Consequences of reading your partner's emails?? do you?

[chefbone]

HIV test NOW

 

[AAP]

HIV test NOW

Dude, that is what I told him. Ok, get this. All these fucking gay magazines down here and none of them have a clinic listed to go to. WTF? Aint' that some shit. I looked online for Ft Lauderdale, Miami, Miramar, Hollywood, and found nothing.

 

[chefbone]

The clinic, and hey what happened to my 10k for finding those reservations. Were they no good?

 

[Raina]

That's really screwed up AAP. But he knew something was wrong on some level and at least now he knows the truth, even if it's a sucky truth.

 

[AAP]

The clinic, and hey what happened to my 10k for finding those reservations. Were they no good?

WHAT CLINIC?? I have looked everywhere under HIV clinic, public health clinic, AIDS testing, etc.. all combination of words. haven't found shit.

You can go and get it free somewhere, but I don't know where. Why pay $100 and have to make an appointment with your doctor and wait a week?

 

[slat1]

He should be happy he found it. He can move on! He shouldn't spend another moment with that guy.
My feeling has always been that if I think I should look... something is wrong with the relationship!

 

[Steve The Bluesman]

ok, everyone says you shouldn't. some people say that if you do, then you deserve whatever it is that you discover. you know... the "serves you right" mentality.

Ok, but in a perfect world there would not really be anything there to discover would there? Also, if there was something to discover that they were doing and shouldn't be, wouldn't you at least want to know it? Or would you rather by another statistic of the old saying "the spouse is always the last to know..."?

Have you ever read their email? Did you regret it? Or did it end up being a big favor you did to yourself and opened your eyes about things?

You shouldn't. What are you going to see? It will be all boring shit back and forth from her friends and family, and you will feel like a giant ass for looking at it.

You would know if your SO was doing something wrong - signs are so obvious it is like they are in bright red ink - it is those that choose to bury their head's in the sand that refuse to see them.

The only time I would do it would be if I was sure she was fucking around and wanted to gather evidence for the split.


Bluesman

 

[chefbone]

WHAT CLINIC?? I have looked everywhere under HIV clinic, public health clinic, AIDS testing, etc.. all combination of words. haven't found shit.

You can go and get it free somewhere, but I don't know where. Why pay $100 and have to make an appointment with your doctor and wait a week?

Two weeks ago the Red Cross(look them up) did free testing nationwide.
Def. look up the Red Cross.

 

[Raina]

AAP- I would think that a planned parenthood could do a test. They test guys and if he didn't want to go there I'm sure they'd be able to give you a referral.

 

[CENTURION44]

ok, everyone says you shouldn't. some people say that if you do, then you deserve whatever it is that you discover. you know... the "serves you right" mentality.

Ok, but in a perfect world there would not really be anything there to discover would there? Also, if there was something to discover that they were doing and shouldn't be, wouldn't you at least want to know it? Or would you rather by another statistic of the old saying "the spouse is always the last to know..."?

Have you ever read their email? Did you regret it? Or did it end up being a big favor you did to yourself and opened your eyes about things?

What if you share an email account...does that count as snooping???