Chick advice (SWV potential, Female advice appreciated, haters need not click here)

[Lestat]

i just got a voicemail from her:

"How are you? Hope you are having a wonderful day. I had so much fun last night, I hope that you had fun too, I really enjoyed spending time with you and hope that we can continue to spend time together."

 

[jnevin]

Why did your other thread get locked?

 

[Smurfy]

So that is now how I am thinking she is viewing me, which is fine

admit that it's not fine with you which is why....

Now I feel a little rejected by the whole thing too which is fucking with my head a bit.

 

[Smurfy]

The thing is, I wasn't really pushing for the boyfriend/girlfriend label, at least that was not the intention.

then why did you ASK?

 

[Lestat]

then why did you ASK?

because I get asked all the time, and I wanted to know if this is something she sees as serious, in that case I'd stop banging anyone else.

 

[Lestat]

admit that it's not fine with you which is why....

I can admit I have feelings for her. You wouldn't see me talking about her if I didn't. I've run through plenty of straight hook ups since my breakup in february, most of those had little or no feelings involved.

 

[Lestat]

Why did your other thread get locked?

I am not sure. Maybe rec drug references? Phaded's thread didn't get closed though, so that makes me think that maybe samote is being too eager, but probably not, I gotta give him more credit than that. Its probably just that digger doesn't respect me, let alone like me.

 

[Smurfy]

because I get asked all the time, and I wanted to know if this is something she sees as serious, in that case I'd stop banging anyone else.

Well, it seems like you were possibly thinking/hoping she was going to be all over the idea of calling you her boyfriend, but when she wasn't, it threw you for a loop. Why not just tell her how you feel? Are you afraid of pushing or scaring her away by doing so?

I think that youre experiencing what women usually feel like in the beginning stages of a relationship.

 

[Lestat]

Well, it seems like you were possibly thinking/hoping she was going to be all over the idea of calling you her boyfriend, but when she wasn't, it threw you for a loop. Why not just tell her how you feel? Are you afraid of pushing or scaring her away by doing so?

I think that youre experiencing what women usually feel like in the beginning stages of a relationship.

i definitely felt a little gender role reversal to some degree. But I wasn't saying that hoping she'd be all over me, I think i'd probably be feeling strange had that happened too, like I was tied down, suffocated, too fast too soon.

There's just no winning, and I'm just sifting through and dealing with a variety of thoughts and emotions. Thanks for bearing with me.

 

[Raptorex]

I Like her