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Creepy or Normal?

musclemom

musclemom

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This is more my curiosity than an "issue."

My stepdaughter (22) goes for an overnight visit with her mom and brother (20). Currently there are only two places for guests to sleep, the living room sofa or the top bunk of her brother's bed. She has normally crashed in the top bunk of his bed, mostly because the two of them sit up half the night playing video games.

Mother's boyfriend is freaked out about her staying in her brother's room, he thinks they'll get up to (or are engaging in) pervy stuff. Her mother even thinks the BF is over reacting, but she completely defers to him about everything.

Now up until the kids said ENOUGH we went on camping vacations. Sleeping in the same room with your siblings (heck, even in the same bed, two kids fit with plenty of room to spare on a king sized bed) isn't something that seems odd to us. The kids "pajamas" are basically comfy street clothes and any clothes changing takes place in the bathroom.

So, adult brother and sister sleeping in the same room, NOT in the same bed, creepy or normal?

For the record, my stepdaughter, her father and I think the fact the BF's mind even went there is friggin' creepy.
 
It's perfectly acceptable for adult siblings to sleep in the same room. I think the BF is creepy for thinking like that
 
musclemom said:
This is more my curiosity than an "issue."

My stepdaughter (22) goes for an overnight visit with her mom and brother (20). Currently there are only two places for guests to sleep, the living room sofa or the top bunk of her brother's bed. She has normally crashed in the top bunk of his bed, mostly because the two of them sit up half the night playing video games.

Mother's boyfriend is freaked out about her staying in her brother's room, he thinks they'll get up to (or are engaging in) pervy stuff. Her mother even thinks the BF is over reacting, but she completely defers to him about everything.

Now up until the kids said ENOUGH we went on camping vacations. Sleeping in the same room with your siblings (heck, even in the same bed, two kids fit with plenty of room to spare on a king sized bed) isn't something that seems odd to us. The kids "pajamas" are basically comfy street clothes and any clothes changing takes place in the bathroom.

So, adult brother and sister sleeping in the same room, NOT in the same bed, creepy or normal?

For the record, my stepdaughter, her father and I think the fact the BF's mind even went there is friggin' creepy.
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This
 
they are involved in incest :( gross...



JK...however I would want my privacy just saying. It is a little odd at the least.
 
Not a big deal. 22 year old girl staying up all night playing video games is cool!
 
I think he boyfriend is a pervert IMO and is secretly wanting to be with the step daughter ! I say creepy, MM
 
how is it not weird that a 22 year old adult female is sharing a bedroom with her 20 year old brother? Not saying there is anything going on sexually but I am shocked at the number of responses condoning this as normal behavior. I think it's normal and perfectly acceptable when you are younger but come on when you are an adult? Maybe I just like my privacy more than most people.
 
musclemom said:
This is more my curiosity than an "issue."

My stepdaughter (22) goes for an overnight visit with her mom and brother (20). Currently there are only two places for guests to sleep, the living room sofa or the top bunk of her brother's bed. She has normally crashed in the top bunk of his bed, mostly because the two of them sit up half the night playing video games.

Mother's boyfriend is freaked out about her staying in her brother's room, he thinks they'll get up to (or are engaging in) pervy stuff. Her mother even thinks the BF is over reacting, but she completely defers to him about everything.

Now up until the kids said ENOUGH we went on camping vacations. Sleeping in the same room with your siblings (heck, even in the same bed, two kids fit with plenty of room to spare on a king sized bed) isn't something that seems odd to us. The kids "pajamas" are basically comfy street clothes and any clothes changing takes place in the bathroom.

So, adult brother and sister sleeping in the same room, NOT in the same bed, creepy or normal?

For the record, my stepdaughter, her father and I think the fact the BF's mind even went there is friggin' creepy.
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I wonder what would bring her to that conclusion? Seems strange. I mean, would she feel the same if they both slept on separate couches in the same living room? Would that be ok?
 
cuthroat said:
how is it not weird that a 22 year old adult female is sharing a bedroom with her 20 year old brother? Not saying there is anything going on sexually but I am shocked at the number of responses condoning this as normal behavior. I think it's normal and perfectly acceptable when you are younger but come on when you are an adult? Maybe I just like my privacy more than most people.
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sounds like its only on rare occasions when she visits. its not like its the normal and everyday sleeping situation.
 
