when i first started using at the age of 25, my parents were helping me move into an apt. and they found some pins. they thought i was shooting heroin and i explained that it was gear which wasnt even a felony back then. they told me that they didnt want me around if i was going to be using drugs and i said ok, i chose the drugs so see ya. well they decided they would rather have a relationship with a son who does steroids than not at all. not sure if this is for you but maybe if you draw a line in the sand and give em an ultimatum you might get your money back like you should.