*~*~*~*After 2 weeks of dating, he tells me he loves me*~*~*~*

[Bikini Mod]

OK... I am REAL LIT after calming down from a HYUGE fight w/the someday-2-B ex... I think I will be trapped in marital hell for THE REST OF MY FUCKING LIFE....

Anyways,

I knew after I dated my ex after two weeks that I loved him and wanted to marry him... I loved him with every fiber of my being until the night my head hit the ground in early 2001... that was four children, a LOT OF TOUGH TIMES and 12 years later.

I was barely 21.

I have only loved one other since (I knew him for MANY months PURELY as friends until we crossed the line so perhaps it was just a bit different) and that wounded me even worse than my marriage as I feel that over the course of my marriage all was fair as we did it to each other... My last lover knew full well what he was doing and DID IT ANYWAY...

C'est la vie! eh?

Now I don't even want to be kissed and I have A FEW grown men "loving" me and wanting "to have a life with me"...

I give up.....

I agree that I would also be uncomfortable about the guy not wanting to date other girls.. I have told ALL of these guys that I am not looking for Mr Right or even Mr Right Now. And these guys are spending waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more money. I don't feel not one bit guilty.

 

[athlete21m]

The truth is you never know when its love. I knew i loved my girlfriend from the moment i saw her and told her a couple weeks in, she told me not to use that word. So it took some time and 5 years later here we are still madly in love and the best of friends. It happend when i first hit college and it sucks that i had to meet my future love of my life so soon but looking back i wouldnt trade it for the world. But man it was rough being a athlete and staying loyal to the same chick as my friends screwed with whatever they wanted. Oh well such is life.

 

[-SD-]

Give him another 2 weeks and he might change his mind...

;-P just kidding =)

L fuckin O L bro
B-mom, do you ever quit ranting? We get it already.

 

[Bikini Mod]

OK... as long as yall promise no more "girls are all evil fucked up bitches who play us NICE GUYS" threads.

 

[Mdguy]

Two weeks is a short time to say you're in LOVE, but do as you say, tell him that you want to date other people and you don't want to get serious so early in the relationship. See how it pans out-give him a chance, but if he starts getting jealous and/or possessive then he has self esteem problems and it then would be in your best interests to get rid of him at that point. Just my opinion.........

 

[Austin316]

Yea ummm 2 weeks, I think its infatuation because like Pink said, how can he possibly know enough about you in two weeks to truly love you, Ive used it on one person and that took months and I tried to fight it lol, when I say that word I mean it with everything in me

Id ask him how he can love you in so short of time and make him examine things

Dating, bah to that anyways I think I got burned myself this week or maybe she's just real busy like she said she might I dunno I just hate waiting on a stupid phone call

 

[Stan O'Zolol]

Have you had sex with him? This is an important question believe it or not.

Two weeks is too soon to tell you in my opinion. Even if he does feel it, he should be smart enough to realize he shouldn't have said it so soon. For one, his feelings could change. Two, he could spook you, which he seems to have. Not a wise decision in my opinion.

Also, it has been my experience that people like this can be dangerous. For example, if he can love you so soon, how long would it take for him to fall in love with someone else? My guess is about the same amount of time.

 

[Sexual Mustard]

OK... as long as yall promise no more "girls are all evil fucked up bitches who play us NICE GUYS" threads.

Hehe, if that's the deal then keep ranting! Because I sure as hell won't stop bitching... LOL

 

[danielson]

Give him another 2 weeks and he might change his mind...

;-P just kidding =)

he was open with you.....do be the same with him but be gentle and firm about it.

tell him that you are very fond of him but you don;t think love is a word you should throw around lightly and should be used only when you really know the person, all the gifts are nice but not necessary. then give him a kiss. unless he;s a complete fag he should be o.k., he must have realised u dont feel mutual by now

just as long as he knows you;re seeing other people......

 

[cure]

I'm sorry but who's to say how long it takes until you fall in love with someone? I met my girlfriend 4 years ago and for the first 2 weeks we spent most of the day and evening together. I loved being with her and her type of character and her as a person. She was genuine, loving, caring and honest. I was debating whether to tell her i loved her after 2 weeks.

So 1 night we were just lying together, fully clothed, and she turns to me and says that she loves the time we spend together and that she is falling in love with me. 4 years later we are still together and i love her even more as everyday passes. After 6 months of going out i knew her history, family, her likes in music, clothing but why would this influence if i loved her or not. I got to understand the small things about her as time went on but love wise i was hers after a short period of time.

I was also the type to go out all the time, have multiple partners and was about 22 years old. When you find that right person, you just know. Jen, you might not be sure of yourself but he might so be careful and don't go breaking his heart.