although, when I was 22, I had no desire to hang out with my 20 yr old brother. i certainly wasn't playing video games. I was out drinking and being a whorey whore whore.
 
cuthroat said:
how is it not weird that a 22 year old adult female is sharing a bedroom with her 20 year old brother? Not saying there is anything going on sexually but I am shocked at the number of responses condoning this as normal behavior. I think it's normal and perfectly acceptable when you are younger but come on when you are an adult? Maybe I just like my privacy more than most people.
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it was my understanding that this was a temporary thing, like if they come home for thanksgiving.

i like sharing a room with my bro, hes a good big spoon
 
Smurfy said:
although, when I was 22, I had no desire to hang out with my 20 yr old brother. i certainly wasn't playing video games. I was out drinking and being a whorey whore whore.
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i bet u sucked ur brother off in the top bunk when u couldnt get laid after a night of drinking and sleazy dance moves
 
Smurfy said:
sounds like its only on rare occasions when she visits. its not like its the normal and everyday sleeping situation.
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Correct, once or twice a month visits.

When they lived in the same house they had separate bedrooms; her former bedroom has been cleared out since she moved in with us.

Side bar, her brother can no longer come and hang over a weekend because his sister's room only has one bed.

And anyone whose asking for pics ... GTFO, you freaking pervs! This is my daughter you're talking about!
 
PICK3 said:
are they from the Ozarks?

*key banjo music
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musclemom said:
Correct, once or twice a month visits.

When they lived in the same house they had separate bedrooms; her former bedroom has been cleared out since she moved in with us.

Side bar, her brother can no longer come and hang over a weekend because his sister's room only has one bed.

And anyone whose asking for pics ... GTFO, you freaking pervs! This is my daughter you're talking about!
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other than the stepdads imagination is there any reason to believe bro and sis may be sexualizing?
 
cuthroat said:
*Stepdaughter. And she is 22. Pics.
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She has no interest in her appearance, or in intimate contact with either gender on other than a friend level. She's the closest thing to a mentally "neuter" person I've ever met (which is what makes the BF's ideas just even more ridiculous).

My stepdaughter has Asperger's syndrome (it's a disorder on the autism spectrum). I don't know if that has anything to do with it but she just doesn't relate to or is interested in sex or sexuality on any level. It's like she's permanently 11 :whatever:
 
musclemom said:
She has no interest in her appearance, or in intimate contact with either gender on other than a friend level. She's the closest thing to a mentally "neuter" person I've ever met (which is what makes the BF's ideas just even more ridiculous).

My stepdaughter has Asperger's syndrome (it's a disorder on the autism spectrum). I don't know if that has anything to do with it but she just doesn't relate to or is interested in sex or sexuality on any level. It's like she's permanently 11 :whatever:
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God...way to make me feel fucking bad. You suck. :(

My youngest brother as well as one of my cousins have Asperger's so I know a lot about it.
 
musclemom said:
My stepdaughter has Asperger's syndrome (it's a disorder on the autism spectrum). I don't know if that has anything to do with it but she just doesn't relate to or is interested in sex or sexuality on any level. It's like she's permanently 11 :whatever:
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That probably has a lot to do with it. I know several adults with aspergers and I never see them sustaining relationships with the opposite sex. One (a guy) has a hard time even making eye contact with women. If he were not retardedly wealthy with lots of hors throwing themselves at him he would probably never even have casual relationships, let alone sustained.
 
nefertiti said:
That probably has a lot to do with it. I know several adults with aspergers and I never see them sustaining relationships with the opposite sex. One (a guy) has a hard time even making eye contact with women. If he were not retardedly wealthy with lots of hors throwing themselves at him he would probably never even have casual relationships, let alone sustained.
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not to self. money will solve problems
 
Sub-Zero said:
not to self. money will solve problems
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A LOT of money.

This guy has a net worth in the low billions. The sad thing is most of the people who mooch off of him think he's weird, even creepy, and not a damn one of those worthless cvnts and assholes understands that his social awkwardness is due to aspergers. I picked up on it within 20 minutes of meeting him, but I've got two nephews with autism spectrum disorders so I'm hypersensitive to certain red flags. He's a nice guy, reasonably attractive, but really really really awkward to talk to. He makes social connections by throwing money around and having extremely elaborate parties or paying for people to take vacations with him on his (larger) yacht. He's more comfortable around 400 people than 4. Kinda sad.
 
nefertiti said:
A LOT of money.

