it took a long time, but after showing her some hard facts, explaining to her about gear and what "this one is good for" and "what that one is good for" she started to come around. i explained every aspect of my cycle to her, including the anti-es and clomid, along with the test, etc,etc. bottom line was this- knowledge is power, and since she knew what i was putting in my body, she was definitely more receptive to idea.
if you dont tell her, she will continue to believe the myths and misconceptions surrounding steroid use, and it will be a constant wall between you.
peace bb79