am i a jerk???

[satchboogie]

went out on a few dates with this really sweet girl.
she's awesome in many ways.. but she's a little chubby.

i've been tryina get her into working out but she's not into it..
says shes comfy how she looks..

but being a bb'er i just cant be witha chubby girl that has no aspirations of improving her physique.

so i told her its off!

i feel bad..
but it was the truth.

 

[wnt2bBeast]

ur being too hard on yourself..lol you aint the first and sure wont be the last to dump a chic for her physical appearance..depends on what u were looking for in the first place..its about compatability..whats gonna happen when ur eating chicken and egg whites for weeks on end and she wants pizza and ice cream? gonna be hard for you to stick with your diet..

 

[E-Swift25]

No, fat people need to be given it straight. Besides, if she's chubby now, she'll be a lard ass when she gets older. Or you could sprinkle some DNP powder on her donuts.

 

[Lenas25]

Damn, you should've given her a chance.

Maybe there is more to her that her body. Eventually she would've warmed up to the gym if you introduced here there couple of times.

Depends how much she liked you, maybe she would've done it not to lose you but you didnt get that far bro. Anyways there is lotsa girls around and given the fact that you look like you do in your Avatar there should be no problem for you to pick up any chicks, and since you like FIT ones give girls in the gym a try.

 

[Mr. Black]

The way I see it is if you'r not a chubber then why should you settle for anything less? Plus your interests obviously lie with bodybuilding and maintaining a healthy physique...if she's not into that whole scene, there would be many more future complications. Find a woman that takes care of herself and you'll be off to a good start...

 

[Big Rick Rock]

For some reason women kinda competitive when they see a good looking guy with a Not so good looking girl. She might not have made a good partner but I bet you some OJ she would have been a good tool to help you draw in better quality poohn tang.

 

[lil nasty]

i've been tryina get her into working out but she's not into it..
says shes comfy how she looks..

Hi....I am sure most women would call you a jerk but take it from someone who knows first hand, I let my weight get way out of hand (my husband is a BBL), it created nothing but trouble (we were both miserable) I finally got my shit together and have lost 50 lbs. I am becoming a machine in the gym, I finally get it! Oh and I have to say the recent Var cycle I did made me a true member.

N

"Everyone wants to be a bodybuilder but ain't nobody wants to push no damn heavy weight" The "Big Nasty"......Ronnie Coleman

 

[sawastea]

How was her personality? HAHA

Time to move on...

Good move. Sawastea would've done the same thing

 

[jubei]

^so would jub

 

[Clean]

fuck that bitch

 

[jeb0177]

hey Satch, I think (not about love) we deserve good looking chicks and not fat, chubby girls, we work and work and work our asses in the gym and eating like clean like pigs just to look good. and they cannot do anything for us??? and for them???? fuck that! IMO!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Deterass]

No Fat Chicks!!

 

[Werd]

Actaully I think that you just weren't into her all that much and the weight/no interest in the gym thing just kind of was the clincher.

If you are into someone, their looks may make you take things a bit more slowly but ultimately will not be a deterant.

If you are NOT into someone, their looks may draw you initially but will not keep you there.

 

[satchboogie]

No, fat people need to be given it straight. Besides, if she's chubby now, she'll be a lard ass when she gets older. Or you could sprinkle some DNP powder on her donuts.

lmfao!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Deterass]

 

[Y_lifter]

I bet she can cook really well...

 

[wizardnor]

ur being too hard on yourself..lol you aint the first and sure wont be the last to dump a chic for her physical appearance..depends on what u were looking for in the first place..its about compatability..whats gonna happen when ur eating chicken and egg whites for weeks on end and she wants pizza and ice cream? gonna be hard for you to stick with your diet..

i agreed my wife make it hard on me, pizza & cake. BOOO!
but she trying to change her appearance

 

[mystic_man]

I look at it this way.. Its hard to be "into" somoene unless your attracted to them. And being chubby is a major dent in the attractive meter. To me as shallow as it sounds.. Hell yeah she better look good. Personally I find chubiness and someone that doesnt take care of themself on the outside to be an extreme turnoff. She can have the greatest peronality all day long and be nice all she wants but if she looks like Jabba the Hutt.. well I dunno I guess some people its easy to just close your eyes and pretend they are in awesome shape.. Me.. Ill take the real thing.. If she really likes you.. she would listen and go to the gym with ya.. I mean jeez, its actually to improve yourself... Its not like its that big of a deal.. I would do it for a girl if she asked.. If not I would move on brother.. find a girl that shares more of the same interests you do..

 

[Themachine01]

My girl, fiance, is not into working out at all, not even a little, I gave up trying. She has a naturally great body, guess Im lucky that way. She does diet though with me and studies nutrition just as much as I do. Sure it bothers me sometimes that she isnt into working out, but I get over it. If she didnt give me support when it comes to bodybuilding or gave me shit about my training or dieting than that would be a different story.

 

[satchboogie]

to not work out and have a nice body is a gift...
but to not work out and look chubby is a sorry ass weakness that i cannot in a milion years accept!

 

[Big Rick Rock]

What degree of chubby are we talking about here?

little baby fat? Chuncky curvy? Lardy but lovely? so fat you take her to the movie theater and she is sitting next to everybody?

Give us a clue here.

 

[PIGEON-RAT]

hey, if you weren't attracted to her, then there's no point in being with her. someone shouldn't have to change themselves to suit your whims.

 

[satchboogie]

BRR..

she wasnt a fat ass..
but definitely 'chunky curvy'..

i'm used to fine ass chics with big tits and 25 inch waists.
smack that ass left and right and take control!

with a chunky woman, i wouldnt even know where to start..
fuck all that!

 

[jubei]

If you have to force yourself to like her its not worth it! You made the right choice.

 

[Cornobbled]

I have done that so many times. Usually after I fucked them though so I am a jerk. Just can't get over the fact that they do not even want to try to improve themselves.

 

[jubei]

^^laziness.

 

[wnt2bBeast]

BRR..

she wasnt a fat ass..
but definitely 'chunky curvy'..

i'm used to fine ass chics with big tits and 25 inch waists.
smack that ass left and right and take control!

with a chunky woman, i wouldnt even know where to start..
fuck all that!

i like my girls with a rice and beans kinda ass lol