An update on my life

[Lestat]

Yeah... yeah... the NON diet kind... LOL...


Seriously though letstat - when you got blown off, it was natural to feel a bit defeated and want to run back to what you had.

Don't do it, stop thinking about her. Remember she is the one that did this to you in the first place. Stick through this, you will find someone... it doesn't happen overnight. And you will be much better for it.

Just remember... that crap she pulled on you was total BS and you deserve better.

yeah I know i deserve better...

but many people don't get what they deserve in life... sad but true.

 

[Lestat]

i understand where you are coming from, Once you have love you never want to go without it. hang in there, here is one way to think about it. Some people go through life and never experence what you allready have. it will come to you.....

yes.. having it then losing it definitely creates a big void.

I wonder if it is really true.. "tis better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all.."

I think that is true in the case where you lose a loved one to death... because like ive said before you know they went to their grave loving you.. but when you get your heart ripped up.. that's a little different situation.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

Everyone gets in a blah mood sometimes....
You'll find what you're looking for eventually.

 

[jh1]

I wonder if it is really true.. "tis better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all.."

I have thought this and lived this a few times.... I hated love when I lost it...


But look man... I am so happy now it isn't even funny.... ups and downs....

Hang tough

 

[Lestat]

one day I'll get there.. I just thought I would be there by now.

 

[jerseyart]

OMG

SK was right. WTF

I know what your feeling bro. It will happen,a dn then all this will seem silly. Are you sure though that chick is blowing you off. Maybe she is serious about whats goin on in her life. Frankly the same things happen to me from time to time. Shit just happens

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

I wonder if it is really true.. "tis better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all.."

I think this is true. It's about time, and how you spend it in life.
If you spent more time with love and happyness then grief and heartbrokenness, then you have accumulated a postive emotional balance. People who love and marry live longer, healthier, and happier. I'm going by statistics, I've only seen one side of the spectrum.

 

[velvett]

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I apologize for being so out of touch. I was studying really hard all weekend through yesterday and had a really restless night tuesday night. Well, it progressively got worse after the final and I finally spent all last night in the urgent care with a kidney infection, yay. My back was just killing me that I could barely move, so I'm pretty much down for the count for awhile. My godparents are staying for a week starting friday night so I won't be able to make it on saturday with you. I'm sorry it's been so tough to get together, life is just crazy. Here I thought summer was supposed to be relaxing and boring! Well, I gotta run to the pharamacy to get some anti-biotics (told you I was accident-prone) talk to you soon!
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This was the one girl that I was excited about, a girl that "wowed" me.. but this email above is a basic blowoff... I didn't even get this until after 2 phone calls and 2 emails (over the course of 9 days).

That's a blow off?

If she wanted to blow you off why would she be bothered responding at all?

 

[Lestat]

That's a blow off?

If she wanted to blow you off why would she be bothered responding at all?

Here is the timeline:

Few weeks ago, met for dinner. Great convo... she said call her.

We emailed back and forth a bit, then a week or two later she came over to my house for dinner. Great time, even more good conversation, the night ended with a great goodnight kiss.

I emailed her the next day, said I had a great time. She replied back said she had a great time as well. I emailed back saying I know she's busy with finals, but I'll try to sneak a call in sometime and feel free to call me if she needs a study break.

Didn't hear from her since thursday, so Saturday night I gave her a quick call just to say hi and i hope things were well... left a message on voicemail.

No word again so I called last night 4 days later and left a voicemail saying I hope everything turned out ok, and invited her to do something saturday.

No call back that day, but then again she was in urgent care.

So I just sent her a quick email today saying I hoped everything was ok..

then I got the response.

I will send a quick reply back, telling her I hope she feels better soon and what not, but I got the impression from that email and her actions that she wasn't so interested.

 

[jerseyart]

I said it first bitch. Just because she's prettier you respond to her post and not mine?