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The Darkness
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Hi bros, im quite new to Elite
I know elite is all about training etc, but I was hoping for some advice on a girl issue, sorry for the size of this thing.
I met this girl in a club last year and we talked for hours, however she said she had a boyfriend, so I didnt push anything, in the end she took my number and i said to her look me up sometime.
January i got a text from her saying she had gotten msn at work, so i added her and we started chatting, by this time I'd forgotten what she looked like and was giving it the dont really care attitude. What started as chatting occasionally built up to chatting everyday, we got on so well, then she started texting me more often, phoning me, I was still giving her the dont care attitude (since she had a man). Next she texts me every night, good night sleep well blah blah. I'm trying to keep my distance, but then she starts saying things like you have to come meet me and that she is falling for me big time, I said no i'm not coming down, so she mentions sex and that shes having sex with the wrong guy (her boyfriend shes been with for 2 years) and it should be me but she has to meet me again and that she might leave her boyfriend.
Anyway it started getting to me, so I thought fuck this i'll go meet her, well this was great until i actually saw her, and holy shit she was hot, the dont care attitude kind of went out of the window there. At this point her bf had gone away for a month, she was like come down and stay over you can be my teddy bear, so i said nope i dont do that, I dont mess with guys girls.
We got on well, then her man comes back and things go back to before, i cant handle it anymore so i tell her how i feel about her (she was telling me this in the beginning and i was ignoring it so i figured it was time to tell her), she was like well im trying to give it another go with my bf (he went away for 7 months and never even went to see her once) and that i shouldnt expect anything, so i tell her shes messing with my head and she says well its not her fault i cant handle the truth that she wants to be with me etc etc.
She pissing me off, then she tells me we are just friends FOR NOW and i should stop pressuring her. I told her I did not want to be just friends with her. This got brought up like 3 times, in the end she said anymore discussions about relationships etc and she wont contact me. Next she starts bringing up the shit with her man saying shes optimistic about it, I tell her I think he is a jerk and tell her I'm not interested in that shit anymore.
Ive gone back to the dont care attitude again, I ignored her at work today, i told her I was busy and pretty much ignored her all day, which she wasent v.happy about but who cares.
Anyway, this is blah blah blah
I like this girl, alot, but I feel she is fucking with me, should I stay friends or should I kick her to the curb?? I am actually a nice guy, but its shit like this that makes me think that being that way is a waste of time.
Everything all the pressure she put on in the beginning, I ignored, and it made her want me more, then when I tell her I feel the same way, she kicks it back in my face saying I shouldnt pressure her and shouldnt be optimistic, wtf??!! Yet before she sends me texts telling me what she is doing in the bath about sex all kinds of shit. She always says her boyfriend acts twice his age and is boring and they never chat to each other.
This is what you get for being honest.
Whats everyoens opinion??? AGain VERY sorry for the size of this thing.
I know elite is all about training etc, but I was hoping for some advice on a girl issue, sorry for the size of this thing.
I met this girl in a club last year and we talked for hours, however she said she had a boyfriend, so I didnt push anything, in the end she took my number and i said to her look me up sometime.
January i got a text from her saying she had gotten msn at work, so i added her and we started chatting, by this time I'd forgotten what she looked like and was giving it the dont really care attitude. What started as chatting occasionally built up to chatting everyday, we got on so well, then she started texting me more often, phoning me, I was still giving her the dont care attitude (since she had a man). Next she texts me every night, good night sleep well blah blah. I'm trying to keep my distance, but then she starts saying things like you have to come meet me and that she is falling for me big time, I said no i'm not coming down, so she mentions sex and that shes having sex with the wrong guy (her boyfriend shes been with for 2 years) and it should be me but she has to meet me again and that she might leave her boyfriend.
Anyway it started getting to me, so I thought fuck this i'll go meet her, well this was great until i actually saw her, and holy shit she was hot, the dont care attitude kind of went out of the window there. At this point her bf had gone away for a month, she was like come down and stay over you can be my teddy bear, so i said nope i dont do that, I dont mess with guys girls.
We got on well, then her man comes back and things go back to before, i cant handle it anymore so i tell her how i feel about her (she was telling me this in the beginning and i was ignoring it so i figured it was time to tell her), she was like well im trying to give it another go with my bf (he went away for 7 months and never even went to see her once) and that i shouldnt expect anything, so i tell her shes messing with my head and she says well its not her fault i cant handle the truth that she wants to be with me etc etc.
She pissing me off, then she tells me we are just friends FOR NOW and i should stop pressuring her. I told her I did not want to be just friends with her. This got brought up like 3 times, in the end she said anymore discussions about relationships etc and she wont contact me. Next she starts bringing up the shit with her man saying shes optimistic about it, I tell her I think he is a jerk and tell her I'm not interested in that shit anymore.
Ive gone back to the dont care attitude again, I ignored her at work today, i told her I was busy and pretty much ignored her all day, which she wasent v.happy about but who cares.
Anyway, this is blah blah blah
I like this girl, alot, but I feel she is fucking with me, should I stay friends or should I kick her to the curb?? I am actually a nice guy, but its shit like this that makes me think that being that way is a waste of time.
Everything all the pressure she put on in the beginning, I ignored, and it made her want me more, then when I tell her I feel the same way, she kicks it back in my face saying I shouldnt pressure her and shouldnt be optimistic, wtf??!! Yet before she sends me texts telling me what she is doing in the bath about sex all kinds of shit. She always says her boyfriend acts twice his age and is boring and they never chat to each other.
This is what you get for being honest.
Whats everyoens opinion??? AGain VERY sorry for the size of this thing.
