Bro's , don't usually post shit like this...but need advice with this girl at work

[Pi Kapp729]

As far as what to do now, I would follow the previous post's advice. But in the future if this situation arises again don't show defeat. What I mean by defeat is that when you got "rejected" in asking her out that pissed you off and you let her know it, this is when she got the upper hand. Next time even if it does piss you off NEVER let her know it. Continue the flirting like nothing happened and at the Xmas office party, you'll be banging her in the coat room.

 

[pittbull2]

I would ask her if her boyfriend knows she is a easy slut, and if she says I'm not, I would tell her to quit flirting and acting like a slut and tell her she turns you off,that would mess with her mind.

 

[str8cubano]

As far as what to do now, I would follow the previous post's advice. But in the future if this situation arises again don't show defeat. What I mean by defeat is that when you got "rejected" in asking her out that pissed you off and you let her know it, this is when she got the upper hand. Next time even if it does piss you off NEVER let her know it. Continue the flirting like nothing happened and at the Xmas office party, you'll be banging her in the coat room.

i never let her know that i was pissed..the next day i was acting like nothing was wrong..i still fucked around with her, but slowly but surelly just stopped flirting with her like i used to. i never let her know that it botherd me.

 

[Ash]

Hey bro I know what your going through. I remember back in my Senoir year of High School at the place I worked at there was a chick just like this. She was always flirting with me and when I finally asked here out she pulled the same kind of shit! One day I was talking about it, I think at lunch with some of my female friends and one suggested making here jeloues. I said "shur what the hell" So my friend started coming to my work and bringing me lunch. We hugged and kissed and usual stuff like that. Well it drove that crazy bitch nuts. Within a week or so she was bagging me to take here out. You might want to try this, it worked for me.
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"Names Ash...Housewares"

 

[str8cubano]

Hey bro I know what your going through. I remember back in my Senoir year of High School at the place I worked at there was a chick just like this. She was always flirting with me and when I finally asked here out she pulled the same kind of shit! One day I was talking about it, I think at lunch with some of my female friends and one suggested making here jeloues. I said "shur what the hell" So my friend started coming to my work and bringing me lunch. We hugged and kissed and usual stuff like that. Well it drove that crazy bitch nuts. Within a week or so she was bagging me to take here out. You might want to try this, it worked for me.
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"Names Ash...Housewares"

yea..i kinda did something like that where my freind brought me lunch and i could see it in her eyes that she was furious, but i didnt do it on purpose, i was really starving and my freind just brought me lunch...but i see wher eyou going...same advice as manny...

 

[superchicken]

i had the exact same shiat happen to me at work too. me and this girl worked together for about a year before we started really flirting w/ each other. i would always catch her looking and she would smile & blush sometimes. she would always offer me a ride home since my dl got suspended, and all the usuall things a girl dopes when she likes you. i asked her out and she just made up some bs excuse why she couldnt. so i just left it there. after about a wk of her bugging me like she wanted me to ask again, i did. she did the same thing, said no. i just started ignoring her, and it made her so mad she would come and mess up my dept, so i had more to clean up. i straight up asked her why she doin this shiat, and she just replied "what are you talking about".

then one day she creeps up on me and whispers in my ear"you think i want you? you wishhhhhh!"

so now we hate each other. one night i noticed her drive down my street at 2am. then the next night, and the next. she would even borrow other peoples cars and drive down my street to see if she could see anything. she did this for about a month. she was basically spying and stalking. hell i dont know why, if she liked me she would have said yes.

when she saw me w/ other girls she looked like it hurt her badly, she couldnt look at me, like it was painfull.

one night my date dropped me off and we were out front making out, and guess who drove by? she slowed down to about 5mph, then left.

2 days later there was a brick through my window. and then i found out she had moved about 100miles away a wk later.

girls are wacko as fuk. i dont get them.

 

[JunkYardDogg24]

bro...this is the attitutde that usually influences women to take advantage of you...speak your mind...there's nothing wrong with that!this millenium ideology of men being "afraid" to say what they want to say is drving me nuts...

Your right as I AM LIKE THAT. But you have to do it a civilized. The more class you conduct yourself the more evident ur superiority is over the situation and everyone who knows you and that woman will know. I still tell woman to fuck off if they screw me over but I pull em aside and NEVER call em a cunt or bitch but use very strong statements to get my message across. In my situation I told the woman

"I will not waste my time on a woman who is manipulative. A woman who thinks a friendship is like some on/off switch. You cant be friend whenever you feel it is convenient for you. I dont need to be associated with people like that. For me to expend anymore energy on you would be an absolute waste as I also FIND YOU (as a human being) to be an absolute waste."

shit like that is mature and VERY HARD HITTING at the same time. I believe in giving them the message of "fuckin off" but do it with a blend of class and maturity.

 

[str8cubano]

i had the exact same shiat happen to me at work too. me and this girl worked together for about a year before we started really flirting w/ each other. i would always catch her looking and she would smile & blush sometimes. she would always offer me a ride home since my dl got suspended, and all the usuall things a girl dopes when she likes you. i asked her out and she just made up some bs excuse why she couldnt. so i just left it there. after about a wk of her bugging me like she wanted me to ask again, i did. she did the same thing, said no. i just started ignoring her, and it made her so mad she would come and mess up my dept, so i had more to clean up. i straight up asked her why she doin this shiat, and she just replied "what are you talking about".

then one day she creeps up on me and whispers in my ear"you think i want you? you wishhhhhh!"

so now we hate each other. one night i noticed her drive down my street at 2am. then the next night, and the next. she would even borrow other peoples cars and drive down my street to see if she could see anything. she did this for about a month. she was basically spying and stalking. hell i dont know why, if she liked me she would have said yes.

when she saw me w/ other girls she looked like it hurt her badly, she couldnt look at me, like it was painfull.

one night my date dropped me off and we were out front making out, and guess who drove by? she slowed down to about 5mph, then left.

2 days later there was a brick through my window. and then i found out she had moved about 100miles away a wk later.

girls are wacko as fuk. i dont get them.

yea well...crazy story, but i dont think the girl at work is a crazy bitch like that...if she wispered that in my ear, i have a load and endless amount of comments/insults/combacks i have for her...she wouldn't dare say that shit ...but thanks for sharing the expereicne..lol...brick through your window..thats when i kill her dumb az

 

[Lostdog]

Personally ,I'd wait for a day that she wears something light in color to work..when shes not looking squirt some visine into her drink...give it about 10 minutes have a friend hold up in the bathroom...watch her squirm as she tries not to shit on herself

 

[bigpimp]

Personally ,I'd wait for a day that she wears something light in color to work..when shes not looking squirt some visine into her drink...give it about 10 minutes have a friend hold up in the bathroom...watch her squirm as she tries not to shit on herself

didnt think that trick still worked...............i thought they changed the ingredients