Anyone else have this problem?

[nutsnack]

Okay I am a 22 year old college student and I have a problem.. Every girl i am ever interested in or persue dating is a fucking idiot.. I consider myself above average intelligence but I have to have a girl that isn't a moron.. I always get these girls that are good looking but have nothing in their head, why the hell can't i get passed the looks!?! Also i'm from a town of like 400,000 people and it was rated in the top 10 of worst places to date

 

[DIVISION]

i'm from a town of like 400,000 people and it was rated in the top 10 of worst places to date

Well there you go, nugga.

The thing you have to master is to discount a woman's looks from the jump. That is, you might find her attractive, but if you let that blind you you'll never see what's underneath. Forget what she looks like and treat her like anyone else. Surely in a town of 400K you're likely to find at least 5 women who are interesting AND attractive.



DIV

 

[CrayonOfDoom2]

Well stop going to the places where you meet them, shit man, go to every library in your city and find the hottest girl, chances are she's read some books.

There you go: above average intelligence.

but I say find a woman with a good heart and a good head, what she knows doesn't matter to me.

sounds like you're searching for a woman with a good memory to me, although I could easily be wrong.

 

[nutsnack]

Well there you go, nugga.

The thing you have to master is to discount a woman's looks from the jump. That is, you might find her attractive, but if you let that blind you you'll never see what's underneath. Forget what she looks like and treat her like anyone else. Surely in a town of 400K you're likely to find at least 5 women who are interesting AND attractive.



DIV

Ya that's my problem i CAN'T look past it it does blind me

 

[DIVISION]

Ya that's my problem i CAN'T look past it it does blind me

First of all, narrow down the women you find attractive, that fit your taste.

Then, concentrate on eye contact and try to forget what they look like, just imagine they are faceless and go from there. You have to block out their beauty if you want to get anywhere.

For me it's easy, I can stare in a woman's eyes all day and not be blinded, that's how I can tell what a woman's about very quickly. Women give away alot of things in their eyes, especially when they lie.




DIV

 

[eat big]

What college do you go to? If its not a very good school the people there wont be smart.

 

[CrayonOfDoom2]

What college do you go to? If its not a very good school the people there wont be smart.

Who gives a fuck, my half lab, half boxer don't give a shit.

okay i'm done with my fallacies!

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

The girl in your avi a genius?

 

[Testosterone boy]

Well there you go, nugga.

The thing you have to master is to discount a woman's looks from the jump. That is, you might find her attractive, but if you let that blind you you'll never see what's underneath. Forget what she looks like and treat her like anyone else. Surely in a town of 400K you're likely to find at least 5 women who are interesting AND attractive.



DIV

Pessimism..........more than 1 in 80,000 women are both attractive and bright.


I have known two and far fewer than 80,000 women.


They are just.............different.