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revexrevex said:sorry to hear that bro. Always sucks to depend on aids like that![]()
True, but we all have our dependencies. This one saves me from falling into depending on the affection of a woman as badly as I would have before. It also saves me from countless other things like reckless, aggressive driving and hardly being able to drink without keeping on going until getting shitfaced drunk.
I see lots of traits such as these and others in people in day-to-day life and here on Elite. Many of them will not consider taking a medication for it and keep on trying to change things in there lives that are actually not the problem at all. Sometimes, when you're feeling down you'll search for a problem to confront, because at least a defined problem is something you can strive to correct. The thought that you can make yourself feel better by doing this or that, even if it brings no lasting joy of peace to your life when it's all said and done, can give a person hope instead of throwing them into despair. You see people doing this their whole life- constantly solving one "problem" after another- never willing to admit that nothing they do brings them any kind of lasting happiness.
Now, that's not to say that that is how everyone is. There are problems in anyone's life, and sometimes the correction of those problems (job, girlfriend, money, family, status, etc.) is a legitimate pursuit and really does have a lasting impact on happiness and self-esteem. There are those who can be pretty happy with life in general and wake up and enjoy most days, yet still strive for greater achievements. I think that is great. There are, however, many who live in misery with happy periods being few and fleeting. Now, I don't know if you even want to define the latter as a problem. I think it's largely just a trait of being human, and it has driven many people to do great things. But hell, they still die having lived most of their lives in anxiety, depression, and with low self-esteem. How important is it if you're mentioned in history books or your face is flashed all over TV if you've never really lived in happiness? You've only got one life. Noone ever said that being human was supposed to be fun, but noone ever said that you had to accept that and live chemical-free, either. When primitive tribes know exactly which plants to use to get high and how to create alcohol, you need look no further to realize that human beings are motivated largely by the desire to relieve tension in its many forms (and it does come in many forms.
That's why everyone has to weigh it out for themselves. If this drug allows me a greater chance of living with a higher level of baseline happiness and a full life span at the same time, without creating an overwhelming financial burden, I'm all for it.
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