kept hearing my other roomate. "get outtt im going to sleep". after i hear a thud and my wall splinter, i get out, grab drunken douche by legs, drag him to the living room. stand over him and look into his empty eyes

"i am sick! shut the fuck up tonight, or i WILL fucking killl you!".

then i threw a table and slammed my door.

turns out kid passed out right where i left him, doesnt remember a thing.

the moral of this story, is that when people inconvenience you, its because they are stupid, and no ammount of confrontation or reasoning will change this. you must use excessive force, and flex in their faces to establish dominance. nobody will fuck with you if they dont want their ass beat.

remember, hes not your friend, hes a lying sack of messy shit. dont be a people pleasure.

flex.in.his.face


sub is the man
 
Solution is simple, albeit, not planet friendly.

Get together with the clean roomie when the dirty dude is going to be out of the apartment for several hours. First, go to Walmart, buy gigantic econo packs of disposable plates, cups, bowls, cutlery, etc.

Next go home (this part is actually critical for the effect) box up and store every fucking dish, glass, plate, mug, etc., etc. and replace them with the disposables. Increase everyone's share of the rent by cost of disposable products.

You're only other option is to find another roommate. He's shitting on you guys. He won't change, so accept being his cleaning bitch or replace him.
 
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