HeatherRae said:
Now I'm feeling kind of sorry for random. Is there maybe a language barrier? Random, is English your first language? I'm not being a jerk. I have just noticed that he has said some things that may be the result of poor translation. I always stick up for underdogs...lol. Okay, I'll stay out of it. Just maybe give him a break. He may have just made a silly mistake making that post, and I'm sure he probably regrets it already.
I hate to stir into the mix...but i gotta agree with ya heath...i was thinking the same thing the whole time i was reading this long thread. I have a feeling english isnt his first language since he posted "kilos" somewhere, most guys born in the states dont use kilos (at least i dont think..im sure a few do, but not as many), so i think his translation was a little off, which was taken for stupidity, but really isnt. Ill stick up for him too, when there is someone who looks good...there's always some haters out there...it comes with the territory 'random', just dont waste ure time on it...you have better ways to spend it brotha. Im going for a national qualifyer in bodybuilding competition next year, and i guarentee you after i get it i will have some haters diss me for no reason whatsoever, just the fact that I look good. After I won my overall at my show 2 months ago, when i come back home and hit the gym...and was posing in the mirror at the gym since it was the day after the show...guess what? A couple people outright dissed me while i was working out, sayin stuff like "ure a fuckin loser dude! get a life!"...mature right? lol...it shows their jealousy, because i always see the same 2 folks staring at me when i workout, one was 6'3 200 at most, not even ripped... always coming near me and grunting...lmfao...the childish things some people do. Kamali said in his first bodybuilding video "i could never understand why people would always diss me..i wouldnt EVER understand that. Then one day my dad pulled me aside and said...'son...why do u get so worked up about these kids?' kamali>>'dad! theyre always making fun of me and dissing me!' >>kamali's dad "well thats a good thing!" kamali "why's it good? its negative though!" kamali's dad>>"well regardless, theyre still on your mind and something inherent about you annoys and upsets them, theyre always thinking about you...so at least son, you have their attention, you mean something to them-youre important to them" So random...the moral here is, yes do be confident, be happy, keep making progress as you most definately are, and dont waste ure time on people giving you shit...the fact is...the better you get..only about maybe 5 % of the people in this world actually give a shit about ure accomplishments and all, the rest (inherently) envy/hate you. So just take all negativity from others with a grain of salt, and since you DO KNOW you look good, no need to defend yourself, you do know that silence and ignoring pisses haters off more than anything right?

Also, to be a little constructive, never compare yourself to others, that shouldnt be a reason to post your pics here man, you should just do it to get feedback from others on your progresss...comparing yourself to others will only frustrate the heck outta ya. Trust me...i've been there. I only bodybuild for myself because I like the results I get, and I have fun doing it, and of course love the compliments. So just do it for feedback like you essentially were, and youll be cool. I think you compared yourself to others due to all the fighting on here, that's understandable. Although otherwise, I think you have good intentions..
..and do keep up the good work!
And for the other members who posted on this thread...im just talkin to random here, otherwise im not involved and im takin the same stand as heath! LOL
