cuddled to death

[annabelletx]

ladies. . .

at night when you are sleeping next to your men (mostly bodybuilders and powerlifters) when they like to cuddle. . .

. . .have you ever felt like they were squeezing the life out of you because they want to hold you so close and they don't realize their own strenght. . .

. . .how do i get him to stop doing this? it really creates a problem for me since i have asthma and it constricts my lungs.

 

[mbrooke5]

ladies. . .

at night when you are sleeping next to your men (mostly bodybuilders and powerlifters) when they like to cuddle. . .

. . .have you ever felt like they were squeezing the life out of you because they want to hold you so close and they don't realize their own strenght. . .

. . .how do i get him to stop doing this? it really creates a problem for me since i have asthma and it constricts my lungs.

Oh Girl...I have this problem frequently...He'll thrown his arm over me on my neck and then I feel like I am going to die. I nicely KICK his leg til he wakes up or moves his hand. ANd when he puts his leg on my stomach I feel like I am about to give birth and I just frog him in his leg. And if that all doesn't work...find a not so nice way to wake him up or tell him he's suffocating you.

 

[annabelletx]

i have tried waking him, but he is so out of it when i do that he is just kinda like "huh, what, okay" and goes right back to sleep. and when i try to nudge him i usually wind up hurting myself.

men can't live with them, can't live without them


what is a girl to do?

 

[jenscats5]

Yeah, my hubby isn't very muscular but he is STRONG!! He'll sometimes squeeze me too hard. I try to get him to roll over so I can spoon him & put my arm around him....

 

[nvrbuffenuff_girl]

I steal his covers or pillow. That wakes him up so I can tell him to stop crushing me. Sometimes that doesn't work so I kick him or I get up and sleep on the other side of the bed since he's always on my side squishing me.

 

[annabelletx]

I steal his covers or pillow. That wakes him up so I can tell him to stop crushing me. Sometimes that doesn't work so I kick him or I get up and sleep on the other side of the bed since he's always on my side squishing me.

can't steal the sheet from him since he hardly ever uses one and he takes up most of the bed. but maybe stealing his pillow would work.

 

[Werd]

Ummmmmm just go down on him till he stops.

Always worked for me!



(Actually - My ex was only 5'9" but a nat bber - got up to 200# at one point. Two bf's after him were 6'3" and 6'4" about 240-260# range. I am really small, even when I was my most muscular I was still small in comparison - 5'4" maxed out at 140#. I honestly never had this problem...)

 

[dirty~d~]

Just reach back and give the package a little tickle... they'll move.

 

[annabelletx]

good idea

 

[velvett]

I bought him a body pillow.

 

[Raina]

On a side note, I hate it when he hugs me too hard when it's a time of the month when my chest is huge and sore. That is just the worst feeling ever. And he doesn't know so he feels bad.

 

[Dakotah]

my honey likes to hold me all thru the night and i have to say that there are nights where he tends to hold a lil tight but i just tug his fingers and he loosens his grip

he just has problems with stealing the covers or else hogging the whole bed- im working getting a queen sized bed so we have a lil more room at night i have my nights where i just like space not a whole lot but a lil.

 

[nvrbuffenuff_girl]

he just has problems with stealing the covers or else hogging the whole bed- im working getting a queen sized bed so we have a lil more room at night i have my nights where i just like space not a whole lot but a lil.

Ha ha, I steal the covers from my boyfriend every night. I don't do it conciously but it always happens. I wrap myself in them completely, sort of like a cocoon. My boyfriend got tired of taking the covers back so now he brings an extra blanket to bed to be ready for when I steal them.

 

[Dakotah]

Ha ha, I steal the covers from my boyfriend every night. I don't do it conciously but it always happens. I wrap myself in them completely, sort of like a cocoon. My boyfriend got tired of taking the covers back so now he brings an extra blanket to bed to be ready for when I steal them.

Thats funny my honey does the same and i have an extra blanket on the bed that we did use at first for winter time and now its an anytime blanket for if either of us steals the blankets thru the night; i admit i get my restless nights where i do steal them too, and he has to tug and pull for some coverage.
i just laugh i think it is very cute how we play tug o war on different nights

 

[Dakotah]

i think his cuddling me helps the most when i dont feel the best- only time i love to be cuddled to death

 

[brunette]

need a real man first


wah wah wah! ;D

 

[Puddles]

They won't know it's bothering you if you don't tell them. Men are not the mindreaders us women are. LOL

Just explain it to him, let him know you're more delicate than he realizes.

If that doesn't work, start cuddling his balls to death and maybe he'll get the idea.

 

[wend]

If that doesn't work, start cuddling his balls to death and maybe he'll get the idea.

 

[lil'tangerine]

Ha ha! I steal the covers from my man too...Had to ask him one morning why we went to sleep on our "own" sides of the bed, but would wake up on the opposite! He said I hog the bed so bad, he just jumps over me instead of waking me up!

 

[PowerPrincess]

forget cuddling...how about when you're having sex doggie style with your bodybuilding boyfriend/hubby and for 3-4 days after your lower back is killing from the intense pounding!!

 

[starfish]

Biteme is an expert at cuddling. We can cuddle all day like cats. I highly recommend it