*~*~*~*After 2 weeks of dating, he tells me he loves me*~*~*~*

[HumorMe]

The real question here is has he gotten in your pants?

If yes, then he is saying to make sure he continues to get in there.

If no, then he is saying it to get in there.

But at his age which I am guessing is early 20s I don't think this is particularly unusual. More lust, than love, but it is real to him.

I think Schweeler said it best!

 

[Bikini Mod]

Hehe, if that's the deal then keep ranting! Because I sure as hell won't stop bitching... LOL

It is ALL GOOD my brotha! hehehehehe

All men ARE NOT dogs...

just as

All women are not crazy using hos....

 

[daveyboy]

Hi Jen. You're probably going to have to bite the bullet & tell him to slow down a little bit. Tell him that you like him & everything but your just not ready to make a committment at this point. Hopefully he'll back off a little & give you some space. Sounds like a nice guy but probably overdoing it just a little. Go easy on him.....

 

[madbomber31]

wow, that must suck to be loved...

no, wait... what must suck is that he opened up and you havent had the nerve to tell him you dont feel the same... MAYBE he is immature and hasnt been in love before... BUT, you ARE being immature by not putting a stop to things.. dont necessarily stop seeing him, but set him straight before you crush the guy.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

Didn't know what to tell him. I do like him alot, and I care about him, but LOVE, its kind of hard to go that route right now. He knows I'm dating other guys too---but, he is by far the one I like the best....

Now, every time I see him, he tells me he loves me, and it makes me uncomfortable big time. He gives me cards, flowers, and a "Build a bear", teddy bear which is so cute, but I'm not sure if I want to date him and only him right now. Its very hard for me, because I do like him, but I feel that I need to date. He calls me all the time, and wants to see me EVERY DAY. Its very hard to be upfront with him because I don't want to hurt him.

He tells me he has never felt so strong about anyone, and the only way he can descibe it is with the word love.......

Man o man, what to do! never had a guy tell me he loved me-

I told him that I want to keep dating him and see what happens, but I'm not "with him" right now. It bugs me that hes not dating anyone else because he only wants me, but I'm dating others....

This is why you treat them like garbage.

 

[Austin316]

Yea guess he really could be in love I just don't get how from what uve posted but its not me, it shim...but yea make sure your upfront about it, heartbreak is about the most god awful Im sick and wanna die feeling there is lol it just sux

 

[sigweed]

alright im gonna tell it like it is. Maybe the guy actually feels like he loves you, but chances are he just likes you a lot. If you don't feel the same, then theres nothing you can do, and the longer you're with him, the harder its gonna be on him when you decide you like one of the other guys your dating better.
which leads me to my next point. Its never happened to me, but if i found out the girl i was dating, was dating other people, I'd tell her to go fuck herself that dumb tramp, and leave for good. fuck that! I'm all about playing the field, but if theres someone I wanna date, I dont think its cool at all that i date other people at the same time. This isn't the 5th wheel or the Bachelorette where you start off with 18 guys and work down to one... just find one you like and stick with it. It'll turn into one hell of a better relationship that way.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

btw, i don't love you jen. can you give me some head? j/k, don't get your panties in an uproar.

 

[vinylgroover]

alright im gonna tell it like it is. Maybe the guy actually feels like he loves you, but chances are he just likes you a lot. If you don't feel the same, then theres nothing you can do, and the longer you're with him, the harder its gonna be on him when you decide you like one of the other guys your dating better.
which leads me to my next point. Its never happened to me, but if i found out the girl i was dating, was dating other people, I'd tell her to go fuck herself that dumb tramp, and leave for good. fuck that! I'm all about playing the field, but if theres someone I wanna date, I dont think its cool at all that i date other people at the same time. This isn't the 5th wheel or the Bachelorette where you start off with 18 guys and work down to one... just find one you like and stick with it. It'll turn into one hell of a better relationship that way.

Fucking well said

 

[Taps]

I'll be blunt: It doesn't matter if he loves you or not. What matters, is do you love him?

Obviously from your original post, you do not. So you can either drag things out (which is a cowardly thing to do) or put a stop to the relationship. To keep dating him, even tho you "kind of like him" really isn't fair.

Telling him to back off a bit won't work. Love is not only blind, it's stupid too.

I've never been in love, so maybe I'm just talking out of my ass. I dunno..