any married men go out without their wife once a week?

[CASS]

just curious..

yes

 

[javaguru]

just curious..

Define "going out?" My best friend goes out from after work until about 8:00- 9:00 once a week to the sports bar with a few of us guys. To a night club/ meat market...never.

 

[Smurfy]

wifey just gets mad when i go out with my friends.. i dont see why its such a big deal.. she expected me to completely quit going out once we got married.. shit just aint gonna happen.. and it aint even once a week its more like once a month.. but whatever.. i'm in the doghouse.. and i'm sad...

maybe she doesnt like what you do when you go out? and maybe she doesnt trust you.

 

[Smurfy]

lol @ the suggestion of calling to check in hahahahaha

my husband has gone out after work for happy hour a few times, and he has called me while he was out, but not at my request - just to touch base and give me a rough estimate of his ETA. It's not something I worry about. And he certainly isnt at a point in his life where he feels the need to 'escape' once a week and go get hammered. if he did - then to me that's a relationship red flag

 

[heavy_duty]

The ladies in this thread don't realize their husbands are out getting lap dances from totally naked 23 year old girls

 

[Phaded]

going out = predrinking either here or at a buds and then going to a club from like 12 am to 2 am.. ya i dont think she trusts me either.. oh well.. i'm gonna start having to sign release forms weeks prior to going out..

 

[javaguru]

What could a married man possibly be doing at a club between 12:00 and 2:00 AM..hmmmm. I know it isn't hanging out and chatting with your buddies because the music is so loud you can barely hear someone screaming. Is it because you just "want to dance with your friends," like married women/girlfriends claim? No, guys don't go out to just dance with each other, most hate dancing. So I wonder, what could possibly be the attraction.....Hmmmm, why would she be concerned????

 

[Phaded]

i look at other girls and talk to them but it doesn't go beyond that no i dont dance.. me and my friends are more worried about finishing our bottles than dancing..

 

[javaguru]

i look at other girls and talk to them but it doesn't go beyond that no i dont dance.. me and my friends are more worried about finishing our bottles than dancing..

She doesn't want you flirting. I've never done a guys night to a nightclub, I've always taken my GF...it can be a blast, if you get along...

 

[Phaded]

She doesn't want you flirting. I've never done a guys night to a nightclub, I've always taken my GF...it can be a blast, if you get along...

doubt thats what it is.. she says she gets mad cause she works her ass off all day and doesn't like t ocome home to an empty house..