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Coping With Death

im sorry to hear that as well

the sudden deaths are the worst to cope with, takes a while to get over the shock over the incident
 
Death is an inevitable part of life that we all must face...

Whether it is an end or another beginning depends on your personal beliefs...



:cow:
 
ortiz34 said:
sorry to hear that, how are you doing?
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Honestly. I'm fine.. but it just very hard to cope just the fact he is gone like in any other cases. I never have anyone close to me past away... my great grandparents are still here.

Thanks.
 
NickyE3 said:
im sorry to hear that as well

the sudden deaths are the worst to cope with, takes a while to get over the shock over the incident
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It wasn't a sudden death.
He was in coma for 2 weeks and the day that I went with his family to go visit him.. he died after 4hrs our departure..
 
mightymouse69 said:
both Caligirl and myself lost close friends in the past month (my friend was in a vehicle accident)...just try to keep yourself moving forward, but I must say it has been very difficult and numbing.
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I'm sorry.
how are you guys doing?
 
The real tragedy of death is people don't learn from it. Don't let his death be a vain one. Analyze and appreciate his life, grow wiser from it. Easier said than done, this I know. There's a reason you two crossed paths.

There's not a day in my life I don't think about my late grandfather. I smile ear to ear when I think about him...because I know he's with me...and I make him proud.



Sorry to hear about your loss. My mailbox is always open for you.
 
swole said:
The real tragedy of death is people don't learn from it. Don't let his death be a vain one. Analyze and appreciate his life, grow wiser from it. Easier said than done, this I know. There's a reason you two crossed paths.

There's not a day in my life I don't think about my late grandfather. I smile ear to ear when I think about him...because I know he's with me...and I make him proud.
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the mortuary business has taught me more about life and living
than death and dying
 
swole said:
The real tragedy of death is people don't learn from it. Don't let his death be a vain one. Analyze and appreciate his life, grow wiser from it. Easier said than done, this I know. There's a reason you two crossed paths.

There's not a day in my life I don't think about my late grandfather. I smile ear to ear when I think about him...because I know he's with me...and I make him proud.



Sorry to hear about your loss. My mailbox is always open for you.
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how did you get so smart? who taught you?
 
exbf like the death made him the ex, or you were long broken up and just want sympathy/credit for knowing him in the past?
 
jon79 said:
Quit being a fucking dick
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im just curious.


either way im very sorry for your loss HB, i hope that reguardless of how close you two were, if your in pain or its hard for you, that it becomes easier.

my sympathies.
 
SublimeZM said:
im just curious.


either way im very sorry for your loss HB, i hope that reguardless of how close you two were, if your in pain or its hard for you, that it becomes easier.

my sympathies.
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thanks!

it was a past x and they still kept in touch
 
jon79 said:
thanks!

it was a past x and they still kept in touch
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are u her boyfriend now? how does it make you feel to see her upset about an ex? id personally be jealous, your a good guy if your handling it like a better man than i would have
 
SublimeZM said:
are u her boyfriend now? how does it make you feel to see her upset about an ex? id personally be jealous, your a good guy if your handling it like a better man than i would have
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no im not her bf
 
Spartacus said:
the mortuary business has taught me more about life and living
than death and dying
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i can see how that would happen

i was close to signing up as a volunteer at a local hospice because of that very same reason

i almost feel guilty saying it, but losing a loved one brings a sense of clarity...to those who are aware and open to it

3 times within 2 months i was at the same funeral home, and just watching the routine and normalness of the business made me realize it's not the death that is sad, because exposure to something so many times will make it mundane

but rather forgetting how and why the person lived

never before have i been more driven in every aspect of my life
 
I'm sorry for your loss.

Death is a natural part of life and we all come to terms with it in different ways. None of us are getting out of life alive.
 
samoth said:
Dude, you're taking this more personal than her, lol.



:cow:
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ok bro.....zm was asking so i told him

just keep giving me a hard time tonight bro i don't know what i did to you
 
I am so sorry to hear that.

When I was 17 I lost my step dad to a car accident and then my Mom 4 years later, so I know how you feel. Just remember those we love remain with us, for love itself lives on. Cherished memories never fade, because one loved is gone. Those we love can never be more then a thought apart. For as long as there is memory, they live on in our hearts.

Keep your head up sweets!
 
samoth said:
Wait, what? I think one of us is confused again...



:cow:
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nevermind sorry .....thought you were giving me a hard time in another thread too.....just misread....sorry

i :heart: u.........like a brother not :rainbow:
 
jon79 said:
nevermind sorry .....thought you were giving me a hard time in another thread too.....just misread....sorry

i :heart: u.........like a brother not :rainbow:
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I want to have your children!!

