Any of you hide your AS use from the wife or girlfriend.

[robertsmith]

ya that a tough one crash. I hear you. I would get the same response form mine. Dugs are wrong because they are illegal. I'm not planning on telling her about my next cycle, but I think it's going to be pretty tough to hide from here. If you want to keep her and want to be honest, just tell her and ask her to deal with it. If she can't, then some of these guys are right and you got more problems with this relationship that meets the eye.

 

[Diesil]

My girls a nurse, she gives me my injections. She might as well know. How the hell am I supposed to explain why I am gaining 20 lbs in 3-4 weeks. I trust her anyway. she aint going to give me any shit anyway or I will tell her to get her bitchass back into the kitchen and fix me some pie

 

[supersonica]

crash, i can sympathize my brutha.
This is what you do, and don't listen to any views that conflict with mine:
Don't tell her, most quality chicks are simply not receptive to anabolic steroid education, so don't bother.
your gonna have to stick to compounds like anavar, primo, winstrol etc for now. you are gonna have to plan your cycles to last longer than you might ordinarily. you can grow on 100mgs of test every week or even ever other week (therapeutic dose) along with the ox or what ever else thrown in, but forget about fina, anadrol, deca, dbol. I am in the same situation, and these are the conclusions i have come up with. Things that help, depending on her level of intelligence: subtly mentioning how hard and well your workouts have been going, convince her you know far more about training techniques and nutrition than the average dude, talk about how some of these know supplements out these days are almost as good as AS, but use discretion, my chick knows nothing of any of this so whatever i tell her she believes, heheheh. think about it, if she thinks your natural, it will be a lot easier for her to convince her friends/acquaintances if they happen to ask. My philosophy is that the women folk only need to know whether or not daddy will be home for christmas, but hey, that's just my opinion, i could be wrong, but not about this, trust me pal.

 

[Romeo78]

Try educating her. Talk about how you were alright on the last cycle and nothing happened but positive results. Maybe show her the Anabolic Review, etc, to see that gear is not something done without research, etc.

And, tell her that you are also doing this for her because you want to keep her.

 

[hard]

Rule 1. Never tell your chick shit
Rule 2. Never tell your chick shit

This will keep your life ALOT simpler!!

h.

 

[Jamesanon250]

she hated it ... now she loves it.

Crash, hey bro my girl got totally pissed when i didnt tell her that i had done gear or that i was going to do it again. When i confessed she said she would leave me if i raged or acted really cocky. But i talked to her about it and said "ill try to do my best not to rage ... but i cant garuntee the cocky attitude part"

now that im on the shit she realizes that its not as bad as the media makes it up to be and she actually has fun with it. Especailly when im on test / d-bol she calls me
"Stay Puff JamesMallow Man"

So i say tell her. I mean if she leaves you over this you dont want to be with her anyway.

 

[theman43]

This probably isn't a popular response, but I say tell her. You say you are going to marry her, right? Well after five years of marriage, I have come to the conclusion that somehow your wife finds out everything! And believe me, you'll have hell to pay if you cycle and she finds out you didn't tell her. Most females are big on the respect thing, and she probably won't feel like you respect her if you're not honest with her.

 

[Auriflex]

Don't say a thing.

I've been married 10yrs now, and I have brought up steroids to her many times. Every time she hears about it, she replies with the "I will divorce you if I find out you're taking steroids." Plain and simple. So essentially for me, the topic is closed.

I told her I was going on a bulking 'plan'. I ate a lot. I talked about eating a lot. And I ate some more. I got bigger. In ten weeks I went from 160lbs to 207lbs. I moaned and groaned about eating - kept saying I'll be glad to diet soon. I was using 600mgs enanthate, and 400mgs of deca a week. Life was good....

Until she rubbed my back one day and felt some acne under my shirt. Just a small patch right between my shoulder blades. I had to move my position from 'hiding' to 'hiding and lying'. She asked me, and I lied. I looked her straight in the eye and lied my ass off. If you hide it - one day you will have to decide to either fess up, or lie to your grave.

It's not an easy choice, it's very individual. Certainly it's more problematic once you've established a life with someone who supposedly trusts you.

I'm not a big fan of burning bridges, so I can't tell you why I would start a fire on the one I'm on. Go figure.

 

[DEI]

My girlfriend asked me the same things about consuming roids, because of the gains I got, but I told her it was a result of my supplements, as far as she saw the amount of them, the shakes I drink, and the number of meals I do she got kind of satisfied with the answer, anyway any time I have I tell her about the benefits of the roids, and how to use them to avoid the hard side effects, in my next cycle she will start wondering again about my gains, so some day I will have to tell her the truth, but while I am educating her to have wide perspectives in this issue and to look at the benefits, hoping her to get used to the gear before I tell her the complete truth.

Lets remember our opinion of roids before starting to learn about them, so lets teach first.

In regards to my girlfriend issue, I was thinking about telling her to check this message board for her to learn about excercise and diet, but then I thought she would recognize me because of my signature and some stuff, and besides the roids I dont want her to find out the stuff I write in the "between the sheets" board, so lets see what happen.

 

[J.Luv]

Take my word for it. Unless your girlfriend has the time and effort to research and learn about AAS as did 90% of the people on this board, she will always think that you are doing something wrong. People fear what they don't understand. I told my girlfriend about my second cycle, but believe me - I shouldn't have. The only people that should really know is your lifiting/injecting partner and your doctor. All else causes unwanted grief.

Rule 1. Never tell your chick shit
Rule 2. Never tell your chick shit

"IT"S CREATINE, I SWEAR"