Anyone here dating a stripper?

[mekannik]

Originally Posted by Devastation
jealousy used to be a problem. up until the point i made her quit

MADE who quit?????? better word that better buddy!!!!
the decision ultimatly was mine to quit not yours!!

*grabs bucket of popcorn and diet Coke *

 

[DIVISION]

dun.. dun.. dun...!!!

sad attempt at suspense...

Save the drama fo' ya' mama!!!!!!

NO STRIPPERS!!!!!!!!





DIV

 

[Yarg!]

lol i should have quoted dakota's post first.

 

[Dakotah]

My issue would be that every time she started acting horny or
hot or such with me, I would be wondering is she just "acting" ?

We are great actresses - you never know what you are getting in to because every dancer is different

 

[Razorguns]

Be careful,

most do blow, do other customers, do other strippers...

And when they come home -- put on that facade that they're all innocent, perfect, moral, secure women who are doing this purely for the job and leave it at that.

Reality is the opposite. Sure you may find a good girl there. Sure the relationship might be great. But EVENTUALLY she's gonna have to leave there soon. I've never seen someone date a stripper and she kept working there for the next 15 years. If she did -- eventually it'll mess up her head. The lifespan for women to do stripping and leave with their morals, values, ethics and emotions intact is around 2 years.

I think we can all easily _picture_ that stripper who's been stripping for 12 years and what she looks like.

 

[wutangnomo]

You are scoring big time here, but you are also far out and really missing some points. first of all, whore is a term that has a meaning and has a degrading punsh line. Like someone that sells sex for money would be a whore, someone that does something that isnt with your norms or standards can be named a whore, but dosnt have to be so based on the words meaning. Your personal opinions tells me that you describe the insecurity that everyone sane would have, but there are different ways of dealing with it. No you can never become un-insecure, but you can most of the time look at things in a different way, that makes you cool with it. Something that i manage to do most of the time, but not always, your right.

Madonna picture is somewhat true too i believe, but i do believe that your basic view and opinion of strippers as a stereotyped group is coloring your statements way too much, makes me think you got fucked over or jerked by a stripper at one time and now have been reduced to a bitter pissed of man. Im sure there are loads of humans that are assholes, dosnt mean the human race is assholes tho... =D

Shades.. not just black and white

lol

No bro I've never been with a stripper because I know better. Besides, most men would share my opinion as well. Does that mean we've all been screwed over by strippers? Bad assumption.

This has nothing to do with thinking that humans are assholes. You are getting off topic here.

Think about it. Strippers. Stripping. Taking off clothes for ugly desperate slimy men in a nasty environment with many bad influences. It takes a certain personality type to be a stripper. That type of personality is not the most condusive for relationships. Rationalize it all you want, but your insecurity is proof of it, which I'm sure will continue to grow and grow as the relationship progresses. Good luck though.

 

[DIVISION]

i can always go back to dancing

^^^don't start this shit on the forum, honey....

We both know you aren't like this in real life, so settle the fuck DOWN!

Devastation's word is LAW!



DIV

 

[Dakotah]

^^^don't start this shit on the forum, honey....

We both know you aren't like this in real life, so settle the fuck DOWN!

Devastation's word is LAW!



DIV

funny you say law - too bad the road goes two ways not one
im happy to have quit dancing ad love my man in every way possible - he knows whats up

 

[DIVISION]

funny you say law - too bad the road goes two ways not one

That's why I don't date strippers!!!!!!

I rule the road!




DIV

 

[courtneybcca]

I got annulled over a playboy layout. Men are very uptight about there ladies. I don’t think I could expect my husband to be okay with stripping though. Especially if you are planning to one day have children. But of course you did know what she did when you got together with her. So really you should not want to change her. You made that decision to be with her knowing what she does. So it is really up to her. But I agree that you should not go and see her that would just leave horrible images in your mind.