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Being dumped

This is the time to get your friends to get you out partying as much as possible....idle time is time spent thinking about the break-up. Stay as busy as humanly possible, lean on your friends, and the painful phase will seem to pass much quicker.
 
I can't really party because my school load is really demanding. Plus, I think that would just make me feel worse, honestly. I am relying on friends though...I've got some good ones. I just wish I could convince him that he is doing the wrong thing.
 
lamamacita said:
officially sucks. I think this has been the longest/worst weekend of my life. :(
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Nows the time to go crazy, go out, party your ass off and throw the cat around till its ragged.
 
lamamacita, trying to talk him out of it is the WORST thing you could do. Bottom line, if he wants to break it off, nothing you can say will change that. If anything, disappear on him...be totally inaccessible...this will make him fully understand what life without you feels like. Then, maybe, he will want you back. Don't let him 'straddle the fence' by talking to him and spending time with him even though you are broken up...make him 'quit cold turkey'. Trust me on this.
 
anabolic: I don't have it in me to slut it up. He is actually the only person I've ever been with.

canadianhitman: I am trying to do that. It is hard as hell. I am the type that wants to work things out immediately. I'll PM you when I want to call him and you can fuss at me! :)
 
Deal; if you want to call him, there's a mandatory 24hr waiting period. During this time, you must PM me with the reason for your call, and I will review whether or not the call should be made. Only with my expressed written consent can you make said call. This is a legally binding contract.
 
lamamacita said:
anabolic: I don't have it in me to slut it up. He is actually the only person I've ever been with.
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Thats what Im trying to tell you, you have to slut it up to get it in you.
 
Good call...slutting it up won't make you feel better, it'll make you feel cheap. The only sex you should even consider right now, maybe, would be with a guy who's a very close friend. Sometimes, that's therapeutic in the aftermath of a break-up.
 
I think I will keep the sex thing under control myself if you get my drift. I don't know any male friends I would get with, esp. since most of my male friends are his friends, too.
 
Hi lam ,
Don't call him , at least for a little while , he'll realise his mistake soon enough - you are the woman , the woman is strong , the man is the weak one lol.
Dont fuck anyone - it'll just make u feel empty and make u miss him more - u'll compare him 2 the person u love and it'll hurt much more.
Take a drink if u cant sleep , just get thru the first two weeks and then it'll get a little better.
good luck.
 
Mandinka2 said:
you are the woman , the woman is strong , the man is the weak one lol.
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You are the only man I know that would admit this! hehehe! But yeah, I am not going to fuck anyone. Sex is my last worry. I am just going to miss him like crazy and that is going to make me crazy.
 
lamamacita said:


You are the only man I know that would admit this! hehehe! But yeah, I am not going to fuck anyone. Sex is my last worry. I am just going to miss him like crazy and that is going to make me crazy.
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Hey, if you think that a healthy sexual appetite equals SLUT...
 
lamamacita said:


You are the only man I know that would admit this! hehehe! But yeah, I am not going to fuck anyone. Sex is my last worry. I am just going to miss him like crazy and that is going to make me crazy.
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Wow!! A woman with a heart. A rarity indeed. Sorry about your loss. His loss.:)
 
lamamacita said:
biteme: you should clean out your PM box! Thanks for the compliment.

I am not neverbuff, sorry.
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Yes someday, I need to do that. There are over 200 messages on there, so it will take a while. Anytime, you can e-mail me at [email protected]. and your welcome.:)
 
Ending a relationship is hard. Having someone else end it first is worse - even if you want it to be over. Many of us know what its like to be in a relationship we don't like.....are just about to end it ourselves....when the other person ends it first - and all of a sudden we don't want it to end.

I was once engaged for 24 hours before getting married. Had been going out with the meanest girl I had ever dated. It was on again off again for months. We broke up around 8:00 PM. I was studying and crying, crying and studying in my apartment. Even though the relationship was not good, part of me thought I would never find someone as good again. Around 1 AM I said outloud, if she calls me in the net 5 minutes I would ask her to marry me. Weird coincidence - the phone rings...its her. Anyway, I wriggled out of the engagement 24 hours later. But was still sort of depressed for a day or two.

