Damn this sucks!

[jd_uk]

Anyone here ever develop strong feelings for a friend?

Well I have recently and it fucking sucks. It's weird, I never used to find her that attractive, I've just taken a strong liking to her personality and now I literally can't stop thinking about her.

It's driving me mad. Thing is, she's got a long term boyfriend and I know she's not at all interested,....in a way I don't even want her to be.

The worst part is knowing that I'm gonna have to see her almost every day for the next year or so and just be her friend.

Anyone felt like this before?

 

[slickdadd]

Yeah a couple times. It usually goes away pretty soon though. It just seems like time crawls by while the feelings are there though. Just masterbate feverishly.

 

[SoreArms]

alter?

 

[Fina Junkie]

. Just masterbate feverishly.

vaseline intensive care is a good lubricant.

 

[jd_uk]

vaseline intensive care is a good lubricant.

lol fuck u...its not even that much of a sexual thing though (ok it is there a bit), but mainly i just really care for her....just too much.

 

[Buddy_Christ]

as slickdadd said, masterbate feverishly.

 

[Code]

Romanesque?

 

[Scotsman]

Anyone here ever develop strong feelings for a friend?

Well I have recently and it fucking sucks. It's weird, I never used to find her that attractive, I've just taken a strong liking to her personality and now I literally can't stop thinking about her.

It's driving me mad. Thing is, she's got a long term boyfriend and I know she's not at all interested,....in a way I don't even want her to be.

The worst part is knowing that I'm gonna have to see her almost every day for the next year or so and just be her friend.

Anyone felt like this before?

Talk to her about it. If you are close friends she will notice that you are acting weird even if you don't see it. Also she will probably be happy that you care strongly for her and your friendship.

CHeers,
Scotsman

 

[jd_uk]

Talk to her about it. If you are close friends she will notice that you are acting weird even if you don't see it. Also she will probably be happy that you care strongly for her and your friendship.

CHeers,
Scotsman

She already has noticed that I've been acting weirdly...which has led to petty arguments (mostly my fault) and us growing slightly apart as friends which hurts even more.

Believe me I've come very close to talking to her about it, but I know that it would change things a lot. (not for the better)

Ah fuck.

 

[Scotsman]

She already has noticed that I've been acting weirdly...which has led to petty arguments (mostly my fault) and us growing slightly apart as friends which hurts even more.

Believe me I've come very close to talking to her about it, but I know that it would change things a lot. (not for the better)

Ah fuck.

Trust me telling her is the only way to mend the rift you have already created. As long as you are honest she will appreciate what you say if your friendship means as much to her as it does to you. Besides girls like it when you talk about intimate feelings. Good luck to you.

Cheers,
Scotsman