Any advice on what i should about my ex?

[kunta]

Ok well she broke it off with me like 4 months ago and we had been together for a yr and a half, saying that she wanted to date other people bs...well we still talk everyone once a while and still likes seeing me bs, only thing is that i'm tired of this. Reason why is just doing this makes me want to be with her again cause she is the kind of girl i'd wanna have a serious relationship with. But she drags it along by saying that if she was gonna have a boyfriend now it would be me. Should I just cut it off and tell her we shouldn't talk anymore as friends or just keep it as is?

 

[SeXKiTTen_CanDy]

Listen Up Dammit - You men just don't get it.

Ok, this situation sounds like a mate of mines…

She broke it off with her guy, cuz she wanted to be a fuckin tart and muck around with other fella’s etc, but she still talks to her ex, and still says she wants him etc, and hell I think they still even sleep together…. She just doesn’t want to let go of this guy, even though she doesn’t want to be with him anymore, she is plain SELFISH.

(The guys is being like you - holding onto something he really doesn't have anymore AND HE CAN'T BLOODY SEE WHAT SHE IS DOING TO HIM)

I think your ex might become sort of jealous if you want to be with other chicks, so she is keeping you on a thread sayin she still wants your ass etc, she is being selfish. Trust me, if she really wanted to be with you etc, she’d be with you now… She is pulling you along, it’s time to get rid of her… She is nuttin but heartache and trouble. She may be usin you as a 'back-up', say she don't get other guys, she runs back to you.

Listen Up when I say this:

SAY GOODBYE SHE IS A SELFISH BITCH.

 

[kunta]

yeah i tap her ass, pisses me off cause sometimes she'll be all over me and other times she won't, don't understand it.. as with other girls she knows the girls that i go out with and asks questions about them and shit like that, also one of her friends just moved right next to one of the girls i'm dating so i know she hears stuff from her too. crazy girls....

 

[kunta]

yeah winny i know what your talking about, the 2 others i'm with let me nail them whenever i want, i just come over take care of business and leave, good since i don't have to spend any money on them, but with her, i just wanna be with her, you know what i'm talking about?

 

[Night Fly]

I think you should listen to Candy on this one...she seems to know exactly what she is talking about.

 

[kunta]

yeah i hear, its just hard you know, but i think i'm gonna do it, last time i told her something like this she pulled some bullshit on me and start crying to me and shit, telling me she doesn't want to be in a commited relationship since she's still in school..

 

[kunta]

lol yeah of course, nothing like nailing 2 in one day, kinda hard to do three though,,,made the mistake a few months ago of saying that i'd wanna be with her...dumb me eh