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chris302001
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I'm gonna go ahead and throw small children into the list of people you scare.......
Scotsman
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Tatyana said:You don't scare me.
I really quite like men that are big and look like a bit o'ruff.
They are usually the biggest softies when you get to know them.
You haven't actually met me though.
Not only am I big and don't smile, I am usually very standoffish, and my loud voice carries really well so people think I am angry all the time.
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Scotsman
*ebony*
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Scotsman said:You haven't actually met me though.
Not only am I big and don't smile, I am usually very standoffish, and my loud voice carries really well so people think I am angry all the time.
Cheers,
Scotsman
LOL. you have just described someone one of my closest friends! he gets this stern expression on his face( thats his "natural face"). so people are always scurring out of the his way and....well i've noticed the people tend to aviod eye contact with him also. thats when he's just quiet. he has this deep, growly, rumbly voice that seems to come from his chest and its so funny to see how startled people are when he firsts speaks, they always jump!
anyways my big friend def. doesn't look very pleasant to be around but he's a sweetheart, a real softie
bw1
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ebonycurves said:LOL. you have just described someone one of my closest friends! he gets this stern expression on his face( thats his "natural face"). so people are always scurring out of the his way and....well i've noticed the people tend to aviod eye contact with him also. thats when he's just quiet. he has this deep, growly, rumbly voice that seems to come from his chest and its so funny to see how startled people are when he firsts speaks, they always jump!
anyways my big friend def. doesn't look very pleasant to be around but he's a sweetheart, a real softie
So is Scot's
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hog#head#cheese
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aren't you like 410?
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SaladFork
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hog#head#cheese said:
No that is just how much he can press lol...
Scots, you are a nice guy... Try smiling more and the girls here all love you, why wouldn't they in real life?
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Kano
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Scott is a good bro
inngas2008
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EnderJE said:
lol
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hog#head#cheese
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inngas2008 said:
Alter outed
inngas2008
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hog#head#cheese said:
WTF is an alter anyways??? i read about all the time here.
sardonicone
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Scotsman said:Or so I have been told.
I guess not smiling has a lot to do with it.LOL And probably being a big, tattooed, meathead.
Thanks for the heads up ladies.
Cheers,
Scotsman
You're huge and fucking scary!
But I'd still hit it.
2 x actually.
Wait...
Beachboy6294
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I have had some girls tell me that they were scared to talk to me or date me because I was to big and looked mean.
Scotsman
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SaladFork said:No that is just how much he can press lol...
Scots, you are a nice guy... Try smiling more and the girls here all love you, why wouldn't they in real life?
With the exception of QT none of the women here have ever actually met me. I'm actually quite a bit different in real life than I am on here so there probably wouldn't be much a a carryover.
Cheers,
Scotsman
Cardinal Slin
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Tatyana They are usually the biggest softies when you get to know them. :)[/QUOTE said:
GoldenDelicious
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are you happy with being perceived this way? like...REALLY happy?
if you had perfect control of the world, the people in it, yourself, and the way people perceived you, would you want to be perceived like this?
most human beings (read: you) want to be liked, and loved by a special few.
i would see it as being a very great shame if a truly worthwhile human being (also read: you) sequestered himself away from other people, and in doing so, denied himself a fundamental need, and perhaps happiness
just saying
if you had perfect control of the world, the people in it, yourself, and the way people perceived you, would you want to be perceived like this?
most human beings (read: you) want to be liked, and loved by a special few.
i would see it as being a very great shame if a truly worthwhile human being (also read: you) sequestered himself away from other people, and in doing so, denied himself a fundamental need, and perhaps happiness
just saying
Scotsman
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GoldenDelicious said:are you happy with being perceived this way? like...REALLY happy?
if you had perfect control of the world, the people in it, yourself, and the way people perceived you, would you want to be perceived like this?
most human beings (read: you) want to be liked, and loved by a special few.
i would see it as being a very great shame if a truly worthwhile human being (also read: you) sequestered himself away from other people, and in doing so, denied himself a fundamental need, and perhaps happiness
just saying
Actually I'm quite happy with this perception. The less people that like me the less people I have to deal with.
What fundamental need? I do just fine on my own.
Cheers,
Scotsman
AztecWarrior
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How about trying to change then. Smile more and say hi. Don't be afraid.
AztecWarrior
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Scotsman said:
You sound like a ton of fun.
seaking420
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who cares, as long as you're truly happy.........nothing else means shit
redsamurai
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jnevin said:
jesus christ nevin...........
Tatyana
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Scotsman said:You haven't actually met me though.
Not only am I big and don't smile, I am usually very standoffish, and my loud voice carries really well so people think I am angry all the time.
Cheers,
Scotsman
Meh, there are so many cultural groups in my neighbourhood that communicate by yelling (or it just seems like they are fighting), I am used to loud.
I think you are just looking for excuses why women don't like you.
I bet you are exagerating as well.
GoldenDelicious
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most human beings have a fundamental need to be around others. its why you go crazy if you get locked in solitary.Scotsman said:
i wasnt slagging your outlook on life - i just get the impression that you havnt tried it the other way yet
mustang_00
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i scare them too! but usually i'm rubbing my cawk through my pants, mouthing the words "you're dead" to them...
or i tell them my alias (richard rameriez) and show them the pentagram tat on my palm
or i tell them my alias (richard rameriez) and show them the pentagram tat on my palm
Scotsman
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mustang_00 said:i scare them too! but usually i'm rubbing my cawk through my pants, mouthing the words "you're dead" to them...
or i tell them my alias (richard rameriez) and show them the pentagram tat on my palm
Holy fuck that's funny. Wait a tick I have a huge pentagram tattooed on the inside of my right arm, maybe that's part of it.
