thanks to everyone that replied.
today i did another ME Bench day. i decided to work with my bands (i have a set of the mini's, lights, and averages.) i maxed out on suspended bench (i have a post about it in the PL forum) because i struggle with my lock out. after i did the suspended bench, i worked up to a triple max on regular bench, with the mini's. my tri's were killin me after all this, then on to some chest supported rows, seated rows, lying db ext, and then some heavy flat flies.
ill keep you all updated on my quest for 4 plates...