Any of you hide your AS use from the wife or girlfriend.

[Small_But_Growing]

Hey Crash,

I had to join this forum just to respond to your question. When I first started thinking about doing steriods I dropped a few hints and things around the hous and noticed that it wouldn't go over very well with her. So, I decided to do it anyway and not tell her. Like you had stated everyone at work seemed to noticed the change in my body, but my girlfriend (now my wife) didn't notice shit. Near the end of the first cycle though she busted me by finding a needle I carelessly left on a bookshelf. She was OK with it but asked that I stop because of the dangers. I did for awhile but couldn't stop so I did the next cycle being carefull not to leave any evidence around. I ran the whle course with everyone but her noticing the changes again. However she did notice that I was sweating a lot more than normal.

To make a long story longer, she sees you everyday and its makes it harder to see the changes. On the otherhand if you went away for a month and came back the changes would be more evident.

I say hide it. Keep supplements around the house, change your diet, get an ECA stack to point to for the sweating, and go for it.

 

[zack(fb)]

you could do a cycle of finaplex. or anything else that you can make into a spray on solution. buy some legal anabolic Sports Skin Tonic or anything like that. Put the finaplex in the spray bottle instead. that way you could do it in front of her and she could not complain cause your doing a legal supp. and your following her desires. when you get big you can just say "you know honey this stuff is really works great." Oh yea don't leave the bottles at home she could pour that stuff down the drain and replace it with water. you can love them but can you trust them?

 

[Ugly_S_Big]

telling my wife

When I first started thinking about the idea of using AAS I approached my wife with it, and she was like, NO WAY. However, she spent 5k on a new pair of boobs, which I love, So I used that as my selling point. I told her that there were alot of people who would say that there are health risks, costs, involoved in getting implants, but that didn't stop her. So, why should I let it stop me. I did my research, and shared everything with her. What drug did what, what the sides were, etc. And would you beleave, she took notes? We discussed it, and I she started coming around. Well, to make a long story shorter, I am on my first cycle, and my wife even does the harpooning for me.

Remember, knowledge is power. Educate her, and you will be fine. Also, dont forget, she may say she is going to leave you, but if she loves you, she wont. and if she does, take that new body, and go find a real hottie, she will see you and decide she fucked up, and you will get a nice peice of tail to bang for a while till she does.

Just my .02

 

[MadMachine]

Crash, crash....crash.... Your not sinking to their level, your simply making the playing field more even. (You know, the reason most athlete use gear...to not give up an advantage.)Don't let her win because you will feel guilty, have pride in your "Guilt" because you have done and gotten away with something you shouldn't...just like she does. You have taken away part of her superiority as a woman...

If she dumps you, do what I did...be upfront.

Even time i started talking to a girl, and i said juiced, straight up. My current girlfriend doesn't care. In fact, she goes through my packages for me, makes sure everything is there, organizes the stuff, and encourages my "Side Business" in the gym with it.

Look at it this way...it's like having something in common with her. Or another way would be that you need to find someone that can respect, and encourage the goals you have and the things y ou like to do. You need the support, trust me, it helps!

 

[athlete03]

I agree with Wicked Mental. Excellent rules to live by. Wife is one thing, girlfriend is another. I told my girlfriend like an idiot. For other reasons she recently broke up with my and now my elegibility is jeaprodized if she opens her mouth. Damnit.

 

[jrodssb]

I told my girl and she broke with me for a week. If she loves you nothing matters. one of my friends is going through the same thing. she keeps finding clues here and there. now she doesn't trust him and she knows that he's lying!! now she wonders what esle he lyes about...
do you want her to see you as scumbag or as someone that she can trust.

 

[hard]

I hide my AS use from my wife and my girlfriend - they both got enough ammo already!

Hard

 

[Jeff_rys]

oh so true MadMachine

quote:
"When a woman says she has no interest in him, or doesn't like him, or brings him up in negative ways ... she wants to fuck his brains out.

When a woman makes 2 hour trips to the store and comes back with one bag... she fucked his brains out.


And Amaf, life is not that simple. It is when you are in your teens. Don't learn the hard way.

Hard, feel free to give us some more info....hehehe

 

[promet1]

TELL NO ONE !!!!!!!

people will discount the hard work you put into the gym and diet !

They have a false sence of AS they think you stick your ass and sit in the lazyboy and grow.

ALSO as far as girlfriend or wife everytime you disagree with them they will blame the Juice !

 

[crash3837]

theman43

You say you are going to marry her, right?

No, never quite said that.
To everyone else thanks for the great replies, its kept me thinking. I will try to educate her on this, but I think what J.Luv said describes it best, especially her
J.Luv

Unless your girlfriend has the time and effort to research and learn about AAS as did 90% of the people on this board, she will always think that you are doing something wrong.

Lots of you said hide it, and I've thought about it alot. The other half said don't hide it. The things that really made me think the most were posts like: If you tell her and she is going to leave you for doing what you want than you are going to have serious problems with that. I highly agree with that. So I eventually when I'm ready, will purpose to her my 2nd cycle and if she wants to leave that is up to her.