Wella Perfect
I get it from my stylist, who gets it from Germany - extremely hard to find in the states, but it's superior to any hair product I've used
I really like American Crew too.. ANd I know everyone else disagrees but I like the scent of it.. Been using Got2B products lately.. Their pretty good. some are too strong though
i think you'd like "Amplify Gel-Wax" made by Matrix... its more on the gel side than the wax side so dont' worry about it being greasy but it's a cool product, one of my favs when shine is an issue.