(Sorry Woots, nothing personal.)



:cow:
 
swole said:
i can see how that would happen

i was close to signing up as a volunteer at a local hospice because of that very same reason

i almost feel guilty saying it, but losing a loved one brings a sense of clarity...to those who are aware and open to it

3 times within 2 months i was at the same funeral home, and just watching the routine and normalness of the business made me realize it's not the death that is sad, because exposure to something so many times will make it mundane

but rather forgetting how and why the person lived

never before have i been more driven in every aspect of my life
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I have been struggling over the last two weeks... actually tomorrow marks two weeks he died and monday will be two weeks for my grandpa.

I have been so sad at the loss of his life and how he lived. the world was truely a better place because of him, kind caring, giving. I saw him just about everday, and always looked forward to it.

He would have wanted everyone in his life to go on being happy and healthy... it's just a fucking shame, in a selfish way I'll say I feel fucking cheated and sometimes even pissed off at myself because there were things I wish I had shared with him before he died. I'm on an emotional rollercoaster, I hate it... I'll find what I need to get thru it, but now I'm still so sad... not a day goes by my heart doesnt ache and I don't cry. this sucks and NOTHING will take it away except time OR if he should knock on my door... lol... yeah, don't you wish you could turn back time. I can see his face so clearly, his warm smile. I talk to him everyday, I don't know what else to do.


I cant wait until I realize the "reason" for all this in my life... I want to so this pain will go away..... I have been at the intersection of 4 deaths in the past two months. I don't know the reason, I don't see it yet. Besides the obvious... my kids, my health... there IS something more, but for now and for awhile I think I will be in mourning.
 
caligirl said:
I have been struggling over the last two weeks... actually tomorrow marks two weeks he died and monday will be two weeks for my grandpa.

I have been so sad at the loss of his life and how he lived. the world was truely a better place because of him, kind caring, giving. I saw him just about everday, and always looked forward to it.

He would have wanted everyone in his life to go on being happy and healthy... it's just a fucking shame, in a selfish way I'll say I feel fucking cheated and sometimes even pissed off at myself because there were things I wish I had shared with him before he died. I'm on an emotional rollercoaster, I hate it... I'll find what I need to get thru it, but now I'm still so sad... not a day goes by my heart doesnt ache and I don't cry. this sucks and NOTHING will take it away except time OR if he should knock on my door... lol... yeah, don't you wish you could turn back time. I can see his face so clearly, his warm smile. I talk to him everyday, I don't know what else to do.


I cant wait until I realize the "reason" for all this in my life... I want to so this pain will go away..... I have been at the intersection of 4 deaths in the past two months. I don't know the reason, I don't see it yet. Besides the obvious... my kids, my health... there IS something more, but for now and for awhile I think I will be in mourning.
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:heart: :qt:
 
My deepest sympathies.
 
swole said:
i almost feel guilty saying it, but losing a loved one brings a sense of clarity...to those who are aware and open to it

3 times within 2 months i was at the same funeral home, and just watching the routine and normalness of the business made me realize it's not the death that is sad, because exposure to something so many times will make it mundane

but rather forgetting how and why the person lived

never before have i been more driven in every aspect of my life
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Death defying, mutilated armies scatter the earth,
Crawling out of dirty holes, their morals, their morals disappear.

Yesterday a morning came, a smile upon your face.
Caesar's palace, morning glory, silly human, silly human race,
 
swole said:
The real tragedy of death is people don't learn from it. Don't let his death be a vain one. Analyze and appreciate his life, grow wiser from it. Easier said than done, this I know. There's a reason you two crossed paths.

There's not a day in my life I don't think about my late grandfather. I smile ear to ear when I think about him...because I know he's with me...and I make him proud.



Sorry to hear about your loss. My mailbox is always open for you.
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I almost cried, when I notice the similarities of why you smile when you think about grandfather. I do miss that part about him -- he was always proud of me...
 
SublimeZM said:
im just curious.


either way im very sorry for your loss HB, i hope that reguardless of how close you two were, if your in pain or its hard for you, that it becomes easier.

my sympathies.
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I didn't ask for your sympathy, though thanks. (?)
I asked how do you cope with a loss.
 
SublimeZM said:
are u her boyfriend now? how does it make you feel to see her upset about an ex? id personally be jealous, your a good guy if your handling it like a better man than i would have
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jealousy is sucha juvenile trait to have in a person.
You're right one point though, he is great guy.
 
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