cant get my girls past out of my mind...

[Big Rick Rock]

i think the best thing to do here is to ask her detailed questions about what exactly she did sexually with the guy before you. ask her about what the first time they slept together was like followed by which sexual episode was the best and why. ask her for an honest comparison between you and that other guy. plan a dinner for the two of you and invite the other guy along as well so that you can get to know him and erase all of your insecurities.

Not a good thing... You will never get her to explain it the way YOU would like it to be explained... It will only arise more questions... And I don't think any woman is capable of discussing detailed sexual encouters without watering the shit down...

it is bad advice all aroud dude. Today she might say "Oh I was so shy I asked him to keep the lights off, and I never looked at his penis"
then a couple of years from now you might be at a sex shop and she'll say "Oh get these condoms with the studs on them, I have used them before... they are great"
You: "Not with me I have never bought those"
Her:"ummm...ahhh... Well you know about the other guy before"
you:"We'll you told me you never looked at his penis how do you know what kind of condoms he used"
Her:"Well one time I used my mouth to roll it down his cock just for fun"
You: " I thought you said you never had oral sex"
Her: "well it was just a few times and he always wore a condom when I performed on him"

>>> 6 Years later >>>

Her: "It's ok Baby I don't mind swallowing you cum... I have tasted worst"
You: "I though you said he always wore a condom when you sucked him off"

............

 

[The_Ghost]

alrite here is my scenario...ive been with my girl for 3 months now...i love her more than anything i ever have and this is the girl i will most likely marry... i have had a more permisquous (sp) past than she has by far and she told me that be4 she met me last semester ....and only slept with one dude..i had slept with 4...but the thoguht of another guy doin her or her kissing or holdin another dude makes me wanna cringe....even though this is all in the past be4 i met her...


she would never ever cheat or go out with another dude behind my back but im just soo protective and dont want other dudes steppin on my territory....what can i do to alleviate my anxiety and feelings of this


thanks for any input...


dubz.1.

Dude you gotta be kiddin, you are sweatin over her being with 1 guy before you? You gotta get over this as you are in for some real trouble times ahead of ya.

Everyone has a past and you can't change it. I never ask a woman how many men she has been with as it doesn't enter my mind.

 

[Becoming]

LOL - True dat- don't trust chicks

 

[Seashell]

BRR!

 

[Big Rick Rock]

BRR!

Bring back memories huh?

 

[jh1]

This thread is twisted...

get these bad images outta my head!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Big Rick Rock]

This thread is twisted...

get these bad images outta my head!!!!!!!!!!!

Got one with a history huh?

I guess it's gotta be painful.

 

[jh1]

Got one with a history huh?

I guess it's gotta be painful.

Well, BRR, it isn't so bad because I know you are there for me...

Seriously, they all have histories - as do I, the point is who the hell wants to think about those things when it involves someone they care about.

 

[ohashi]

Well, BRR, it isn't so bad because I know you are there for me...

Seriously, they all have histories - as do I, the point is who the hell wants to think about those things when it involves someone they care about.

Just wait until you visit another country with her and some guy winks at you. It'll matter to you then.

 

[eviction]

alrite here is my scenario...ive been with my girl for 3 months now...i love her more than anything i ever have and this is the girl i will most likely marry... i have had a more permisquous (sp) past than she has by far and she told me that be4 she met me last semester ....and only slept with one dude..i had slept with 4...but the thoguht of another guy doin her or her kissing or holdin another dude makes me wanna cringe....even though this is all in the past be4 i met her...


she would never ever cheat or go out with another dude behind my back but im just soo protective and dont want other dudes steppin on my territory....what can i do to alleviate my anxiety and feelings of this


thanks for any input...


dubz.1.

you have problems then, i date a girl that has 2 kids and whos slept with more people than me. It's not about their past, its about YOUR future with them. Get ya head right