Cheers,
Scotsman
Scotsman
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GoldenDelicious said:
I honestly spend at least 80% of the time alone. I don't really like to socialize very much and am extremely uncomfortable in most social situations. If I have to spend very much time around more than one or two people I need to get somewhere alone afterwards to recharge. I have always been a loner even as a child. I am seriously considering moving into a very rural area or somewhere in the wilderness where I'll pretty much never see another person.
Cheers,
Scotsman
AztecWarrior
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Scotsman said:
Do you think being like this is healthy? You don't have to be the center of attention just appear much more nicer. Go's along way with the ladies.
Scotsman
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AztecWarrior said:
It makes me happy and that's all I am concerned with. Just because it doesn't fit into the societal norm doesn't mean it's wrong, just different. I honestly don't care about meeting girls, I made the original post because I think it's funny as hell.
Cheers,
Scotsman
AztecWarrior
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Scotsman said:
Well, I guess you are intent with being this way. It's not normal but if you are okay with it then don't change.
stosstruppe
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Scotsman said:
Same orb, I never smile in public & I couldn't give a fuck what people think. I dunno why people walk around with a big shit eating grin on their mugs when they're clearly not happy.
Nothing a tire iron to the face can't remedy.
redsamurai
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scots, not sure if you're bald or not........but if you're not, try running a cute little blond streak down the middle and start wearing some mancake, I guess that's what get's women going these days. 
I don't get it either..........masculine is out though, that's for sure. I think women have this misconception that large men will tend to be more abusive.....when in fact it's quite the opposite. Don't change bor........people who walk around with smiles on their faces all the time make me want to slap it off of them.
And another thing, women who go for men like you will not be found in a bar/club setting. If you don't like or want "normal".....well that's all you're going to find in a typical bar/club.
I don't get it either..........masculine is out though, that's for sure. I think women have this misconception that large men will tend to be more abusive.....when in fact it's quite the opposite. Don't change bor........people who walk around with smiles on their faces all the time make me want to slap it off of them. And another thing, women who go for men like you will not be found in a bar/club setting. If you don't like or want "normal".....well that's all you're going to find in a typical bar/club.
sardonicone
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GoldenDelicious said:are you happy with being perceived this way? like...REALLY happy?
if you had perfect control of the world, the people in it, yourself, and the way people perceived you, would you want to be perceived like this?
most human beings (read: you) want to be liked, and loved by a special few.
i would see it as being a very great shame if a truly worthwhile human being (also read: you) sequestered himself away from other people, and in doing so, denied himself a fundamental need, and perhaps happiness
just saying
NIGGA U AINT SMART.
AztecWarrior
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Haha, you guys are looking way into this to much. I'm not saying to go around smiling like some goof for no reason. Just try to smile once in awhile. It dosen't hurt dudes. When you make eye contact with a women you find attractive just give a lilttle smile thats all.
Those wimmins is crazy your a big old teddy bear in my books.
LOL not old just timely challangedScotsman said:Crap I'm old???
Cheers,
Scotsman
I did you just forgotScotsman said:
P.S check out my thread about the tall chick would you hit it?
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[CinnamonBuns]
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Scotsman said:
because they were too scared!
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Scotsman said:Or so I have been told.
I guess not smiling has a lot to do with it.LOL And probably being a big, tattooed, meathead.
Thanks for the heads up ladies.
Cheers,
Scotsman
Meh... It's been my experience that these men are the biggest pussycats with ladies.
Beachboy6294
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You seem like a really nice guy to me!
fistfullofsteel
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big deal. i supposedly creep them out because i'm weird.
Tatyana
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Scotsman said:
It depends on the society you live in.
This is one thing I have noticed that is quite different from North America and Europe.
If a young person starts dressing in an odd, sub-culture way in NA, it is a cause for concern for 90% of parents.
To dress like a bit odd, have strange hair and clothing as a young person is almost expected in Europe, very few get stressed about it, in fact, a lot of moms would do their son's black nail varnish or dye their daughter's hair blue.
Even as people get older, the whole 'looking different' isn't that much of an issue.
I have seen men with mohawks in suits on the train.
All you have to do is move.
I do have an agenda for EF immigration.
Scotsman
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It depends on the society you live in.
This is one thing I have noticed that is quite different from North America and Europe.
If a young person starts dressing in an odd, sub-culture way in NA, it is a cause for concern for 90% of parents.
To dress like a bit odd, have strange hair and clothing as a young person is almost expected in Europe, very few get stressed about it, in fact, a lot of moms would do their son's black nail varnish or dye their daughter's hair blue.
Even as people get older, the whole 'looking different' isn't that much of an issue.
I have seen men with mohawks in suits on the train.
All you have to do is move.
I do have an agenda for EF immigration.
And what might this agenda include?
Also if I move across the pond it would be a bit farther north than where you live.
Cheers,
Scotsman
calveless wonder
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the bigger/more jacked/more intimidating you look...or even if someone is super good looking (that is intimidating in itself)..
the more charismatic and personable you have to be to disarm that assumption. its just the way it works, i dont take it personal anymore
the more charismatic and personable you have to be to disarm that assumption. its just the way it works, i dont take it personal anymore
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