Been with an addict? Worst event.

[thelion2005]

Have you ever been in a romantic relationship with an addict? How about she/he being addicted to many substances at once.

I was with a beautiful, young woman 2009-2012 who used heroin, meth, crack, weed and alcohol. She would go into rehab, come out clean, and stay that way 30-120 days. Relapse and do it again.

Using Al-Anon and a lot of self discipline, I stopped enabling and detached from her. Been separated a year. She continued on and is now 90 days clean.

What was your worst event with your addict? I can sometimes laugth at some of the things mine did.

 

[thelion2005]

I'll start ......

My addict had to appear before her Judge for violating probation. I hired a lawyer, dressed her for court, and got her a job and enrolled in community college. All to look like a solid citizen.

She stood there with a big smile and was released from her probation as "a poster child for rehabilitation".

The court (and me and lawyer) did not know she had shot up and was high on H before the bench. Used the 35th District Court bathroom!!

Your turn.

 

[Headholio]

That's cool you dated Lindsay Lohan!

 

[Headholio]

My uncle dated this alchoholic chick who used to get physically violent with him when she got drunk. He would never hit back, but he got rid of her ass. Took him too long however.
One time she slammed the car door on her own foot, and bent out the bottom of the car door so you could see the road looking down from the passenger seat. That must have hurt.

 

[zwhit]

My wife is an addict.



She's addicted to my dick. It's becoming unhealthy, wanting it in public/family functions/when I'm sleeping. The other day she made me fuck her in her mom's kitchen while the mother in law tended to the baby in the living room.

 

[binö]

sup lion long time bro!

 

[nangiggles]

I have many many addict stories, none were my partners though, had a patient who did so much cocaine she perforated her septum and couldnt snort anymore.

 

[PICK3]

I had to sell my booty for crack

 

[WoodyO]

I drink a lot. If I masturbate too much does that count as being in a relationship with an addict?

 

[wootoom]

Sorry to hear Lion...how have you been otherwise...missed u man

 

[smurf2]

Yeah and then i left his ass. No need to put up with that bullshit. Leave and dont look back

 

[WoodyO]

Yeah and then i left his ass. No need to put up with that bullshit. Leave and dont look back

And marry a doctor.

 

[Headholio]

I had to sell my booty for crack

I went into a head shop in Houston one time with my girl friend and the chick working had a hand painted t shirt that said "pussy for crack". Like painted on with house paint.

It seemed like a pretty raunchy joke and I commented to that effect, and she replied with a straight face "its not a joke".

(Cool story I know.)

 

[goin on 4T]

My buddy was dating a girl who was an alcoholic. Didn't matter to him because he never drinks, but she had a lot of guilt issues and depression. She shot herself in the chest a few weeks ago - dead.
Really sad.

 

[wootoom]

Yeah and then i left his ass. No need to put up with that bullshit. Leave and dont look back

Ass to ass?

 

[EnderJE]

Hey Lion. Sorry to hear that it didn't work out. How's the daughter?

 

[blueta2]

Y'all knew I was coming in this thread....

Yes, my ex is an alcoholic and though he was not a fall down drunk, he was (is) a diabolical mess. A pathological liar, cheater and truly narcissistic.
Addiction was not something I came from or was familiar with so I was baffled by the personality disorder that came with the addiction. There was so many actions my ex did that floored me (won't go into them), but they were not normal by any standards.
The 3rd year in with him, I also found Al Anon....thank God because it saved my life and sanity. Being with an addict and their actions drives one to seriously question reality.
It took me 2 solid years once I left him to come out of the stress of it all.
The base of all addictions is emotional or personality issues. You can and never will make sense of it all, so you're doing the right thing and detaching and going to Al Anon.
I will never EVER be with another addict or recovering addict again. It kills the soul!

 

[bigbassturd]

Y'all knew I was coming in this thread....

Yes, my ex is an alcoholic and though he was not a fall down drunk, he was (is) a diabolical mess. A pathological liar, cheater and truly narcissistic.
Addiction was not something I came from or was familiar with so I was baffled by the personality disorder that came with the addiction. There was so many actions my ex did that floored me (won't go into them), but they were not normal by any standards.
The 3rd year in with him, I also found Al Anon....thank God because it saved my life and sanity. Being with an addict and there actions drives one to seriously question reality.
It took me 2 solid years once I left him to come out of the stress of it all.
The base of all addictions is emotional or personality issues. You can and never will make sense of it all, so you're doing the right thing and detaching and going to Al Anon.
I will never EVER be with another addict or recovering again. It kills the soul!

*Their

 

[blueta2]

Yes thank you ;-)

 

[bigbassturd]

Just looking out for you!

 

[smurf2]

And marry a doctor.

Exactly

 

[pdaddyII]

Exactly

If you're not married to a doctor then you really suck at life

 

[bigbassturd]

If you're not married to a doctor than you really suck at life

*Then

 

[pdaddyII]

*Then

Quote edit!

 

[bigbassturd]

Got in before the cover

 

[-SD-]

The sex must have been awesome. Thats the only way i would stick around with a junky addict bish

 

[zwhit]

i fuck for hydros

 

[digimon7068]

i fvck for vagina