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My answer to your question would be based on ONE THING: WHY does she "want you back"?
QT and a few others raised some strong points, points from where you can begin a rational thought process.
Everyone makes mistakes and life has a way of throwing curve balls at you that you would never have seen coming <--- this statement applies to both you AND Daisy. I never spoke to her personally so I don't have a clue what was going on in HER world when she made the choices that lead to the break up of your family. And you, well you got hit right between the eyes with the rammifications of her decisions.
My advice? Go to counseling so that the two of you can get down to the meat of "what went wrong." If she is willing to go through the work that it will take to MAYBE salvage your union then I say you should not keep your heart hard. Think with YOUR HEAD though. This is not about sexual attraction or "all the time" you have invested into your relationship and "how can I EVER find another?" stuff. This is about seeing if the two of you can find a way to get past the mistakes of the past and repair the foundation of your relationship. But even still, there are no guarantees. You might go through all of this (both of you) and decide when all is said and done that it would be better for the two of you to remain friends and co-parent from separate households.
I know this will sound like a flip statement, but it is not. IMO An infidelity is not a reason to end a marriage.
Going to see a counselor couldn't hurt you. If nothing else you might get some answers that you otherwise wouldn't get and it will help you to gain clarity and perspective <--- this is ALWAYS a good thing.