I am not sure if my stories make any sense or help at all, but I am sure almost everyone has been dumped. It always hurts, like I said, even if you were about to end it yourself. Feeling rejected or unwanted is bad.
 
Generic MALE said:
Ending a relationship is hard. Having someone else end it first is worse - even if you want it to be over. Many of us know what its like to be in a relationship we don't like.....are just about to end it ourselves....when the other person ends it first - and all of a sudden we don't want it to end.

I was once engaged for 24 hours before getting married. Had been going out with the meanest girl I had ever dated. It was on again off again for months. We broke up around 8:00 PM. I was studying and crying, crying and studying in my apartment. Even though the relationship was not good, part of me thought I would never find someone as good again. Around 1 AM I said outloud, if she calls me in the net 5 minutes I would ask her to marry me. Weird coincidence - the phone rings...its her. Anyway, I wriggled out of the engagement 24 hours later. But was still sort of depressed for a day or two.

I am not sure if my stories make any sense or help at all, but I am sure almost everyone has been dumped. It always hurts, like I said, even if you were about to end it yourself. Feeling rejected or unwanted is bad.
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I've been reading your posts and they are very good. But in my case, I have a heart of stone, that can't be broken. People keep telling me that I shouldn't be that way, but I think it's just from getting tough after having survived all the shit that life throws at you. I can love again, but I could get over it very quickly if I were dumped. I think that's the best way to be.
 
biteme said:


Prove it.
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You have displayed passionate responses to many many threads on this board on various topics and the only way one could not have their heart broken - ever - is not to feel or respond to anything or anyone.

If you have not hhad your heart broken to date - then you simply have yet to love.

;)
 
biteme said:


It's been broken alright. Many years ago by my first love. My ex-wife didn't break my heart, I was already 2 tough by then. I can be hurt, but I get over it quickly. As far as a broken heart, no way.
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I've saying that for some now and all it really does is build a thicker wall around you.

BUt you already know that.
 
velvett said:



You have displayed passionate responses to many many threads on this board on various topics and the only way one could not have their heart broken - ever - is not to feel or respond to anything or anyone.

If you have not hhad your heart broken to date - then you simply have yet to love.

;)
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It's been broken alright. Many years ago by my first love. My ex-wife didn't break my heart, I was already 2 tough by then. I can be hurt, but I get over it quickly. As far as a broken heart, no way.
 
Lamamcita

I have had my heart broken before and I fell into a bad rut. One time in my life I was completely fooled and blinded by the trust that had been a complete lie from the beginning (which i found out later). The girl who did this to me had been very skilled in this particular art of manipulation and only in the end did I truly learn the nature of her persona (sadly).

Time with friends and social activites will only mask the reality that you will eventually have to inevitably face. I suggest spending some time in solitude with a notebook and writing down your feelings. Write down everything. Visit the ocean if you can and allow the great expanse take control of your mnind and let it wander.

:)
 
PolishHammer1977 said:
Lamamcita

I have had my heart broken before and I fell into a bad rut. One time in my life I was completely fooled and blinded by the trust that had been a complete lie from the beginning (which i found out later). The girl who did this to me had been very skilled in this particular art of manipulation and only in the end did I truly learn the nature of her persona (sadly).

Time with friends and social activites will only mask the reality that you will eventually have to inevitably face. I suggest spending some time in solitude with a notebook and writing down your feelings. Write down everything. Visit the ocean if you can and allow the great expanse take control of your mnind and let it wander.

:)
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Very good advice.


Ceebs as well.
 
Polish: I did write stuff down yesterday and it did really help me.

Just as an update (for those who care) his sister called me yesterday and asked what was going on. I told her and she thinks that I hurt his pride and he just needs to get over it and things will be fine. I won't agree with that completely until I hear from him again, but just hearing from her takes a load off...
 
The peace must come within yourself first.
:)
I am thankful that you made an attempt and succeeded in taking the first step, which is the hardest. You will succeed.
 
I know exactly how to solve your broken heart.

But first you gotta post pics.
 
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