depressed

[THE BOUNCER]

I'm in the same boat here bro. My son is almost four now. After my son was born it seemed like I had that post pardom depression that my wife was supposed to have. I was depressed all the time, like I was in the box. My Doc put me on Paxil and my life is gradually changing. This may not be your answer but its what kept me true to my wife and a father to my son. You have to be happy within yourself before you can be happy. Do a little searching bro and see just what it is that makes you happy. Look at it this way......some people cannot find love, some people cannot have children......take a look around my friend it could be a lot worse. You may be feeling sorry for yourself? Thats ok, just look at how fortunate you are and maybe you'll see that things are different that they really are? If you are feeling more depressed then you are letting on, and you are thinking of suicide or something like that, then pm me and lets see if I can get you some real help. Good Luck bro!

Arias

karma for you bro! damn nice guy!

 

[Hbone]

Fellas try the 5-htp for the depression works very well for some..

 

[Lifter4Life]

When you wake up in the morning and are able to stand up and breathe nothing else should matter. Think of those who can't do it. Cheer up! Lifter

 

[MASKEDMAN]

Here is my cycle. Its not that much but it is my first:
300mg deca 1-10wks
500mg aratest 1-10wks
30mg ed 1-4wks
clomid two weeks after last inj.
100mg,50mg,10mg etc.
Thanks to everyone who responded. Sometimes you just need to
hear that your not alone and a good swift kick in the ass. Like I said I am not normally like this so I was just wondering if it was the cycle. But thanks again.

 

[JKD]

dude - stop being selfish - be a father to your son and a husband to your wife. I am the same age as you - married - no kids yet. I have freinds that get more ass than a toilet seat - and I been with the same girl for 10 years. I am not the least bit jealous of them. Dont get caught up in the petty BS. Your in a admirable position right now - dont' take if for granted. your are going down your own path - embrace it and make the best of it. Also, are you on any post cycle therapy.

 

[bigdelt69]

dude i know how you feel, i am younger than you with a child and no wife. its hard sometime but when i get down i just spend some quality time with my son. he allways cheers me up. i hate to say this but the first thing you need to realize is that you have to do this no matter what. YOU have a SON. Pick your head up and smile.

 

[MASKEDMAN]

I am doing the clomid for post cycle.

 

[Hbone]

More ass then a toilet seat. Ilke that one..

Maskedman how long you been on or off the clomid????????

It causes depression in some>>>>>

 

[JKD]

life can get challenging at times but the good time always seem to out weigh the bad. Your in a slump - you can sit there and do nothing and let your depression get the best of you or you can do something about it. Be active - lift, take your wife and kid out to a movie, do yard work - just dont sit still. I always find that if I am active I dont dwell on stuff. Anyways - be proactive get out an about. Most people that I know that have medical depression sit in the apartments and dwell. They cut themselves off. Thats not healthy - we all need outside stimulous. Good Luck.

 

[w84me]

You can have a good balance on life ... a little hard at times than others ... but I've been married 12 years and have 3 kids ... I think we all have times of depression ... what we were, could've been, dreams that we use to have ... now, instead of the adolescent dreams move forward ... have time for yourself, give your wife time to herself ... and each of you need one-on-one time with the son as well as a COUPLE. Its hard work. Its very true from the post above though - be happy in yourself first - then it will be easier to love others. But ... talk to your wife ... I suggested to my husband (when I noticed the same depression) that he should have the "guys" over for a night of poker or a day at the baseball game. The important thing to know is your life isn't over - just another chapter in the big book. Learn how to turn the pages without ripping them out. Its all cool. I can guarantee you one thing, your wife will one day feel the same way you are feeling & question her life as well. Everyone cannot be astronauts or win the Nobel Peace Prize ... thats all cool ... being a number one husband, father, and a best friend is a lot more challenging and down to earth. Peace Out.