Damn this sucks!

[jd_uk]

Anyone here ever develop strong feelings for a friend?

Well I have recently and it fucking sucks. It's weird, I never used to find her that attractive, I've just taken a strong liking to her personality and now I literally can't stop thinking about her.

It's driving me mad. Thing is, she's got a long term boyfriend and I know she's not at all interested,....in a way I don't even want her to be.

The worst part is knowing that I'm gonna have to see her almost every day for the next year or so and just be her friend.

Anyone felt like this before?

 

[slickdadd]

Yeah a couple times. It usually goes away pretty soon though. It just seems like time crawls by while the feelings are there though. Just masterbate feverishly.

 

[SoreArms]

alter?

 

[Fina Junkie]

. Just masterbate feverishly.

vaseline intensive care is a good lubricant.

 

[jd_uk]

vaseline intensive care is a good lubricant.

lol fuck u...its not even that much of a sexual thing though (ok it is there a bit), but mainly i just really care for her....just too much.

 

[Buddy_Christ]

as slickdadd said, masterbate feverishly.

 

[Code]

Romanesque?

 

[Scotsman]

Anyone here ever develop strong feelings for a friend?

Well I have recently and it fucking sucks. It's weird, I never used to find her that attractive, I've just taken a strong liking to her personality and now I literally can't stop thinking about her.

It's driving me mad. Thing is, she's got a long term boyfriend and I know she's not at all interested,....in a way I don't even want her to be.

The worst part is knowing that I'm gonna have to see her almost every day for the next year or so and just be her friend.

Anyone felt like this before?

Talk to her about it. If you are close friends she will notice that you are acting weird even if you don't see it. Also she will probably be happy that you care strongly for her and your friendship.

CHeers,
Scotsman

 

[jd_uk]

Talk to her about it. If you are close friends she will notice that you are acting weird even if you don't see it. Also she will probably be happy that you care strongly for her and your friendship.

CHeers,
Scotsman

She already has noticed that I've been acting weirdly...which has led to petty arguments (mostly my fault) and us growing slightly apart as friends which hurts even more.

Believe me I've come very close to talking to her about it, but I know that it would change things a lot. (not for the better)

Ah fuck.

 

[Scotsman]

She already has noticed that I've been acting weirdly...which has led to petty arguments (mostly my fault) and us growing slightly apart as friends which hurts even more.

Believe me I've come very close to talking to her about it, but I know that it would change things a lot. (not for the better)

Ah fuck.

Trust me telling her is the only way to mend the rift you have already created. As long as you are honest she will appreciate what you say if your friendship means as much to her as it does to you. Besides girls like it when you talk about intimate feelings. Good luck to you.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[Fina Junkie]

treat her like shit. She'll love you then.

works everytime.

 

[Barak]

A friend and I are trying to save years of friendship after a botched romance between her and I. Were working it out but the feelings are still there and it sucks dude, but time heals all.

 

[jd_uk]

Trust me telling her is the only way to mend the rift you have already created. As long as you are honest she will appreciate what you say if your friendship means as much to her as it does to you. Besides girls like it when you talk about intimate feelings. Good luck to you.

Cheers,
Scotsman

hmmm maybe you're right.

Any ladies reading this, what are your thoughts?

 

[Deus Ex Machina]

Romanesque?

p60

 

[Fina Junkie]

Trust me telling her is the only way to mend the rift you have already created. As long as you are honest she will appreciate what you say if your friendship means as much to her as it does to you. Besides girls like it when you talk about intimate feelings. Good luck to you.

Cheers,
Scotsman

I have to disagree with this.

I have told two girls about my "feelings" toward them.

BACKFIRE......


treat them like shit unless they are over the age of 25. once at the age of 25 or older females can be reasoned with.

 

[powerslave]

been there recently. Yea it sucks.

 

[jd_uk]

been there recently. Yea it sucks.

How did you deal with it?

Like i said, the worst part is knowing I'm gonna have to see her most days for the next year or so. Hopefully it'll pass.

 

[BileStew]

Romanesque?

lol

 

[powerslave]

How did you deal with it?

Like i said, the worst part is knowing I'm gonna have to see her most days for the next year or so. Hopefully it'll pass.

Well, my situation was a bit different. We weren't co-workers or classmates so we didn't see each other every day but frequently enough to know how you feel. She is in the Air Force and was here getting her masters degree. We actually met at the gym and would hang out when we could. But with her time constraints, it was next to impossible to explore the possibilities. I did end up telling her how I felt. It was something I felt I had to do and really not to get her response because I knew what it would be. Actually this past week has been hell because she left Wednesday to go to her next duty assignment.

 

[jd_uk]

This doesn't get any easier.

Anyone else empathize with me here? Any women been involved in this sorta thing?

 

[Sub-Zero]

never happend to me, but i agree with the "treat women like shit if they are under 25"...

they just like it so much.


also, try getting her drunk and having sex with her

 

[jd_uk]

never happend to me, but i agree with the "treat women like shit if they are under 25"...

they just like it so much.


also, try getting her drunk and having sex with her

lol...your age shows.

 

[SAGAT]

been there, done that, got burned bad. dude, tell her NOW. i mean, pick up the goddamn phone right now and tell her. even if nothing good comes of it (and it probably won't, not trying to burst your bubble just being real) you will have gotten it off your chest. i've been in this kind of shit more than once , trust me on this one.

 

[jd_uk]

been there, done that, got burned bad. dude, tell her NOW. i mean, pick up the goddamn phone right now and tell her. even if nothing good comes of it (and it probably won't, not trying to burst your bubble just being real) you will have gotten it off your chest. i've been in this kind of shit more than once , trust me on this one.

Y'know I would but it would just make things fuckin awkward for the next year that I have to see her. What makes you so sure it would be a good idea?

Think i'll just pain this one out

 

[SAGAT]

i can strongly advise against that bro, i tried that too but i just HAD to tell, it was only awkward for about a month or so.

 

[jd_uk]

i can strongly advise against that bro, i tried that too but i just HAD to tell, it was only awkward for about a month or so.

And after the month...what happened?