Acting Girlie....

[AGENT SHAGWELL]

OK I'm chatting with my friend about girls acting girlie around guys. He says I'm very feminine but I need to act more "soft" around guys. Well to me, being soft brings up the idea of the silly girls acting dumb to make men feel more superior. I dunno, maybe I'm wrong....what does acting more soft mean?

 

[decibel]

i'd like a bitch strong enough to make me get down on my knees and lick her high heels.

 

[The Shadow]

OK I'm chatting with my friend about girls acting girlie around guys. He says I'm very feminine but I need to act more "soft" around guys. Well to me, being soft brings up the idea of the silly girls acting dumb to make men feel more superior. I dunno, maybe I'm wrong....what does acting more soft mean?

LMAO!!!


Since that came from a guy it means "don't be so opinionated and let the guy be the guy".

 

[AGENT SHAGWELL]

i'd like a bitch strong enough to make me get down on my knees and lick her high heels.

hello...hello...

 

[WODIN]

I think you should have bitch slapped him and said "That's my soft side, if I had wanted to get butch on your ass, I would have used brass up side your skull!"

 

[AGENT SHAGWELL]

I think you should have bitch slapped him and said "That's my soft side, if I had wanted to get butch on your ass, I would have used brass up side your skull!"

I luv you guys....

I'm not soft I'm firm

 

[kitKat]

Agent Shagwell read this: http://www.idatesmart.com/datingtips/dtalpha2.shtml


By the way being feminine can be a calm thing not acting like the little girls do all silly and stupid...in fact it is much better. I don't in anyway mean being a doormat though.

 

[AGENT SHAGWELL]

Kit Kat.....this is what I got from you link:

True Me--->Alpha females are not soft and feminine, even though they look it and dress accordingly.

BS--->It's masculine to be hard, aggressive, combative and tough. It's feminine to be soft, receptive, harmonious, and vulnerable


BS---->Men seek women to make them feel whole. Being with a woman abates their aggression and relieves their hardness. Men know, on a conscious or subconscious level, that a woman's femininity completes their masculinity. That's why they are always seeking a woman and feminine energy...(I WANT A MAN THAT CAN FEEL WHOLE ALL ON HIS OWN


True...and BS--->Men are simple. They just want to protect, provide for and serve their woman. But it can't happen if she is totally self-sufficient.

 

[strongchick]

interesting link, kitkat.

But....

Accept me as me, dammit! Femininity is not necessarily vulnerability. A man can be masculine and vulnerable, true?

Although I can be described as feminine, my persona says "strength". If I have to compromise my strength, I am less of who I am.

Manipulating men is easy...just be who they want you to be...but getting one you can love and live with is difficult...they have to accept you as you are. I prefer to have a lasting friendship with someone who likes me as I am.

 

[AGENT SHAGWELL]

interesting link, kitkat.
Manipulating men is easy...just be who they want you to be...but getting one you can love and live with is difficult...they have to accept you as you are. I prefer to have a lasting friendship with someone who likes me as I am.

You speak the truth sista!