This guy has a net worth in the low billions. The sad thing is most of the people who mooch off of him think he's weird, even creepy, and not a damn one of those worthless cvnts and assholes understands that his social awkwardness is due to aspergers. I picked up on it within 20 minutes of meeting him, but I've got two nephews with autism spectrum disorders so I'm hypersensitive to certain red flags. He's a nice guy, reasonably attractive, but really really really awkward to talk to. He makes social connections by throwing money around and having extremely elaborate parties or paying for people to take vacations with him on his (larger) yacht. He's more comfortable around 400 people than 4. Kinda sad.
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how did he get so much fucking money?

what if i have this disease how do i get tested
 
nefertiti said:
A LOT of money.

This guy has a net worth in the low billions. The sad thing is most of the people who mooch off of him think he's weird, even creepy, and not a damn one of those worthless cvnts and assholes understands that his social awkwardness is due to aspergers. I picked up on it within 20 minutes of meeting him, but I've got two nephews with autism spectrum disorders so I'm hypersensitive to certain red flags. He's a nice guy, reasonably attractive, but really really really awkward to talk to. He makes social connections by throwing money around and having extremely elaborate parties or paying for people to take vacations with him on his (larger) yacht. He's more comfortable around 400 people than 4. Kinda sad.
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does he need another friend? introduce me! :)

lol!
 
nefertiti said:
A LOT of money.

This guy has a net worth in the low billions. The sad thing is most of the people who mooch off of him think he's weird, even creepy, and not a damn one of those worthless cvnts and assholes understands that his social awkwardness is due to aspergers. I picked up on it within 20 minutes of meeting him, but I've got two nephews with autism spectrum disorders so I'm hypersensitive to certain red flags. He's a nice guy, reasonably attractive, but really really really awkward to talk to. He makes social connections by throwing money around and having extremely elaborate parties or paying for people to take vacations with him on his (larger) yacht. He's more comfortable around 400 people than 4. Kinda sad.
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My stepdaughter is on the more mild end of the spectrum, so she has major problems with initial contact, but once she warms up to you she can be very social. In fact, she craves social contact more than I do, which makes her situation all the more sad. It's extremely difficult for her to make friends, and yet she wants friends.

Now me, I'm no help, I'm naturally a recluse, I don't care whether I have any social contact as long as I have my husband.
 
It's not creepy at all, it's not like they're doing anything wrong.
 
musclemom said:
My stepdaughter is on the more mild end of the spectrum, so she has major problems with initial contact, but once she warms up to you she can be very social. In fact, she craves social contact more than I do, which makes her situation all the more sad. It's extremely difficult for her to make friends, and yet she wants friends.

Now me, I'm no help, I'm naturally a recluse, I don't care whether I have any social contact as long as I have my husband.
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Awwww!! I knew you were just a big sweetheart!
 
Yeah I wouldn't trust bf with step daughter, he sounds creepy. It's not like they are living together, in the same bedroom, in the same bed. Now that would be creepy.
 
Sub-Zero said:
how did he get so much fucking money?

what if i have this disease how do i get tested
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It's not a disease. I like the term people who have autism spectrum disorders call people who AREN'T on the spectrum: NT or "Neuro Typical."

It's about brain function, how information is processed. It's suspected that some of the greatest creative minds throughout history have been on the autism spectrum, because these people have near laser-like focus, their mind process information about the subject that consumes their interest faster and more efficiently than any computer. The list of people who are suspected to be on the spectrum is a Who's Who of Human History: Beethoven, Mozart, Einstein, Warhol, Asimov, Franklin, Jefferson, Jung ...

In the most loose of terms, Asperger's primarily has to do with socialization and focus of interest.

For example, when my stepdaughter was very young (kindergarten/first grade) her sole interest was dinosaurs. She could recite facts about dinosaurs almost verbatim from the books that left adults with their mouths hanging open. It was like the kid swallowed the dinosaur encyclopedia.

And in school and she couldn't get along with the other children, she exploded completely inappropriately, growling, biting and finally hiding under a desk, curled in a fetal position, sucking her thumb.

Unfortunately, she was born about five years too early, her condition went under the radar and she slipped through the cracks. She was diagnosed as having ADD and being depressed. The papers describing Asperger's didn't hit N. America until the early 90s. If she had been born a little later things would have been different for her. As it was, she wasn't diagnosed until 2 years ago.
 
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